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181  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? on: 24-12-2010 05:12 AM
I can be a housewife... being a housewife does not mean you sit around doing nothing... but not by force anyway, I have to be interested in it and it has to be planned.

'Can Housewives be called "real women"??' What does it mean to be a real woman? what qualifies a woman as real or fake?... didn't know people think of house wives as fake women
182  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: pls help me on: 24-12-2010 04:57 AM
tell your husband, don't pay the money, I'm not sure why you are asking if she can still be your friend, she is not your friend move on
183  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: can u marry a guy dat u dnt love on: 24-12-2010 04:52 AM
NO
184  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Stolen Benin City Mask To Be Auctioned In London For N1.25b on: 24-12-2010 04:41 AM
We have a president abi, oya let him perform and bring it back... these people went around stealing and killing in the name of the queen and people still worship them today, anyway back to the story... it is clear it does not belong to them, they stole it, it should be returned. Selling stolen property? What is the excuse? its not like they do not know its origin.
185  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Ojukwu wishes to die Jan 13 on: 24-12-2010 03:39 AM
Nigerians are too funny... why are people arguing over this? he said he wishes  to die... let him die. He wishes, he didn't say he is going to kill himself. HE IS THE ONE THAT KNOWS WHAT HE IS GOING THROUGH.
186  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon Comments On Death of Pa. Enahoro on: 19-12-2010 05:08 PM
Quote from: ourhearts on 19-12-2010 07:44 AM
Quote from: Abby on 18-12-2010 03:17 PM
I forgot to add... I would not respond to ignorant comments.

Young lady, this page is a social fun page. Do not use it to insult anybody. Nobody is ignorant here. If you think you are educated, go to white and write speeches for Obama or become a news editor for cnn. Secondly, you have to apologise to the honourable you insulted. You are not his constituency who elected him as a member of the national house of assembly.

Young man, everyone did not come here for fun and as I mentioned before I did not find this funny. The man is not a comedian, his job is not to make you laugh, if that is the only response he gets there is something wrong with that. He wrote a tribute to someone not a joke.

I said I will not respond to ignorant comments not ignorant people. There is a difference.

If you are offering the job, I'll take it  Grin

I didn't insult him, no reason to apologise. Until you can prove me wrong, there is no reason to apologise.

I do not have to be the one that put him there to have a voice in this matter, he is one of the leaders of my country, the country is in a state, they should be held accountable. I think one of the reasons Nigeria is the way is is we feel all our elders and leaders deserve respect, NO. If someone is doing something wrong even if he is 75 he should accountable for it. Respect goes both ways, you respect me, I respect you. Thats why we have glorified criminals in our midst and no one says anything , eg Babaginda (I'm sure you feel he deserves an apology too)
187  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon Comments On Death of Pa. Enahoro on: 19-12-2010 05:06 PM
Quote from: OLUOJK on 19-12-2010 04:27 PM
@ Abby, I quite agree with your assessment of the situation. I personally believe that even a Professor of English from Oxford while he might understand each words individually will still have to pause at the composition of this man's statement to comprehend its meaning.
However, I do not agree with your method of engaging everyone that makes a negative comment about your post.

You should realize that all Nigerians want to have an opinion about everything no matter how twisted their thoughts are. Please kindly refrain from answering every negative comments as it will just enrage you the more as it is me. Having said that, I still support your view that their is nothing honorable about this so called self serving honorable  .

The way they want to have an opinion about my opinion is the same way I want to have an opinion about their opinion. That is why there is the 'Insert Quote' by the side; it is so that people can respond to themselves. I been here for a while I respond back to some posts most I don't respond to because I know it tends to create problems. Which I why I wrote "I forgot to add... I would not respond to ignorant comments" meaning I'm respond but not to comments that have no meaning or I see no use in commenting back because I will create ... Most of the comments I have responded to have been in form of questions anyway. I have a bit of extra time now, which is why end up writing posts this long  Grin , so I'm quite happy to respond to anyone who has something to say to me, I'm not responding to other people I'm responding to people who direct their response to me.

