People would look for anything to blame but themselves... how can you be a victim of marrying your age mate?   

I  don't know. I am not too eager to jump into the next group/cult. At the moment I am a bit unsure, I am researching different things. If I absolutely must put myself into a group or define myself... I'd go with agnostic.

  Its not in the bible. Its one of those popular "bible quotes" that is not actually in the bible. My point is, its not enough to pray, pray ,pray... there needs to be some form of action.

I hope there is another abby here.

  I have a few errors, I didn't proof read. I got carried away by someone telling me how to talk as a woman because I asked questions.

  Yes, lets support everyone that comes in the name of God... which is pretty much what we have been doing, I hope you like the results. Do you mean I am a woman I should be dumb, I am a woman I should not have a opinions, I am a woman I should not think critically, I am a woman I should not ask questions... all I need to do is shut up and nod... and of course pray to God... Should I give her my full support because she is a "prophetess"... What do you mean?
  Why don't you think and ask questions and not just accept everything.  why don't you think about the implications of the event and what she is saying?... can you go to the Philippines and hoist a flag of victory, do you know what it means when people go to other lands and hoist flags? why are you raising Israel flag in your country?  is there Nigerian flag there, or a Yoruba flag? do you know that Israel is systematically sterilizing Ethiopians in their country not and I am not even going into the Palestine and all of that.  Did you even bother answer my questions or did you Just see woman of God and of course all is well. I bet you have been watching and praying since you were born and you parents did the same and so on and when slave ships were sailing off we were watching and praying. Even the bible says heavens help those who helps themselves. Anyway if you I should not think or ask questions,  I can not do it ...I have a mind and a brain and I have to use it.

I am Nigerian. If you are going to ask me any other question, about what I believe, send me a message... I dislike when  people turn a post into something entirely different from its original topic.

I am not kidding.

No, and I am not an atheist.

I am not a muslim either.

lol wow

 

absolutely... I knew you by your fruits. I do not believe in the bible, so tell that to someone else.

how can you contradict yourself that way in 3 lines? ... wow

Let me put it this way, women are not inferior to men, women were not created to please men, women do not have to do everything men say... I would go on but I would be wasting my time. I have seen a couple of your posts and your are one of those Hebrew Israelites who think women were made as tools for you and they have to do what you say, when you say it and exactly how you say it.  Were you expecting me to insult men? unlike you I don't have to put men down to make me feel like more of a woman.

If you are looking for someone to insult you try someone else, preferably in really life with her husband or boyfriend, that would work.

Meaning I believe men and women are equally significant. Not necessarily equal because they play different roles but equally significant.

Honey speak for yourself. If life was all about men there would only be men.

  Why is this surprising. Most Nigeria men don't know how to cook (I said most not all). In most homes girls are told they have to be in the kitchen, learn how to be good wives, look after their husbands and so on while the boys go out and play football or do something else, and its very typical in Nigerian homes.

He wants her to be dependent on him forever. What are the chances he will marry her anyway?. His reasons are all about him and his insecurities.
1.that they may not get married at the end.  Goes both ways if shes decides not to they may not get marry in the end.
2.she may betray him in school becos she may need money and he may not have to give to her. Insecure? She can betray him in or out of university... not valid.
3. she may not finish becos he cant wait for her for four years. Its really all about him
4. and if she finishes he may have gotten married to another person. Is he saying he is not going to be faithful?

Depends on what she wants if she doesn't mind and he is capable or providing for them she can do ahead, if she really wants to go to university she is going to be miserable forever if they don't work out or if the have problems in the marriage because she always remember or remind him that she gave up education for him, or think what if.