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on: 22-03-2011 06:07 PM
| Some of us really do deserve what we get. This guy still has negative views about women and continues to support people who post that negative view but he is not the problem, the problem is the people who disagree and are offended by his comments... and who supports him surprisingly the women he degrades. All the nonsense he is talking about he did not generalise, any person that can read and understand know that that is a lie. He clearly put all women in the same category... taking about adam and eve and why did god create women and all that nonsense but he is alright he can say what ever he want because he is entitled to this opinions right, and the people disagreeing, are they not entitled to their opinion. I'm not addressing him any more because as I said before I have learnt it is a waste of time, but baffled by the women that support him. All the degrading things he has posted its all ok because he says love, dear , honey and all of that all the while agreeing with the men who continue to insult women and the men who say the use women and will continue to use women... but its ok, you dont address those men and the comments they make, you dont address the issue but the people who get offended by it... very interesting
@ blessedme thats not an apology... and if we want to pretend that it is the poster did not mean it because many times after that he continues reposting degrading comments and agreeing with people who posted those comments. If you apologise/ sorry about some thing... you move on from that and do not repeat the same thing over and over all the while taking about peace.
Abby, I understand ur point very well...but if u read our comments (mine and blessedme) very well, there was no where we supported the poster......all we were trying to prove is that hurling back insults and abuses would only strengthen his negative notion about women (and do u care about this?). Just like ladeelaracraft said u don't fight fire by fire and not get burnt! How sweet would it have been if we all had just made him feel silly and sorry about his posts instead of throwing abuses and insults @ ourselves....like he explained, he had laid it to rest by posting something different last night but some people kept on with the insults so instead of replying directly, he decided to be reposting the other guys' comments which give credence to his own....do u know what this means? We are their mothers whether they like it or not and we should have just treated the poster like our child! You dont have to declare support for something to be in support of... if he was truly apologetic and wanted to end things there was not need to keep reposting those comments... But as I said before I'm not addressing him. Dont expect everybody to react to situations the same way you would, people are different. He is not my child , he is a grown man... he should act like a grown man. | | | | |
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on: 22-03-2011 05:51 PM
| | "the key to success in work, in marriage and well in life generally is knowing when to open yur mouth n wen to shut up" if thats the key in your life, apply it well. is that key for women alone?... tell some of the men here to apply it. If you have a broblem with something shutting up about it wont change anything. If you disagree with something, you speak against it.
" As ladies, we shud b ambassadors of peace we shud all learn to facilitate changes subtly in our men n family n trust me the sure way to ruin that is to develop a reputation as a trouble-maker. " ladies humans... everyone should apply common sense not just women. Two people need to agree to make peace, if it coming from one side alone nothing works.
I'm giving my opinions, if you agree... good, if you disagree, good. If you think he is entitled to his opinions as everybody is, I am entitled to mine. | | | | |
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on: 22-03-2011 05:04 PM
| | Some of us really do deserve what we get. This guy still has negative views about women and continues to support people who post that negative view but he is not the problem, the problem is the people who disagree and are offended by his comments... and who supports him surprisingly the women he degrades. All the nonsense he is talking about he did not generalise, any person that can read and understand know that that is a lie. He clearly put all women in the same category... taking about adam and eve and why did god create women and all that nonsense but he is alright he can say what ever he want because he is entitled to this opinions right, and the people disagreeing, are they not entitled to their opinion. I'm not addressing him any more because as I said before I have learnt it is a waste of time, but baffled by the women that support him. All the degrading things he has posted its all ok because he says love, dear , honey and all of that all the while agreeing with the men who continue to insult women and the men who say the use women and will continue to use women... but its ok, you dont address those men and the comments they make, you dont address the issue but the people who get offended by it... very interesting
@ blessedme thats not an apology... and if we want to pretend that it is the poster did not mean it because many times after that he continues reposting degrading comments and agreeing with people who posted those comments. If you apologise/ sorry about some thing... you move on from that and do not repeat the same thing over and over all the while taking about peace. | | | | |
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on: 22-03-2011 12:28 PM
| @ pholake... he hasn't. If a man posts degrading things in a few minutes or whenever he will support it. He did the same this morning. He is being jekyll and hyde and some of us are falling for it. He never said he does not have those beliefs anymore, he didn't apologise, he is not disagreeing with the people continuing to post negative thing... he is still supporting them, doing the same thing except that he is adding sweety , love and dear the rest of that to his comments and trying to be nice. I'm not saying she should stop because he has changed his beliefs but because its pointless, its not going anywhere.
