she must be able to cook good food, believe in christ (dont matter if she goes to church once in a yr or everyday) and beautiful, that is, inside and outside beauty couple with intelligent....

i know so

Bros, i disagree with you nicely. If she truly love, where was her communication skills when all those temptations were coming to her? Cant she open her mouth and tell her husband that Mr. So and So are trying to have sex with her? Wont the man have tried to prevent that with her cooperation? Before we do anything, our brain mosdef processed it thousands of time before carrying it out. She had it all planned out since she was not raped, was she? When was the first time the man propose sex to her? where was the husband then? The truth is, no matter how much a woman trust and lover her husband/bf/fiance, she still thinks he is cheating on her somehow or has the tendency to cheat on her soon. Besides, if she confessed one, how many do you think she would have done? I can bet my account on it, she didnt just have extra marital sex when her husband wasnt just around....she had it long time ago under the nose of her husband...

As for me, i dont care if she cheated and confessed. It depends on my own promise to myself that i wont divorce and wont cheat on my wife/gf....when temptation arises, i used to tell my x/gf bcos i wanted to do just that at that time....


No one really do anything to make others love or hate them. It is just an entropy of life. It is random.

Talking from experience, i forgave and never thought about it until she started acting up. Love makes people do crazy stuffs and that same love will make him forgive and forget....but the way i see it, the man dont wanna forgive let alone forget, otherwise he woulddnt have said it out. Its a shameful act so if he told you, he already gave his wife out for ridicule. He will punish her no matter what advice we give him. Can you imagine how many ppl he would have told by now? If 4, multiply it by 16 who really know his wife....when you are in love, you forgive easily. This man will never trust his wife again, thats my position.

no perfect gal duh

i second that....

the face, body and walk

pistols will do

sex as none of the above but fun!

laydeelaracraft, i raise my hat for you! The easiest way to conquer any cheating man without a fight.

The question tough oh but let me try....if my wife didnt ask me immediately she saw the text she has herself to blame after the deed has been done. If she asked, i will ask her to tell me what she wants me to do and i will do just that. after all, wife is better than gf, thats why she is wife.

But if na me found that on her phone...chei? i wont stop her from going, i will only advice her at the airport/bus stop that she should use condom with the sender of the text on her phone. of course i would have forwarded the text to my phone too....she should be ready for anything but peaceful home when she comes back...

@ Poster, do you call that wife or house help?

there is nothing the guy has to say anymore, cos he has said it all.

The fact is a gal dont need to ask for anything before guy do something out of "love". F love if she got nothing to give in return.

My point is if the gal dont contribute into the relationship then she has nothing to lose and one day she could wake up and walk out of the relationship just like that....what will be my gal gain? In one month the poster has spent close to or more than N100K, by the time they are in the 6th month, he would probably be owing alot of ppl N500K!

Poster, dont go that lane. Your money, your effort, your time CAN NEVER make her have pity on you the day she wanna leave ya ass....if you have chance collect ya BB back asap. after all is just a month. you go still get better price for it on ebay.

madam barbie, not all gals fortunate to get guys buy them everything they dont deserve....i think thats why you accusing the guy of public announcement. Dont you know that he who ask for road no dey get lost?

I beg you in the name of God please dont ever waste your money on any gal. I dey beg you with everything you can think of, like your mama, your papa, your God or gods...pls dont waste your money on her!

Im not saying dont spend for your gf oh, but a gal like that, wey no get anything to contribute pls dont EVER waste your money on her/them!

If you like go ahead, you go come back come tell us say she dont leave ya ass for another dude wey rich pass.


Ladies dont vex oh, im only talking from experience.

Any gal wey no get job, no car, no money, no nothing to invest in a relationship I can never date more than 1 day.

Treasure2 insert the nail on the head and Flymamacita hammer am down down down.....

@ Poster, what can make u run away at the mention of marriage if there is no fire on the mountain? By the way, have you ever turned down any proposal or you never got any? Being a pastor, let alone youth pastor doesnt mean one is not possessed....and we all know that....marriage is not running out, when a guy think you can be a good wife he proposes, otherwise, yall gonna stay 10yrs being bf and gf! Check ya self

move on! if he appreciated you before he would av tried to resolve any problems you guys was having....stay with ur present lover pls

Onyin! if you are near i would draw closer to you and glue never to let go!  yo, you super!

is this romance 101? OK then

it was a tru story not too long ago....but as for me oh, i dont want! in fact, she go pay me to do am

Poster, i think it is better not to find someone special. What is the importance of finding the person when you will lose him/her is a wink of an eye?