What makes a "real woman" and a "real man" is when they both have the fear of God in them.
The fear of God in the woman will make her very submissive to her man. That doesn't make her less a woman. The man also resiprocate by loving her as Christ loves the church.
A real woman is an help mate for the man. They may have their differences but, they iron it out amicably. They disagree to agree.
A real woman and man dont ever compete with each other, they look for the others success and best interest at heart. It doesn't really matter who brings home the bigger cheque.
It goes on and on.