Woman: it doesnt mata how long u knew ur man bfor u marry him...but first of all GO GET A JOB ( i wonder why most married women choose not to get somtin doing) secondly, you need to work on yourself first bfore you start laying accusations on your husband.. bfore he started naggigging u must have had some habbits he doesnt seem to be liking ...u talked about him nagging//complaining abt the dishes.. why wont he complain abt the dishes(ofcoursce he is supposed to assist in d kitchen..but u aint working, so .. if you dont wash them .. soon rats and cockroaches will becom permanent visitors in your home.....on the aspect of his listening to ppl outside ur home.. its very bad.. for me i dont think your husband is controlling...hear urself well.. u said ***u r not used to ppl disrespecting u*** are u domineering urself? **just asking* cos that phrase sounds funny to me.. u see.. marriage has its ups and downs.. couples who live happily evr after still quarell, dey
fight, dey argue, dey tolerate, if faults are not found in a marriage relationship.. how then can dos faults be repaired and then the marriage be alive again?
Many marriages suffer because spouses are holding on to past mistakes, past failures, past disappointments, past heartbreaks, past rejections & past relationships. You cannot revisit the past & undo the hurtful wrong that happened. You cannot unwind the hands of time. You cannot erase the scars. But you can choose to forgive, trust God & move on. No marriage can ever see a better future without letting go of the past. Every marriage has some degree of regrettable past. But the successfully married practice daily forgiveness on the altar of prayer. Don’t build a monument of your spouse’s past sin in your heart & when you’re wrong don’t be too proud to apologize. Give your marriage a new breath of life. Today; let-go & forgive your spouse for everything in the past. “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32. Yes, You can do it.a little tips from me to u and every other unhappy couple reading this::::
1. Look on the bright side always try to be as positive and optimistic as you can be. A spouse's positive attitude leads to positive behaviors and a more satisfying relationship. Marriage and happiness will go hand-in-hand for you.
2. Talk often and be honest with your spouse don't play communication games.
3. If you think of yourself as being superior to your spouse, better get some help for your marriage. A perceived sense of superiority can trash a relationship fast!
4. Take time to have fun and be kids again remain youthful and avoid taking yourselves too seriously!
5. If you have an argument or melt-down, repair the problem quickly be quick to understand, forgive and forget.
6. Be responsible for your own happiness and avoid blaming your spouse for your problems or unhappiness.
7. Learn to respond effectively to your spouse when you feel he/she is making you unhappy or upset. Avoid responses that will worsen the situation.
8. Give big problems or serious issues time to heal.
9. Avoid forcing changes upon your partner. Offer support and inspiration, but trust him/her to make needed changes. Don't nag or pressure your spouse, and watch your marriage and happiness grow together!
10. Put your best foot forward remember to strive to be your best every single day. Make sure you don't stop being polite and sensitive just because you got married. Don't stop listening. Don't start being a slob or acting like a lazy bum! Treat your spouse like the special person he/she really is . . . and don't stop, ever!
On the other hand.. if you dont feel like Staying anymore.. TAKE A WALK.. Ur happiness matters alot to you..
Be watchful.. Takia of the Kids.. With Love from #sophiebaby#
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