I would have said its easy to move on but when you are truly in love with someone, bad or good, its not that easy to move on. On that note, no amount of advice we give you on here will likely be put into action by you in nearest future.

I can tell you live in US by your name. So, its not a strange thing to OWE a lot of money! Everyone must owe is first name for everyone in America, but some of us owe wisely. If your loverboy dont pay those bills, he already has a way out! Surprised?! Please, he doesnt have to pay them to be freed of debt! All he has to do (as far as i know for some debts) is to wait for 6yrs and all those debts will be canceled!!!! And your guy will be debt free. Or he filed for bankruptcy and all will be well!!!!

The only problem is, can he ever changed to be responsible in future? That i dont know.

One thing i know is that whoever spending lavishly like that always believe in better tomorrow, so if you really wanna put your head in there, you need EXTRA patience and older people guidance. Go and look into his family to see that its not a family habit. If its not a family problem for spending lavishly, i can think he will change if he has a good adviser with a IRON HAND, not someone like you who will be begging him to grow up.

He probably lost his bearing when he first came to US (if he wasnt born here). As they say, where you live when you come US determine how your future in America will be.

Above all, he who has head dont have cap: the one wey get cap no get head!

26 to 27, for me, if im 27, she is too old and i will probably run away from her! Sorry to say that oh.

a good sleep always follow a good sex...its that simple a caveman can do it too!

let me know why i fell in love first, maybe i will be able to know the beauty of a woman.

Literally, i love beauty women. But beauty dont make man fall in love.

God bless you Bittersweet!

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pls poster, dont be deluded that dress code results in sex abuse or rape. What kind of bad dress prompts a man to rape a little kid? You really need to go back to your research board and do it one more.

Growing up, i was shocked to hear from my street gals that most of the gals in our street have been ganged raped. They told me and my friends because we asked them why do they feel comfortable coming to our house, and they said because we dont make turns on our gfs like other guys in the neighborhood.....my point is dressing has nothing to do with rape.

You can say dressing allow gals to have more than one bf and many suitors but never cause rape!

when a man become dictator in marriage/relationship such relationships tend to create bitter love. No man should ALWAYS dictate what his wife wears. But if the wife really poor in dressing then it becomes the job of the man to choose. Why wont the wife accept dress code from her husband? Who is she trying to please outside?

I really dont care about dressing but i do EXTREMELY care about how my woman will apply make ups and hair styles....i cant stand a slut looking wife/gf under make ups/hairstyle

Blessedme, why u wan shout before?

@ Poster, im sure now that you can see that i was closed to being right when i said libido has nothing to do with cheating.

The only springboard that keep a marriage going is SEX! We are not talking about bf/gf pls. From your post i infer that she used to be extremely segxwal active otherwise the husband cant just wake up one day and start saying she doesnt love him anymore. When sex is neglected in any home such home is due to collapse. If she doesnt have sex anymore, pls ask her what else does she do...making out with other women? Has she turned to lesbo now? Tell her to stop that nonsense abeg....sex is love in marriages, chikena!

Tolerance is the key @ Poster.

Tolerance strengthen Love in all manners. One of you must bow to the other. Apparently, if both of you found it difficult to separate then there is love somewhere hidden in both of you, what you guys are lacking is ability to unearth the true love embedded in each other....not a good thing to quarrel all the times...

when sex is good your gal bring you your food in bed!

Flymama, its a good question to me.

Cheating has nothing to do with high or low libido. I consider myself pretty HIGH but cheating on my gal will be the last thing on my agenda (if it will ever make it there at all).

Cheating, to me is an act. It is a decision everyone makes, either for fun or wickedness. When young ones are growing, they cheat because they think is fun, but adult cheating is on different level. I will say some cheat because no one can query them, some do because they irresponsible in their marriage/relationship. Some others, however cheat because they feel horny whenever they see some pretty face, gosh, i always wonder why cant they pick up their phone and call their partner for a quickie...grrrrrrr

By the way, im not a saint but i dont cheat, and i love the thing well well....

insatiable! why dont u create the fun?

im just hearing this for the first time.....

blessedme, where were you in 2000? We all sat by TV and outside till midnight that day to see what was going to happen eventhough we knew nobody knows when will Jesus returns.....

and for the born again ppl, if that is enough to go to heaven im sure heaven cant contain all the born again....that you proclaim Jesus is your savior does not give you automatic ticket to heaven, it is by grace anyone will get in there....

not doable!

i dey accept ur hail oh kebella

when you answer that question i will get a reply too...

pidgin is not our language ppl!

im wishing you the same...the year will be great for us all....