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81  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: help on: 12-01-2011 05:56 PM
Quote from: lynnobi on 12-01-2011 12:30 PM
hi guys,

Am a vry lovely, and fun loving gurl. Every guy dat am arund wanna marry me, gurls wanna ave me to themselves and all dat...buh anywaz i ave a lovely guy and i dnt care abt them. my problem is dat my bff(princess) was kinda actin weird last month coz she thinks all the guys come to me. she bought me a lotion n said dis wuld be gud 4 ma skin coz am light skin. Buh because ma skin is already smooth lyk a baby butt, i decided to give out to anoda friend of mine. after abt a week, her face got burnt n stuffs lyk dat. Now evryone thinks i am responsible 4 wot happened. i confronted ma bff abt the lotion to ma surprise she denied eva givin me any lotion. Now wot do u guys wot me 2 do 2 dis gurl coz i feel so bad abt the whole suitation. PLZ gurls be careful abt people yuh call friends and the way yuh relate 2 dem..some are beast.

lucky you didnt use it....now will u still have her as ur bff or any other gal/boy as ur bff?
82  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Age Madness on: 12-01-2011 05:54 PM
Quote from: onyin on 12-01-2011 05:49 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 12-01-2011 05:39 PM
Quote from: onyin on 12-01-2011 05:19 PM
Quote from: samboko on 12-01-2011 05:15 PM
Quote from: onyin on 12-01-2011 05:14 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 12-01-2011 05:12 PM
Golden age !! Golden age !!! Golden age !!! as they said for the ladies starts between 19 - 25, But they start to get matured between 28 - 35yrs, and thats the age they will also start reasoning well.

Anything from 19 - 23yrs, Most of them just want to do what they seems right from their thoughts and views, nothing on earth is changing their master plan... is all about Fun Fun Fun !!
lol.

seems like DK knows more
he's right.it happens,tht's the party age and flirting age.and that's the beautiful age. Grin.its  all about being disciplined and knowing your goals and aims in life.


The same beautiful/ party age, most ladies  make wrong choices, decisions and steps, that they will live to regrets at their mature age, if not all the rest of their life !! is happening, Only the wise ones make use of this stage very well.
tht's sooooo true.that's why i allys say "only a wise person can different between good and bad".and sum girls are just too slow in learning.as in seeing everyday activities,everything that happens around them.how their sisters or older women they know have made the same mistakes in life.but they still choose to do the same.and the most famous and common excuse now is "EDUCATION",most of them will tell you they need to get degree first befor thinking about anything serious.A woman can have a man and still do watever she wants to do,that's my belief.aslong as she has got a good man by her side.

only the wise ones can see your reasoning....you are unique Onyin!
83  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Age Madness on: 12-01-2011 05:43 PM
Quote from: fireman on 12-01-2011 05:42 PM
Quote from: samboko on 12-01-2011 04:51 PM
Whats wrong with age btw 23 and 25? especially 23 yr old gals....some gals i asked said that they lost guys that truly love them at that age...only to start regretting it a yr later...is it really true or just assumption?
assumption mixed with nostalgia

explain pls
84  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Advice pls on: 12-01-2011 05:42 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 12-01-2011 05:39 PM
Quote from: samboko on 12-01-2011 04:05 PM
I have a friend, engaged and expected to tie the knot before the yr runs out but was surprised to hear when he said he is quitting the engagement. His reason: His wife to be is having an affair. He was told by the gals mother because the family wanted to know what went wrong. Recently, the gal told him she was going to see someone they both know, after 2hrs he called to check if she met the person only to be shocked when the gal said she is now in another state. Curiously, he called the guy his gal suppose to go and see but the guy said he has not seen the gal in 4months! When he confronted his gal, she started insulting him. They have been dating for over a yr but never had sex on the suggestion of my dear friend, and the gal is never a virgin!