I'm really not a trouble maker but I can be very blunt  Grin  which makes me sound a bit rude... but thank you anyway I understand what you mean, I really don't respond to negative comments all the time.
188  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon Comments On Death of Pa. Enahoro on: 19-12-2010 04:04 PM
Quote from: ourhearts on 19-12-2010 07:36 AM
Quote from: Abby on 18-12-2010 02:22 PM
This man has problems and he is definitely not a leader.  Who can say the understood what they have just read?  You have an idea but you do not understand. The average English person, even an English professor in England would not understand this fluently. Spare me the talk about me being angry because I didn't do to school or I cannot understand him, I am not even fronting I do not understand him and that is the problem.

ok so yes he has the knowledge of big words but he does not have the wisdom to apply them properly. Who uses so many big words in a paragraph? in a sentence?  An average person knows the importance of COMMUNICATION, even a person below average understands it. You talk to people in the language they understand, or you use the words they understand; basically talk to people in the way that they would understand. This dude with all his knowledge of big words does not understand that, I say he has the knowledge fine, but he lacks wisdom and he is not an intelligent man.

Why do we keep falling for bullshit like this? This man is as useless as all our other leaders and people are quick to praise him for his excessive use of words that they do not understand   Huh?  So he is leader right, how does he communicate with his people?  That is basic, leaders should have good communication skills, this guy has none... how do they communicate? The average Nigerian, even they ones above average do not understand what he is saying, so what is the point?

He may have something important to say or the things that he means to say are good, but his presentation totally takes away from it. For example, no one is talking about how nice the things he said about Anthony Enahoro are, most of the comments here will be about the words that he used, on his YouTube videos most of the comments are not about how much sense he makes or how intelligent he is because of the solutions he offers or the things he talks about, it is about the words he used or how intelligent he is because he threw a lot of big words together that they do not understand. His act, because that is what it is I refuse to believe he cannot speak any other way, completes takes away from his message.  No one needs a leader like him, he is a joke. Someone said ‘they’ must have put him there to make them laugh, I would not be surprised, that is the only result he gets. 

What is he trying to prove?  Tony Blair, Barack Obama and other leaders, people understand what they are saying... and maybe he should also try learning how to pronounce the words properly while he is a worrying about how much big words he knows. At first I use to laugh, but it is not funny anymore, this guy is a leader, he is in the house if rep... tomorrow he will want to be a president as someone suggested  Huh?  and those trousers?  this is really a joke, a gimmick either that or he has serious issues


You are a good example of a good woman in a bathroom, a mad man came into the bathroom, stole her clothes and the woman chased the mad man nakedly. They two shall be called mad people. Why would you write this soliloquy.

knowledge, communication, understand, presentation,  intelligent, gimmick, paragraph... these are words from my posts which you may be referring to, if I missed out any other 'big' word that I used let you know... how can you compare those to "dymistify,explode and pulverize the machivellian,mephistophelian,primitively accumulative and rabidly sybaritic" which is just a line from his... how are those similar Huh?   what is the relationship between them except that they are both English?

so you can criticise me but then throw in "soliloquy" I bet you had to check you dictionary for that one  Grin Grin
189  Forum / Politics / Re: Jonathan goes spiritual on Endorsement on: 19-12-2010 03:31 PM
these people really know how to keep Nigerians going... is he the first politician to do this? are they not the ones in the front seats of all the big churches? what difference has it made... NONE
190  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon Comments On Death of Pa. Enahoro on: 19-12-2010 12:18 AM
lol @ popo2009,  are a Niajapals admin? If someone responds to me should I not respond back, or people are not allowed to comment on other peoples posts. I'm sure you understand you are doing the same thing.
191  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Edo girls demand an apology on: 18-12-2010 05:21 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 18-12-2010 05:15 PM
Quote from: Abby on 18-12-2010 05:06 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 18-12-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: Abby on 18-12-2010 04:34 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 18-12-2010 04:10 PM
Nigerians please all of you should stop acting as if Nigerian people are the best in the world with no flaws. For those of you who think arguing in forums make Nigerians fools or torn apart in the eyes of non-nigerians who come in here....I have one word for you...HYPOCRITES. Go to forums by people from other countries...they argue, use derogatory words to pass on their opinion, they insult one another on forums, call each other names just to prove a point. So Nigerians should stop this holier than thou attitude and just be themselves. If we are human beings, we have to act like HUMAN BEINGS. And last time I checked, human beings argue, get pissed off, call each other names, act stupid....that's why the word STUPID exists. So we all have one thing in common...HUMAN BEINGS...If you do not like the insult or manner of words used in this forum, there is an 'X' button on the far top of you screen. Please use it.

