until he is ready to move on...

what type of physical reaction do you want... you what her to have sex with you because you told her you love her?

I like how men get dumb when women ask them to play the role of providers but they KNOW all about how women are meant to submit, and be caring, men are the head and bla bla

guys look at womens chest and behind too na... and you never know she may be looking at your belt 

but you know the answer to this sha... why ask. So if people here tell you to go ahead you will?... I think you will do what you want at the end of the day, everyone else's opinion does not matter except you are seeking approval... no one here will share your conscience or live with the  consequences of your action.

    wtf

maybe she deserves to carry that burden... She forgave him? he must be a very rich man or she is very silly

*kiss teeth*

 

is this a joke? 

I agree expect I do not believe that love does not exist. If there is hate there is love. I think it has more to do with peoples perception of love. 'Falling in love' is not the end of it, there are other things that are important like trust, compatibility, personality, compromise and so on. For  example, some  people may claim to be in love or even be really good friend but the moment they decide they want to live together is when things falls apart because they find out that they can not share personal space, one is too overbearing, one does not want to compromise,  their jobs conflict or their ideas of family roles conflict... some find out quickly that love is not enough  or that love is what you make of it (which is why people say I could  have loved him/her better), others find out after years. I don't believe in 'falling in love' or I don't believe in it as this uncontrollable desire, I think people chose who they love or who they want to love, there is some sort of decision and effort that goes into it and people need to keep those decisions and effort up to keep the love going.

When one says love is not enough, people think it is crazy or if its a woman shes a gold digger, but I think it is true. If you are going to marry someone or going to commit to some one for the rest of your life its not enough to just be in love. Love is what you make of it, its not a state that you are in forever you have to sort of work at it. Trust, caring, mutual understanding, financial stability, commitment,appreciation, compromise and so on have to be up to par, because I think they make love instead of being the outcome love and so they should be important. People put too much emphasis on love alone instead of looking at the whole picture and the things that keeps love going because if those thing are shaky it will affect the quality of love

You told you dad    I don't  believe in marriage, I can't tell my mom she might have a heart attack and blame me for it.

Yes I can, I would be more concerned about the reason  he is divorced.

No, except he has a similar sense of style as I do or better. I am the one wearing the clothes I need to feel comfortable wearing it.

  what kind of advice do you need... how to become a  virgin again? how to remake a vow? how to abstain from sex?...  seems like you confessed to strangers and opened yourself to unnecessary criticism... 

Older men does not always mean married men. While I would not date older married men, I prefer to date older or mature men but not solely for the reasons you mentioned. There are young men who are mature and older men who act like fools... it depends.

so because she is beautiful she is a mami water    Nigerians!  , seems like a woman people would love to hate because of her looks... and I'm not condoning what she did, it is wrong.

If you are into men no need to trash women to justify your desire. ok so you have had bad experiences with some women, I'm sure you have had bad experiences with some men and good experiences with some women too, I know women who have had terrible experiences with men. There are good and bad men and women. If you keep making bad choices and choosing bad women, you are the one making a mistake or making the same mistake again and again. Stop shifting the responsibility, sort yourself out.

80% ?  wow

I bet the men talking about not wanting a lazy wife or wanting their wifes to add to the household income also want their wives to maintain their traditional roles like cooking, caring for the kids, keeping the house in order and so on... and also think those are womens roles.

no