What do you guys think, is the gal cheating because they dont have sex or she doesnt want this dude at all? Can my friend just quit his engagement based on speculation? Was my friend wrong by suggesting no sex before marriage? Your advice is essentially needed pls...
the girl is not faithful at all,cuz "A CLEAR CONSCIENCE FEARS NO ACCUSATION"..she is trying to defend herself by insulting your friend...although i blame your guy.

wetin he for do now?
85  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Age Madness on: 12-01-2011 05:28 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-01-2011 05:25 PM
Quote from: samboko on 12-01-2011 05:20 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-01-2011 05:18 PM
he told me his real age

i even ask him mama sef

Quote from: do4sure on 12-01-2011 05:15 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-01-2011 05:04 PM
thank God am 23
CONGRATS. YOU ARE NOW AT THE AGE OF MISTAKES, SO THEY SAID.

my mistakes where made 7yrs ago....not now nor anymore Wink

guess u r now 30!

not 7yrs after 23, but 7yrs b4 23...
it all depends on individual... knowing their goals and aims in life....

i think i like u!
86  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Advice pls (Page 2) on: 12-01-2011 05:22 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 12-01-2011 05:20 PM
Quote from: samboko on 12-01-2011 04:59 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 12-01-2011 04:54 PM
hmmmmmmmmmm if the gal is not guilty she should not have lied abaut her trip

actually thats not the only scenario....
there was a time the guy went to her house to visit her parents without informing her because she had said she wont be in town....but on getting there, they told him she was around, the mother called her and told her that her dear is around, surprisingly she told the mum to tell him to leave. The mum said ok but told my guy to stay...she called back later to confirm if he left and mum said yes....hrs later she came in only to see the guy sitting right there in their living room at 10pm!

@Poster, is she the only woman that suit the MAGA or is she the end of woman or the man is shy and can not toast another woman?  Abeg make i pass.

as far as i know he picked the gal out of a couple that he was seeing at that time and went on to be celibate.....
87  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Age Madness on: 12-01-2011 05:20 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-01-2011 05:18 PM
he told me his real age

i even ask him mama sef

Quote from: do4sure on 12-01-2011 05:15 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-01-2011 05:04 PM
thank God am 23
CONGRATS. YOU ARE NOW AT THE AGE OF MISTAKES, SO THEY SAID.

my mistakes where made 7yrs ago....not now nor anymore Wink

guess u r now 30!
88  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Age Madness on: 12-01-2011 05:19 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 12-01-2011 05:17 PM
just hearing this

tell us ur experience dear...
89  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Advice pls on: 12-01-2011 05:18 PM
Quote from: urch4love on 12-01-2011 05:15 PM
@onyin: NA DEY TIN

exactly my point...na d thing! gbam!!
90  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Age Madness on: 12-01-2011 05:15 PM
Quote from: onyin on 12-01-2011 05:14 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 12-01-2011 05:12 PM
Golden age !! Golden age !!! Golden age !!! as they said for the ladies starts between 19 - 25, But they start to get matured between 28 - 35yrs, and thats the age they will also start reasoning well.

Anything from 19 - 23yrs, Most of them just want to do what they seems right from their thoughts and views, nothing on earth is changing their master plan... is all about Fun Fun Fun !!
lol.

seems like DK knows more
91  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Age Madness on: 12-01-2011 05:08 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-01-2011 05:04 PM
thank God am 23

oh wow! have you dissed your own loverboy yet?
92  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Advice pls on: 12-01-2011 05:03 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 12-01-2011 05:00 PM
Quote from: samboko on 12-01-2011 04:53 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 12-01-2011 04:43 PM
Quote from: samboko on 12-01-2011 04:35 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-01-2011 04:15 PM
Firstly! why did she lie about her trip?

i think, since he opted for no sex till marriage, maybe she doesnt like it that way and prefares having it outside...lol
on the other hand... both of them should calm their nerves down and talk to eachother concerning the matter... anger and unnecesary suspects... wont help matters.

I know ppl say it is bad to monitor your partner but in this case, i suggest to him to do SSS on her by secretly watching from afar and visit her without her awareness....
Will be making a very big mistake by secretly watching bc u will get more than u bargain.

so do you suggest he quits his engagement based on his and the gal's mother assumption? or he should just ignore everything and hoping the wedding is still on?

