I hear you bros, and am saying he is the BIGGEST JOKE OF THE YEAR.

Personal choice indeed!!

Sounds like you are being forced, or somewhat unwilling to do it the traditional way. My guess is, before long that unwillingness wiill manifest in other areas of the union, and gradually pride sets in and downfall of the marriage follows. Then what??

I hear you bros, nothing more to add. chikina!!

LMAO: My sis I wonder too ooh; this english be as e' get ooh!

This sounds so dumb. What do you mean by Co2 or no Co2?? Its your type that will run to a native doctor to find out what killed them, even when its obvious. Smarten up man!!!!!!!!!!

May their souls rest in peace.

This is damn very shallow!!! Na bcos na wetin dey happen for some university for naija u come dey think say that go apply for every other thing in life?? I beg just tell me u dey joke....

Haba, na wa for you sef.

So u never hear, the girl sef don  die  now.

Wow, did I hear somebody call Nigeria Giant of Africa? Common water sef na story.

My hat's off for you Mr. Dan Fulani. Yes, let the truth be told and you have, very well too. God bless you. NIGERIA IS THE GIANT SHAME OF AFRICAN.

For cheap sympathy.

It appears that you live with the girl in her parents' house, why is that? Well, my advice will be to support your little girl financially as much as you can by sending money to her and make sure you keep records. Let go of her to her parents, when she must have over stayed her welcome, the fight will be between her and the mother. At that time one of two things will happen: 1, She will come looking for you, or 2, both of you would have gone your separate ways. If 1, depending on her level of remorse, you might want to take her back bcos of your baby, but if 2, then so be it, after all it was a loveless relationship.

You are absolutely correct. Not until I read your comment am begining to think that majority of the guys on naijapals can hardly think objectively, and as for the girls - you did hit the nail on the head.  

Foul mouth, na ya kind dey beat man up.

Would you not think that you need to take a second look at your own character too? That could be a starting point to discovering why " they are goats, liars, decievers, whatever" to you. More over when you say that without any exception you are doing so to the inclusion of the important men in your life - unless you are saying there are none. Those men need your APOLOGY right now.

I hate it when people come with some cooked up nonsense story. If you must lie to instigate a debate, at least make it sound real. By the way how can you say you are a married woman while your profile suggestss otherwise. This one is a failure, try another lie and make sure it sounds good. BS (bull sh.....t)

Before nko?

It is the suspension of the natural order, unfortunately its not going to end until God takes the world by surprise. It may only work on those that are not prayerful and, for the women that uses those, they WILL be worse-of afterwards. The relationships WILL end as quickly as it started.

This is a heart wrenching story. Giving that this guy is on top of his game in every aspect, fame, money and all that, it makes no sense to me that he won't let go of his past hurt. Obviously there is more to the story, by his father's admission - he wasn't there for the boy when he needed him most irrespective of his sugar-coated flimsy excuses:

“I must confess I was not sending him money when he was in school, but it was not deliberate because I was not having money at the time… I did my best to look after him but as a revenue collector, what could I have done. I took him to secondary school, when he had the Liberty opportunity I played a major role. You ask Alhaji Sly Tetteh.”

We all can blame the guy all we want but the truth still remains, you reap what you sow. Make a monster out of your child - you deal with it till he gets some validation to get over his or her anger. Though am not in anyway condoning his act, but its good to see the truth for what it is. I hope he makes things right with his father before its too late else history will repeat itself. Never abandon a child. Hint hint!! REMEMBER THE 15YR OLD GIRL THAT CALLED HER FATHER USELESS??