That was my word too. I was surprised to hear him say he is doing no sex till marriage! He was having sex back in sch i dont know all of a sudden he turns Mr. Holy.....

I have a friend, engaged and expected to tie the knot before the yr runs out but was surprised to hear when he said he is quitting the engagement. His reason: His wife to be is having an affair. He was told by the gals mother because the family wanted to know what went wrong. Recently, the gal told him she was going to see someone they both know, after 2hrs he called to check if she met the person only to be shocked when the gal said she is now in another state. Curiously, he called the guy his gal suppose to go and see but the guy said he has not seen the gal in 4months! When he confronted his gal, she started insulting him. They have been dating for over a yr but never had sex on the suggestion of my dear friend, and the gal is never a virgin!

What do you guys think, is the gal cheating because they dont have sex or she doesnt want this dude at all? Can my friend just quit his engagement based on speculation? Was my friend wrong by suggesting no sex before marriage? Your advice is essentially needed pls...

for emepretty....

I can relate to your anger. I can feel your pains. You are not alone. However, i find it difficult to agree with you on your assumption. Love does exist. What you called "mutual understanding" should be called "tolerance". Tolerance is not love but without it, love does not exist. I can say love does not exist in million times but deep down inside of me i know it does.

It doesnt matter how we love, reciprocal or one sided, if the other party can not appreciate a little friendship without comparing you with someone else, love will seize to flow. The moment one of the parties involved in love affair starts to keep "WORDS" from the other person, love will seize to exist. The moment those who are in love start noticing "MISTAKES" in each other, love is going south.

When we say we are in love with someone, it doesnt mean the person is an angel, it only means we can tolerate and accept all their shortcomings. And when they use our loving against us we quickly jump into conclusion that love doesnt exist. The person i love has nothing compare to the kind of woman i ever imagined to marry except beauty. But i love her anyway for absolutely NO REASON i can think of. The only thing i know is im always happy about her for who she is with all her FLAWS. I feel joy and happiness with just a thought of her and i KNEW she was feeling the same. I didnt start showing my affection until i have seen her expressed hers because i didnt want to fall in love with wrong person.

My dear, you are in pain and anger do not solve issues but shattered the remnant of our broken heart. I can not advice you against your desire/opinion because I have tried many times to console myself but never got help. I am probably in pain more than you are but I wont stop loving! I love to love. I was so meticulous about falling in love so that i will never experience breakup. It didnt work. I experienced love and i knew it was REAL. Well, it went down south too! I will love again with all my heart but it may not be any time soon. Maybe i will ever stop loving her i dont know.

If you know why your relationship collapsed i think you can make amendment in the next one. As for me, I am yet to know what in the world will make us break up with me. Never fought (we argued tho), never cheated, always been there, always doing everything many other gals wish their bfs do etc....I was trying to let my friends know how to love sincerely (because they dont believe in sincere love) but i guess i was wrong.

Emepretty, dont you ever stop loving. You know love is the most beautiful thing in this world.

yes ppl do change

when ppl you are nice to take you for granted, if you have an Electron Microscope to view them you will see that there are some ppl who dont have nice ppl in their life that engineer them to take you for a fool. If you can be patient they will soon find out themselves.....

what is falling in love if you can not endures or tolerate the other person? falling in love and staying in it requires endurance, tolerance, appreciation and determination. Ppl who break up are easily hoodwinked that the grass is greener on the other end....those who divorce, how many of them re-marry? most of them rotate sex partners like cloth....

you are in a complete mess already...whatever the case maybe keep ur mouth shut if none of them ask you if you have another gal.....above all, KEEP both of them....one with less interest will go on her own....can you vouch for them that they are not seeing other dudes, near or far away?

i will until the day either of us marry different ppl...

the first day we are by chance alone kissing close to where no one can see us butt naked!

ive come to realize that giving time to when to have sex with ur bf/gf is just a waste of time when you are not a virgin and will not be waiting till after marriage....

i dont know

wth? poor lil jones! the gal must be super hawt!

my bad!

who?

bring it on! but i promise you, if you ever posted 4ked pic im gonna be d first to leave d group....the only thing ppl post on it is 4k!

stop ur jealousy dear blessedme...it is bcos u envy dat make u jealous of BB user, nothing is special bout d fone except d BBM....

altho the fukerman had paid a lo but he has not paid for pounding my wife. He has to pay that night in cash....then cut off his leg! that woman cant be my wife anymore

its love! if its not love what else can it be? didnt they say love endures?

Oh spare me, i never expected any apology from someone like you...its obvious that when ppl are wrong they quickly look for any words to support their action...thats who you are. If you have not been fired at would you have changed your earlier post? No. We all know that whatever we first say is what we actually mean, anything after that is to satisfy the audience...paro lo joor ashawo!

the good part is none of the ladies in here agree with you, what a stigma?!

dont hate BB user ppl...