Will be making a fool of himself by hoping that the wedding is still on.  He should read the RED Traffic Light signal very well.



dont you think you are assuming?
93  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Age Madness on: 12-01-2011 05:00 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 12-01-2011 04:54 PM
That is the golden age for a young girl.  She can hardly decide what she want for her self at that age and she feel cheaped if she does not hv what her friends hv at that age thereby failing for the stupid one.

i believe you are talking from experience...
94  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Advice pls (Page 2) on: 12-01-2011 04:59 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 12-01-2011 04:54 PM
hmmmmmmmmmm if the gal is not guilty she should not have lied abaut her trip

actually thats not the only scenario....
there was a time the guy went to her house to visit her parents without informing her because she had said she wont be in town....but on getting there, they told him she was around, the mother called her and told her that her dear is around, surprisingly she told the mum to tell him to leave. The mum said ok but told my guy to stay...she called back later to confirm if he left and mum said yes....hrs later she came in only to see the guy sitting right there in their living room at 10pm!
95  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Advice pls on: 12-01-2011 04:53 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 12-01-2011 04:43 PM
Quote from: samboko on 12-01-2011 04:35 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-01-2011 04:15 PM
Firstly! why did she lie about her trip?

i think, since he opted for no sex till marriage, maybe she doesnt like it that way and prefares having it outside...lol
on the other hand... both of them should calm their nerves down and talk to eachother concerning the matter... anger and unnecesary suspects... wont help matters.

I know ppl say it is bad to monitor your partner but in this case, i suggest to him to do SSS on her by secretly watching from afar and visit her without her awareness....
Will be making a very big mistake by secretly watching bc u will get more than u bargain.

so do you suggest he quits his engagement based on his and the gal's mother assumption? or he should just ignore everything and hoping the wedding is still on?
96  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Age Madness on: 12-01-2011 04:51 PM
Whats wrong with age btw 23 and 25? especially 23 yr old gals....some gals i asked said that they lost guys that truly love them at that age...only to start regretting it a yr later...is it really true or just assumption?
97  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WILL U DO IT BECAUSE HE/SHE DID IT? on: 12-01-2011 04:44 PM
dont date his sister....after all, u never liked his sister....
98  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WILL U DO IT BECAUSE HE/SHE DID IT? on: 12-01-2011 04:43 PM
Quote from: Michro on 12-01-2011 04:29 PM
A very close friend of mine slept with my girl friend. When I discovered it, I felt really upset, and was almost fought with him.
He invited all our friends to intervene as he pleaded for forgiveness.
I forgave him, but after sometime, he still felt guilty as he realized his mistakes, so he on my behalf approached his sister for my sake so as to get things out of minds; his sister as well, agreed. He called me one night and said if truly I've forgiven him, I should start going out with his sister. When I saw the girl (his sister), she's more beautiful than my girl friend and so humble.
I felt it's wrong for me to do it, but another thing sprang up days after, as a friend to my girl friend told me that I should not even bother about my girl friend that my friends have all slept with her (my girl friend).
What do u advice? Or what do u do if u're in this type of situation?

Being in that situation before. Met a gal at a party, didnt know i actually took her off from someone who had booked a room for her that night. So the following day i went to see a friend, i met 5 other friends in his apt. The first question they asked was, did i do her? I said nah, we just met last night. Well, all the guys in that room claimed they have made their turns! And they even told me who was currently sleeping with among them.

Run for ya life bro. That aint a gf but messing body....that was the advice they gave me so im giving you same now....I did twice and I ran forever! (she didnt mad that i ran oh, she said they have told me, but i deny any idea of her sex-contest)
99  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Advice pls on: 12-01-2011 04:35 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-01-2011 04:15 PM
Firstly! why did she lie about her trip?

i think, since he opted for no sex till marriage, maybe she doesnt like it that way and prefares having it outside...lol
on the other hand... both of them should calm their nerves down and talk to eachother concerning the matter... anger and unnecesary suspects... wont help matters.

I know ppl say it is bad to monitor your partner but in this case, i suggest to him to do SSS on her by secretly watching from afar and visit her without her awareness....
100  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Advice pls on: 12-01-2011 04:33 PM
Quote from: do4sure on 12-01-2011 04:16 PM
EXCUSE ME SIR,DO YOU MEAN THIS YEAR THAT STARTED FEW WEEKS AGO?

Yes sir...
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