What can I say here? I'm guessing the in-laws are more on his side than yours. Well, carry on if it makes you happy. My worry is that your children are going to be casualties of this infidelity war between you and your husband if you are not a casualty of this war between you and your husband already as you have resigned yourself to stay in a loveless marriage.

If He's not giving her enough money, let her end the marriage and find a man who will give he what she needs instead of committing adultery for money.

So, what now?

If its true, Incest! Prayer warriors! Over to you people for deliverance! Incest is wrong in any culture on this planet. The lady needs to find a way to break that relationship.

When you enter a library, do you hear a librarian telling you which section of the Library to read from? You are no one's father or guardian. Stop trying to make rules here about what they should read or not read. People here have the right to read what they want. You have a problem with that, go and create your own social network where even love discusssions will be prohibited.

Most women are die-hard conservatives so this post may not have much effect on them.

Depends on the criteria that made you pick them as friends in the friends as well as what you benefit from the friendship. People have the wrong criteria for forging friendships as well as relationships these days. Some pick friends who do and say what makes them happy not knowing that their syncophant friends are only just plotting their downfall.

I wish I knew what to say

I wish there was an easy solution for you here. You have to convince both women to accept the kids (your wife and girlfriend). You will have to keep both kids, your girlfriend may have to give the right to her child and you hope you can convince your wife to accept your girlfriend's child as part of your family

I'm trying to come to terms with how blantantly materialistic you can be. You asked for his attitude. Any girl who respects herself would not ask for recharge cards like you just did. You are the reason why I doubt the respectability of most girls in this country, you and your recharge card ideology. And you even have the gall to post such distasteful matters here.

If you like, no go find your own man. Stop dreaming of harvesting another woman's cassava. Find your own man!

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Interesting, though I would caution her about the 'Poor' man she would not mind marrying. The issue here is not the man's financial status but compatibility and his level of maturity as a man. Even Poor men can be just as bad their rich counterparts in terms of behavior as a husband

None of them guarantees you will find love. You could find love in School but, I caution you to make sure he/she is not a teacher and is not teaching in that school currently. Workplace romances don't end well for either party.

Men cheat largely because:
1. Men are not naturally Monogamous
2. Sex quality from their former partners is poor
3. Compatibility
4. Men seeking for Male children

Why can't she find a man in Nigeria? She needs to go to America seeking a millionaire Music Mogul to marry him. They don't know each other except on TV yet I'm supposed to think she could love him. Or could her choice. To marry be based more on money than any feelings of love?

What exactly was your criteria for a Dream Man. I doubt both Men had all your dream qualities. I think it was just a case of you not knowing what you really wanted or you were just being greedy and materialistic and now you want to keep both men. I would also like to know what your love for both men is based on?

Show me a Nigerian christian who does not allow his/herself to be corrupted with money and I will show you a Man or Woman of God.

You sure that's Tonto Dikeh? It doesn't look like her to me. She looks to fair to be Tonto Dikeh

Had any relationship proposals or sex proposals or what? Thought she was a celebrity so getting someone to date or sleep with her should not be a big problem. Unless she's looking for real love which might be a problem since most men might more likely date her for her money more than any other reason.