Hypocrite? You know what it means to be an hypocrite right... to say one thing and do the other. Speaking of hypocrite, this is missing @ abby. Others do it does not mean it it right. For example, Nigerians are not the only ones who scam, does it make scamming a good thing?

"So Nigerians should stop this holier than thou attitude and just be themselves." so being yourself means insulting others, having no respect or being tribalistic, you need to be bringing another person down to be yourself right.

" And last time I checked, human beings argue, get pissed off, call each other names, act stupid....that's why the word STUPID exists" I'm sure if you check further you will see that human beings are also capable of critical thinking, empathy, compassion, ability to differentiate individual actions from group actions and other things of that nature.

Who says criticism is a bad thing? but this post is full of it, this is not criticism it is more of labelling with other disgusting things.
I never said doing all of that is a good thing BUT people should be themselves wherever they go. In other words, no matter how righteous you think you are, you are still a sinner in the eyes of God. No one is perfect. You wanna tell me that all the folks in here acting up have never behaved themselves in one way or the other through out their life time? All i am saying is that we are all human beings and it is in our nature to have multiple behavior. That someone comes in here to insult other people doesn't mean they insult everyone they've ever come across ONLINE of OFFLINE. People want to get their opinion across and they try to do it in a way they want to. People have feelings and emotions flare up sometimes. That is what makes us humans. People could be all of the things you listed out and also at same time exhibit all the bad words you could ever think of. Again we are all humans and no one is perfect or close to perfection. BE WHO YOU ARE for YOU and not for Anyone or the Whole world.

What about  being accountable. If someone like to kill people or eat human flesh, and then after he says... well thats who I am, or that how I like it, is that ok too? Does being who you are mean that you should forget about other people feeling and all that and just "do you". Is that what you mean, anything goes just be yourself and care about nothing else. What happen to "doing too much" because the people here are overdoing it
I am sure everyone in here spewing hate and unleashing all their anger and insults on other people can account for their behavior BUT being accountable doesn't mean it won't happen. Killing people is going to the extreme BUT then every country in the world have too many killers and sinner and wrong doers, if you may. All I am saying is that Nigerians should stop acting like they are perfect and be themselves. Human beings act up. That is why we are human beings. You do not ask someone to behave well when you yourself is not perfect. You do not ask someone to be holy in public just so people won't know the person is a syko. If you are a syko, show it both in public and when not in public. Now that's being yourself. If people do not like it, they can kiss the bulahlah.

Fair enough, this is going nowhere so it would be my last response. But yeah lets all be ourselves and be total A*#Ss while we're at it.  Smiley
192  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon Comments On Death of Pa. Enahoro on: 18-12-2010 05:13 PM
Quote from: kebella on 18-12-2010 04:13 PM
Quote from: Abby on 18-12-2010 03:17 PM
I forgot to add... I would not respond to ignorant comments.

