If a woman's body is a temple of evil, then God should have created just Adam then stopped there. A woman's body will only tempt you when you allow it to tempt you. A woman's body is not evil, its the man's mind that is cultivating evil thoughts. If you cannot handle the temptation of a woman's body, stay away from her.
People who say they can love two people at the same time are just saying it to appease their conscience when it pricks them for hurting the other person that they love less. They don't have a way of telling the person they love them enough. In essence, it is practically impossible to love two people equally at the same time. Hunter can never catch 2 rabbits in different directions.
I'll forget about the person and move on with my life. There are millions of people who will love you without asking you to sacrifice up to half of what you wasted in that relationship
Because, anything that has 'taboo' written all over it is attractive. Men are biologically programmed to be monogamous. As a result, they are prone to be bored in relationships with just one woman. Also, men love the issue of dominance and great conquests which leads to them desiring their 'neighbor's wife' so to speak.
Any one of the ladies ever shown their backsides to you and asked you to come and sample it? Besides, this question would be better answered by the ladies who show 'their unclad backsides'
Has finding the pornography on your girlfriend's phone had any significant effect on your relationship? In the first place, you going through her phone is invasion of privacy. She's your girlfriend not your daughter or younger sister. I think you got what you deserved looking in the wrong place. Your ability to satisfy her segxwally is based on how you two communicate segxwally not based on whether she watches porn or not. Just because I'm dating a girl, I don't ask for full disclosure of her life details. People have areas of their lives they will hide from you until they feel they can trust you or you can handle it. This attitude you have of being insecure is probably her reason for not telling you about having Porn on her phone. You are dating the girl not trying to fix her moral compass. No girl is perfect. Just try and take her as she is or find another girl who is a Nun!
No human being can have those kind of body porpotions. Someone just photo-shopped this picture and is trying to attract attention. For me, I'm not into women with too much hips and bakassi. If she's going to see her boyfriend's mother she won't dress like this anyway.
Most people enter marriage with too many assumptions. If you think the person you are getting married to can 'read your mind' and know everything you want without you telling him or her, you're wrong. Learning about your spouse is one of the keys to a successful marriage. So as not to hurt his feelings, you can guide him in bedby either putting his hand where you prefer him to pleasure you. If he is a good husband he will take the hint. The only other method is direct discussions about what you want. Only a stupid person wil think they know everything and not accept correction if it comes in a respectably loving manner from their spouse. Nobody knows everything so we all require a few pointers here and there.
There's almost always no smoke without fire. You wanting sex with your husband's friend goes beyond mere spontaneous attraction. So question here is that: is your husband not good enough for you as a sex partner? I mostly understand the lure of forbidden pleasure but, you need to consider the fact that you can't eat your cake and have it. Your lust for your husband's friend will have consequences both the relationship between you and your husban; and between your husband and his friend. I'm hoping children are not in the picture here because they might end up being casualties of this situation you are contemplating. So, in the interest of your dignity as a woman ask God to help you get over this. I'm not sure your weakness for your husband's friend is worth you ruining your marriage.