I would not advise any lady to trust that kind of a man but the truth of the matter is, that's the kind of guy that ladies always fall for.

Child abuse and Murder!

Stupid senseless waste of money without any meaningful significance. One question: what will happen to the iphones after Independence day?

Just leave him to his game and live your life like he doesn't exist.

Any girl who chooses to date more than one guy may not necessarily show these signals.

Any girl who chooses to date more than may not necessarily give off these signals.

 Traditional or White Wedding to me is irrelevant. So far as the husband and wife have exchanged rings to seal the deal, that is the most important thing.

I never play around with anything to do with blood. If you are really repentant and the girl is willing, you can both renounce the oath. I would advise deliverance from your Pastor for added effect. In the future, please avoid such devilish convenants.

Though smoking prediposes you to lung cancer, I would not automatically assume any girl who smokes is a bad girl. In direct answer to your question, its because of prejudice. Many Nigerians have grown up with the age-old belief that 'girls who smoke are loose and wayward'. I don't judge people based on what I see at face value. That would be a very hasty judgement. Personally, I do not necessarily see girls who smoke as bad girls. My definition of bad goes beyond whether a girl smokes or not.

No, you got issues! I don't tell people what they should read or comment on. The name of the game is 'come here, do your thing and leave'. What any other person does is up to them and not my problem. Have you ever gone to a hotel toilet and complained to the Hotel management about why guests are not using a particular urinal there? Do your stuff and don't worry about the other people!

Can't say as I don't have any Statistics to prove it.

I can't say as I don't any statistics prove it.

Nice story with a fairy-tale ending. A good number of girls in similar situation were not so lucky. Some similar stories don't end well like this one.

Friends before you started dating both of them or not, they both plan to deal with you. You should never have tried dating  both of them in the first place. Okay, there was no way you could have known this was coming but you may be about to find out the meaning of this pidgin proverb 'Hunter wey dey chase 2 rabbits in different directions go lose both of them'. It seems you are going to lose them both so you just have to let them both go quietly.

5. She's tired of brief flings and wants a more permanent,  emotionally stable relationship.

I would blame the following reasons:
1. The Woman seeks a more respectable position which she wants to get while she's still 'marketable' (young).
2. Her parent's are already hurrying her to give them in-laws.
3. She wants a more stable means of supplementing her income (by means of a rich husband).
4. She is tired of playing bridesmaid to her friends and wants to be a bride herself.

An opinion you should have kept to yourself. Everyone here has an opinion which they try not to impose on anyone here. You got a problem with what topics people comment on here, then stay out of the forum. Everyone on this forum is an adult who does not need guidance in what they say. If you can't take the pain, don't play the game. By the way, how do you know they don't read those topics you complained about?

An opinion you should have kept to yourself. Everyone here has an opinion which they try not to impose on anyone here. You got a problem with what topics people comment on here, then stay out of the forum. Everyone on this forum is an adult who does not need guidance in what they say. If you can't take the pain, don't play the game.

Gbam! Need I say more than what has already been said?

Sick, depraved Idiot!