@KABBY LOL, RE U THE POSTER? THIS UR BRODA SEF FUNNY NA BI SMALL

I was referring to be person who  responded to me and and other response I get.
193  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon Comments On Death of Pa. Enahoro on: 18-12-2010 05:12 PM
Quote from: kebella on 18-12-2010 05:09 PM
@KABBY I DONT UNDERSTAND YOU AGAIN, WHICH SIDE RE YOU, YOU SAID YOU WONT ACCEPT ANY FOUL WORD ABT HONORABLE N' UR HERE SAYING HE DONT USE HIS GRAMMER THE RIGHT WAY, I TIRE 4 YOU OOOOOOO, EBI NA SAY YOU CARRY FIRE ENTRE HOUSE 2DAY.  Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?  
please quote me
194  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Edo girls demand an apology on: 18-12-2010 05:06 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 18-12-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: Abby on 18-12-2010 04:34 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 18-12-2010 04:10 PM
Nigerians please all of you should stop acting as if Nigerian people are the best in the world with no flaws. For those of you who think arguing in forums make Nigerians fools or torn apart in the eyes of non-nigerians who come in here....I have one word for you...HYPOCRITES. Go to forums by people from other countries...they argue, use derogatory words to pass on their opinion, they insult one another on forums, call each other names just to prove a point. So Nigerians should stop this holier than thou attitude and just be themselves. If we are human beings, we have to act like HUMAN BEINGS. And last time I checked, human beings argue, get pissed off, call each other names, act stupid....that's why the word STUPID exists. So we all have one thing in common...HUMAN BEINGS...If you do not like the insult or manner of words used in this forum, there is an 'X' button on the far top of you screen. Please use it.

Hypocrite? You know what it means to be an hypocrite right... to say one thing and do the other. Speaking of hypocrite, this is missing @ abby. Others do it does not mean it it right. For example, Nigerians are not the only ones who scam, does it make scamming a good thing?

"So Nigerians should stop this holier than thou attitude and just be themselves." so being yourself means insulting others, having no respect or being tribalistic, you need to be bringing another person down to be yourself right.

" And last time I checked, human beings argue, get pissed off, call each other names, act stupid....that's why the word STUPID exists" I'm sure if you check further you will see that human beings are also capable of critical thinking, empathy, compassion, ability to differentiate individual actions from group actions and other things of that nature.

Who says criticism is a bad thing? but this post is full of it, this is not criticism it is more of labelling with other disgusting things.
I never said doing all of that is a good thing BUT people should be themselves wherever they go. In other words, no matter how righteous you think you are, you are still a sinner in the eyes of God. No one is perfect. You wanna tell me that all the folks in here acting up have never behaved themselves in one way or the other through out their life time? All i am saying is that we are all human beings and it is in our nature to have multiple behavior. That someone comes in here to insult other people doesn't mean they insult everyone they've ever come across ONLINE of OFFLINE. People want to get their opinion across and they try to do it in a way they want to. People have feelings and emotions flare up sometimes. That is what makes us humans. People could be all of the things you listed out and also at same time exhibit all the bad words you could ever think of. Again we are all humans and no one is perfect or close to perfection. BE WHO YOU ARE for YOU and not for Anyone or the Whole world.

What about  being accountable. If someone like to kill people or eat human flesh, and then after he says... well thats who I am, or that how I like it, is that ok too? Does being who you are mean that you should forget about other people feeling and all that and just "do you". Is that what you mean, anything goes just be yourself and care about nothing else. What happen to "doing too much" because the people here are overdoing it
195  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon Comments On Death of Pa. Enahoro on: 18-12-2010 04:53 PM
"Miss Lectuer we can hear you and undersatand you well.Don't say that this guy is not intelligent,he is intelligent and most of the things he said was true fact.At least this shows that he did not while a way his school days in drinking and clubbing."

I'm sure they didn't teach him those words in school, what hes should have learn in school is how to communicate. Teachers need to be able to communicate properly so the students would get it.  When you say 'most of the things he said was true fact' do you mean the words? I  don't know about 'bigstouting' and 'pepersouping' but in his first video, or the first one I saw, I looked up the words and found some of them, there were real words even though they were not pronounced correctly. As I said he has the knowledge of the word, which is good... but he does not apply them properly. If you mean the meaning of the things he said, well that is not what we are discussing now though, we are talking about the words he used which is what I mean by his presentation takes away from what he says.
196  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Edo girls demand an apology on: 18-12-2010 04:34 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 18-12-2010 04:10 PM
Nigerians please all of you should stop acting as if Nigerian people are the best in the world with no flaws. For those of you who think arguing in forums make Nigerians fools or torn apart in the eyes of non-nigerians who come in here....I have one word for you...HYPOCRITES. Go to forums by people from other countries...they argue, use derogatory words to pass on their opinion, they insult one another on forums, call each other names just to prove a point. So Nigerians should stop this holier than thou attitude and just be themselves. If we are human beings, we have to act like HUMAN BEINGS. And last time I checked, human beings argue, get pissed off, call each other names, act stupid....that's why the word STUPID exists. So we all have one thing in common...HUMAN BEINGS...If you do not like the insult or manner of words used in this forum, there is an 'X' button on the far top of you screen. Please use it.

