no offense but this guy you are talking about is either living a double life, or he prefers men, instead of women..its possible he loves you and just dont wanna do you..but your brother he will do...

There is nothing more honorable and beautiful than a man who is honest and ethical in the midst of corrupt friends.  A true Nigerian, helping us create a better positive image of Nigeria. Insha allah. Na gode."Bi iso iya o ba run, o ye ki ti omo o le ta sansan" -meaning, if your parents or elderly ones could not make it in their time, you as a younger  one should struggle to excel.  :'(

ok so here i come again. I was at work today when my colleague came back from lunch. He  was bruised on the right cheek and you can still see the  hand print of the person that slapped him. So not trying to be nosy, but yet curious I stole looks of his face. Finally he says whats good, whatcha looking at? I smiled and asked why his right cheek is so red, he bites his lips and then says, I slammed into a door. Now I dont know if he saw that the hand impression was still on his face, but I said, okayoo sorry you hear. As soon as he left my other co-worker came to me an said, "he lying, his baby mama  be beating the hell out him, I have seen it before. he a honeypot."I was shocked, Now I have heard of women being abused, but never occured to me that a healthy,intelligent ,super rich powerful vice president to a multi-billion company can let a woman abuse him in such way.Oh well I closed my mouth, and started heading back to my office, when I saw his office door ajar, soo i peeped in to check on him, but what I found shocked me.He had only his singlet on and his trouser, with a huge ice bag under his singlet. and I over heard him making a complaint to the person he was speaking to, saying "this time she hit me with her stilleto five times and i did not touch her, i just walked  away, jim i love my wife, but she needs help, she got anger problems." Right then I confirmed that this man was in an abusive relationship. So the question came to my mind, how many men  get abused by their girlfriends  or wives,but never file police reports just because of ego? 

 actually I got a great advice about music, which I will be using, so I do take advices..

 his in his mid twenties.Let just say he was graduating college when I was entering college.

His family and mine have been family friends since I was a kid, so its not like we are strangers,its just that he never approach me in this manner before, usually it was hi and bye greetings,till last december. He wasnt the only person I made the cologne for, I also made parfum for my mom and siblings.so no wahalaoo.

lol he gets  gucci and brand name stuff for free so,I dont see the reason to waste money on things he has.but thanks for the suggestionoo, always appreciated.

lol yesooo, his been my Uni crush since I turned  16,I feel like am in a dream, so I just count the days ..lol.. and now that am 22 his a bit older, but he respects me as if we are equals..lol. I like that, nothing sexier than a man thats fine and respects the girl his dating  regardless of age difference.lol

haba kenee, not everyman wants to take a woman to bed immediately, there are actually gentle men out there who are well groomed and honors a lady's wish. And  am an old fashion girl,and he knew that when he started dating me 105 days ago.lol

eeh, oyiri ka ghi di ide  la central igbo,odinmaoo. Eeh e'mere'm  umunne la umuahia heta nne-nne'm.

lol sorry my friend i have kept myself for the  one I truly love and who will put a ring on it,lol. He knows that. After all I really like him,more like school girl teenage crush kinda like,so him and i are still growing and getting to know eachother.I just thought since I'll be gone for 4months I need to give him something to remember for his bday.But thanks for your suggestionoo.

lol i made him a cologne for christmas.lol,but nice suggestion.

obu lezi, abum onye obingwa. ebiram la aba opobo junction. e'mere'm umunne la umuahia. a hafuru'm naija mgbe'm nnora afo asa, gawa ala nde america.

chai ghi wotara ihe'm dere? ghi ibu onye ebole?

you dey madooo, you got me rofl

I love this suggestionooo, thanks a bunchoo

 i be proper igbo woman raised in american culture, of course i sabi dance well well. but unfortunately am very shy,I dont do the whole private dance thing, i prefer to dance face to face with people.lol. am a big boring nerd. just a cute one.lol.

lol see am passionate about chemicals, but dont want to poison him -lol, but i love cooking, but thanks for your advices, am liking some of the suggestions.

eeh obu nani umu nwanyi nwere akuna kuna ndu ndi ime ihe nka hu

achurum ihunaya nwantiti, not akuna kuna ihunaya