I`m a victim of this evil landlord at Alapere pls my pals what should i do. i pay one and a half year from April 2011 to August she promise to be sweeping the compound and asked us to pay for the whole year but i was OBSERVING  for good 5 month. know sweeping was done i decided not to pay after consultation with them about the poor services. on the first of June she brought me a quite notice written by her that the husband which is a blind man send to me. meanwhile other bills like Nepabills, water-bills have not be transparent for us to know what we are paying for. When i went back to meet them the man threaten of killing me.
WHERE SHOULD I START FROM I NEED YOUR ADVICE.

Part One : Prayer is always the first thing you should do.
There is nothing that can substitute for prayer. Simple heartfelt communication with God is the most important key in knowing God's will in your life. When it seems like all of Hell is against you and there is nobody to help, you must pray like you have never prayed before.
James 1:5-7
5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
6 But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.
7 For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord.
When you pray, pray for God's will to be revealed in your life. Jesus said to pray, "Thy will be done." If you are praying because of your own desires, you are asking for the wrong things. But when you have reached the place when you are willing to accept God's will over your own, you have reached a turning point in prayer. God will see that you have surrendered your will to His and He will begin to reveal His plan to you. It may not seem like it, but God wants you know His will for your life more than you want to know it yourself. You have to learn to trust that God has your best interest at heart no matter how bad it might appear at the time.
When you pray, pray in the Spirit. Paul said that the Spirit will pray for you 'with groanings that cannot be uttered.' God knows what you have need of more than you do.
Rom 8:26-27
26 Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
27 And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.http://








Philippians 2:12
Description: Parents of small children who go out for dinner, or who take a couple days just to be by themselves are careful to instruct those children to do what the babysitter says and not to give her a hard time. Mom and Dad trust the babysitter to be responsible enough to provide proper care in their absence, and they also trust their children to behave.

Many students ask the question, “How far should I go on a date?”
Here are some principles that will help you decide what is appropriate behavior on a date.

   1. Does the situation I put myself in invite segxwal immorality or help me avoid it?
      1 Corinthians 6:18 says to "flee from segxwal immorality." We cannot do this if we are tempting ourselves through carelessness.
   2. What kind of reputation does my potential date have?
      When you accept a date you are essentially saying, "My values are the same as your values." That in itself can put you in a position you may regret later. Remember 1 Corinthians 15:33, "Bad company corrupts good character."

The Bible tells us to be very careful about giving our affections,
 because our heart influences everything else in our life.

   
 Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life (Proverbs 4:23).

IDENTIFYING TRUE LOVE

We can only identify true love and know when we have found it,
 based on the Word of God. When we match our relationships up
to what the Bible says that love is—and we are honestly prepared to
make a life-long commitment to that person—then
 we can say that we are truly “in love.”
The three keys to that statement are:

We have to…

   1. …look at the Word of God
   2. …be completely honest with ourselves
   3. …understand the level of commitment that comes with true love

Our culture has taught us that sex and love are one in the same.
This is a lie. Sex is a beautiful God-given activity that is wonderful
 when practiced within the boundaries of a Biblical marriage.
Sex is the completion of the binding of two people within Biblical marriage;
 it is a God-given gift.

February, particularly the week of Valentine’s Day,
traditionally is a time when a large number of True Love
Waits abstinence-until-marriage commitments are made by students.
 Opportunities occur in families, at churches and other places around the world.

The problem with trying to “find” love in our dating lives,
is that too often we don't look for these characteristics.
Rather we look at physical appearance, popularity, or wealth.
 These are not the qualities that God looks at and neither should we.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered,
 it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”
 —I Corinthians 13:4-8a (NIV)

Love is the greatest gift God ever gave man.
 Love is not wanting to go anywhere without her.
 Love is not caring what other people think about...

Na men!  no bi small thing oh!
He laugh!!!

Com-firmed

pls tell me

I am close to my grandmothers cousin and her children.
I know my grandmothers cousin's children are my third cousins.
But what is my grandmothers cousin to me?

Love is a game of the heart and his only the heart that plays the game understand its true meanings.

I need some help. My mom lost her job and she's sick and she hasn't been able to make her rent. If I don't come up with $2,500, she is going to get evicted from her apartment."

"I don't know," I said. "Let me think about it. I'll come by tomorrow and let you know."

That night I sat in my hotel room making a list of pros and cons in my head. Sure, it was a breaking news, but I would be helping out. How would I feel if my mom was sick and I didn't have money to help her? I went through this for hours and finally decided to do it. The next morning I went to the bank, pulled out some of my money, $2,500 in cash, showed up at my friend door and told him, "Victor, I gave this a lot of thought, and I want to help you out. I know how I would feel if it was my mom."