Hypocrite? You know what it means to be an hypocrite right... to say one thing and do the other. Speaking of hypocrite, this is missing @ abby. Others do it does not mean it it right. For example, Nigerians are not the only ones who scam, does it make scamming a good thing?

"So Nigerians should stop this holier than thou attitude and just be themselves." so being yourself means insulting others, having no respect or being tribalistic, you need to be bringing another person down to be yourself right.

" And last time I checked, human beings argue, get pissed off, call each other names, act stupid....that's why the word STUPID exists" I'm sure if you check further you will see that human beings are also capable of critical thinking, empathy, compassion, ability to differentiate individual actions from group actions and other things of that nature.

Who says criticism is a bad thing? but this post is full of it, this is not criticism it is more of labelling with other disgusting things.
197  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: HELP!!! I AM PREGNANT FOR HIM BUT HE........... on: 18-12-2010 03:57 PM
why is she surprised? The guy told her the plan from the beginning, I'm sure getting pregnant was not part of it. Her job was be a side chick, warm bed, do chores all of that and be disposable at his will, that  excludes a child because they are long term commitment and his wife is not supposed to know, she agreed and now she is surprised?  Huh? please
198  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Edo girls demand an apology on: 18-12-2010 03:43 PM
Quote from: Pointzero on 18-12-2010 03:29 PM
Quote from: Abby on 18-12-2010 03:14 PM
wow, there is waaaay too much ignorance here.  So this is now about Igbo vs Edo.  This makes me remember something a little personal. My mom is an Igbo woman and she refused to a man that she liked, he was good and all that, everything perfect. She refused to marry him because he is  from Edo state even though both of the do not live in Nigeria and she is quick to remind me that I should not marry someone from Benin and how bad they are.

My mom is an intelligent woman, not because she is my mom but she is and even with all of that she still has this very backward mentality what I sure has something to do with what she learnt while growing, what her parents told her, and the experiences she has had with Edo state people but I'm sure she has also had good experiences with them (because she is still friends with the guy) but when you think that way you do not see the good of anything other person/people do even if it is in your face.

What happen to their individual character or beliefs? Every group has is good and bad, there are good Edo people, they are bad Edo people... they are good Igbo people, there are bad Igbo people. Igbo people have very bad stereotypes as well. Why judge a group of people by only the negative things and make is true for everyone else in that group?  Sad thing is we pass this backwardness to our children, who pass it to their children...  We cant even get along as Nigerian, and its grown people doing this.  Embarrassed

@abby pls can u summarize dis ur essay cos i ain't figure it out........lol
I am not surprised. Its pretty basic.
199  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon Comments On Death of Pa. Enahoro on: 18-12-2010 03:17 PM
I forgot to add... I would not respond to ignorant comments.
200  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Edo girls demand an apology on: 18-12-2010 03:14 PM
wow, there is waaaay too much ignorance here.  So this is now about Igbo vs Edo.  This makes me remember something a little personal. My mom is an Igbo woman and she refused to a man that she liked, he was good and all that, everything perfect. She refused to marry him because he is  from Edo state even though both of the do not live in Nigeria and she is quick to remind me that I should not marry someone from Benin and how bad they are.

My mom is an intelligent woman, not because she is my mom but she is and even with all of that she still has this very backward mentality what I sure has something to do with what she learnt while growing, what her parents told her, and the experiences she has had with Edo state people but I'm sure she has also had good experiences with them (because she is still friends with the guy) but when you think that way you do not see the good of anything other person/people do even if it is in your face.

What happen to their individual character or beliefs? Every group has is good and bad, there are good Edo people, they are bad Edo people... they are good Igbo people, there are bad Igbo people. Igbo people have very bad stereotypes as well. Why judge a group of people by only the negative things and make is true for everyone else in that group?  Sad thing is we pass this backwardness to our children, who pass it to their children...  We cant even get along as Nigerian, and its grown people doing this.  Embarrassed
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