"Thank you so much," he said. "You're my boy, man. You're really coming through for me."

I went back to my hotel and for a little while I felt good, but then the phone rang. It was a teammate of Victor's calling.

"Hey, man, Victor told me you're a pretty good ," he said. "I got this problem, and I need some help. My father is really sick and he is losing his apartment and I need $2,500. Do you think you can help me out the way you helped Victor?"

My heart dropped. I hung up and got the hell out of there. The whole flight home I was kicking myself. How could I be so stupid?

Yes is a traditional wears so who is arresting who, Which one is better collecting roya or dressing code.
 

Presido Goodluck Jonathan yesterday go visit de Ajegunle area for Ikorodu wey flood scatter to use him own eye see wetin happen, plus promise to join hand and body with Lagos State Government to make sure say dem range de area make de flood no happen again. Presido Jonathan say him come Lagos to use him own ear hear de complain of the people wey de flood affect. Him promise say Federal Government go share money give some of the people wey de flood affect to help dem.

Commissioner for Environment, Muiz Banire say 1,500 house na im de flood affect for de area and na becos Lagos State Government been don warn people for area about de flood that’s why more houses for de place no turn swimming pool pass de 1,500 house.

Federal Executive Council yesterday approve make dem upgrade the Akanu Ibian airport, for Enugu state to change to International standard. Aviation Minister, Fidelia Njeze say aeroplane go soon start to fly for morning from de airport by December. Dem don lock de airport before becos of de re-arranging of de airport wey dem dey do before.
Senate yesterday reject one law wey Presido Goodluck Jonathan give dem to change something inside the 2010 election law book, the law suppose give INEC power to range the pattern of the election as dem like and affect something inside politik party dem primaries. Senate been don touchlite the law the first time but nah the second time dem eye open to some things wey dem no like nah wahala time.
Meanwhile  Senate talk talk person Ayogu Eze yan say as Senate no gree on top the law mean say dem dey use dem sense work well so dat e go better for everybody and no be say dem dey get wahala or bad bele with de executive.
PDP ogas for North-Central States don join mouth togeda beg before before Army Presido Ibrahim Babaginda and governor of Kwara State, Bukola Saraki to comot hand and head from the 2011 election. Dem sidon chook mouth for de mata for Senate Presido David Mark house yesterday. Plenti of dem chook mouth for de sidon say make all of dem for PDP support Presido Jonathan to come drag shirt to PDP Presido for the 2011 election.
EFCC don chook more hand for de trouser of before before Abuja minister, Nasir El- Rufai. EFCC talk talk oga, Femi nah im talk dis one, him bin say dem go start de mata inside high court for Abuja tomorrow.
State Security service, SSS don explain why dem hold the trouser of Oga Raymond Dokpesi , Oga for SSS wey dey chook mouth for de mata, Marilyn Ogar say dis one wey dem release Oga Dokpesi no mean say dem don leave am o, becos dem still dey touchlite de mata of de October 1 bombing.

Lawmakers group G11 for Ogun State house of Assembly yan say na house of reps dey put fire for de wahala wey dem get for dem State Assembly dem say dem no like as House of Reps tell Inspector General of Police to open the Assembly for the other group, G15. Deputy Speaker for the G11 group, Edward Odugbesan say House of Reps no follow law to tell police to chook hand for de mata and court don stop dem
Ekiti state Governor, Kayode Fayemi yesterday announce Ganiyu Owolabi as the new secretary to dem state government. Him still announce Yemi Adaramodu as him Chief of Staff plus Mojeed Jaminu as him Senior Special Assistant on media.
Some people don hala say China dey try to block United Nations to bring out report  card say dem use Chinese bullet shoot some peace Army people for Darfur but China say de report card no correct becos some things wey no be true fall inside.
United States don confirm say dem wan sell weapons plus helicopter and jet give Saudi Arabia for $60 billion but dem go still use like 30 days chook mouth and sense for de mata before dem sell de things to Saudi Arabia. US say if dem succeed sell de weapons e go be de biggest amount wey dem don sell and e go create like 75,000 jobs.   

The worse thing that could ever happen to a man don`t lets it happen to you

 I wish more people understood who you really are.

You get up every morning, determined to give
it your best shot, no matter what.

You look out for others, take care of those
you love, and put yourself last - even
though people say "you shouldn't"...

You open the door for a perfect stranger, give
money to those kids selling baked goods
for their school, and pick up trash that
someone else left behind.

You're one of the "quiet heros" who actually
make a difference in this world, Sunshine-

And don't let anyone ever make you think
differently.

Here's to unsung heroes like yourself,
and here's a helping hand to give you
a little financial shot in the arm

Use that link however you want, but if I were
you I would use it to do that thing you've
always wanted to do but "didn't have
the cash"...