Exactly! And for the rest of ur comments, his views about women don't change a thing! yes hes view doesn't change a thing, it would be nice if he keep them to himself though. I'm sure everyone has things they dont like, but everyone does not go around promoting hate for those things. Why do we think we can tell truenaija to keep her opinions to herself and not tell this man and his supporters to keep their opinions to themselves ... their opinions are ok but hers are not? double standards? or thats not what a woman should be doing?... anyway we have said she should stop, if she does or doesn't its her business just as we don't care if these men stop or continue with their beliefs of women. At the end of the day it left to both of them to stop, if he doesn't reply to her I'm sure she wont continue and vice versa | | | | |
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on: 22-03-2011 11:59 AM
| | @ pholake... he hasn't. If a man posts degrading things in a few minutes or whenever he will support it. He did the same this morning. He is being jekyll and hyde and some of us are falling for it. He never said he does not have those beliefs anymore, he didn't apologise, he is not disagreeing with the people continuing to post negative thing... he is still supporting them, doing the same thing except that he is adding sweety , love and dear the rest of that to his comments and trying to be nice. I'm not saying she should stop because he has changed his beliefs but because its pointless, its not going anywhere. | | | | |
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on: 22-03-2011 11:42 AM
| | I guess what truenaija9 is saying is that this guy still has his disgusting beliefs about Nigerian women, but all he has to say is a few sweet words and all is well. Talking about peace and with the same hands typing disgusting things and reposting degrading comments, yes that is an hyprocrite. @truenaija9 its ok, we understand... some of us can see what is going on. let it end | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why are Nigerian babes so complicated? (Page 45) |
on: 22-03-2011 10:24 AM
| should i start posting abt nigerian men on dis site  since u say rubbishin ourselves is called post i can help u guys out give the real definitions of nigerian men , thats what is destroyin nigeria everybody hates everybody but they live under the sham of hypocrisy then when they want to point fingers for thier failures they say its the colonial masters, since 1960 dey left our country since den i ask has our country developed positively or negatively hmmmmm i guess der is nothin positive obvious it developed negatively cos of hate greed and hypocrisy, u dis nigerian men still come on dis site and continue from where nigeria stopped rubbishin the very person tht made ur existence possible some of these women even died in the process of givin birth to you or of lookin for daily bread for u , wht r u worth when u talk of a woman in these manner, absolutely nothin and rubbishin our country in face of the whole world u have done enuf rubbishin already dats y our green passport is identified with criminality , and u still point fingers at women only very weak men do this only weak men  leave them alone, let them continue being stupid and ignorant. Nigerian men probably have the worst stereotype of men, I was talking to a friend, he is not Nigerian, yesterday and he brought it up. I had to explain that not all Nigerian like are like that. Nigerian men well are know to be scammers, marry women for passport, lazy men that want money quick, have not respect for women, use women, can not commit, always cheat, physically and emotionally abusive, control freaks and so on. Its well know. If you want to push stereotypes Nigerian men have it worse that Nigerian women. If Nigerian women get as dumb as some one you men and start promoting these storeotypes, I wonder how things will turn out. I wonder what the cause of this is, if its just plain stupidity or mental laziness. Its common sense anyone that can think knows that there are good women and bad women just as there are good men and bad men. I have heard many horror stories about Nigerian men. I know girls who will not date Nigerian men, I almost got to that stage because of my past experiences with Nigerian men and as much as I would like to bash those men I am not blameless I made those choices. I know all Nigerian men are not like that. Like I said before, if you keep attracting flies, check yourself... maybe you are shit. Deal with your issues instead of pointing fingers. You are not the only Nigerian man out there, if other Nigerian and non Nigerian men can find good Nigerian women, whats your excuse? | | | | |
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on: 21-03-2011 03:47 PM
| If you guys are so tired of women, its simple GO TO MEN, thats if you haven't already. Its seem like most of the nonsense I have read here are just people trying to justify their dislike for women. It ok, no now will know if you don't tell, you don't have to confess here, you don't have to take your anger out on women, if you like men just cross over.
Only stupid people keep doing the same thing, making the same bad choices and yet keep pointing fingers at the other person (or even worse all women) never taking into account their own actions and the parts they play in relationship. If you are a man, chances are you choose/chase/ pursue/ go after the women you date and if you keep going from one bad relationship to another, its not because all women are evil... its because you make bad choices. People never want to take responsibility for their actions, always trying to blame the next person, some even get soooo stupid they decide to blame all women. Some men will say 'all women are evil except my mother' right, no you are just deluded. Another thing, why 'Nigerian babe' when you clearly have a problem with women, not just Nigerian women.
Anyway I have seen a lot of this type of nonsense on this site and I try to put in my 2 cents, usually it long but I don't have that time to waste anymore. The people that post these nonsense don't seem to be very bright to begin with, they can not differentiate the character of one woman from characters of women, they cant not be faulted, they don't take responsibility (if you keep attracting flies, check yourself... maybe you are shit), can not think critically, completely ignore the problems that men have and so on, they seem to be already have their minds made up, there is really no point wasting my time.
Someone even commented on how he uses women and ofcourse no had issue with it, he got they typical 'yes get those bitches' response, and you expect to find a good woman. If you want to be treated like a man act like a man .
Hmmm!!! vomiting your anger and frustration at men!!! men are not tired of women per se but they are tired of their attitudes,their bad habits and xters. You are 10% right when you said people do not take responsibilty for their actions.How about women with heavy logs in their eyes,women who cannot see beyond their nose. yes people make bad choices but it becomes questionable when it is a particular specie called women!!! Most of this women are disillusioned to think that the world is all about them!!! You know what it isn't!!! Why Nigerian babes? its cuz its prevalent mong Nigerian girls,that why. No other race has this kind of drama like Nigerian girls!!!! do your research.I have been with women from all over the world and had that opportunity of experiencing different cultures.Its not the same as compared to the so called 9ja babes Unlike you I did not generalise. I was address the person that wrote this, the people that write things like this and their supporters. I know they are decent Nigerian men. lol have you been all over the world? if you are such a good man, why are you going all over the world to look for a women? wouldn't that mean all you are the one with the problem or are the women all over the world the same? If you have been all over the world and you still have woman problems, maybe you should stop and fix you issues or try men, if men don't work... try space.
Going all over the world to look for women? please how old are you? read your post again yourself (does that make sense to you?)
yes I made a mistake... wow thats so surprising, people make mistakes when they type... non issue. Are you exposing yourself to be the same as drwiz... my response was to drwiz. | | | | |
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on: 21-03-2011 03:31 PM
| If you guys are so tired of women, its simple GO TO MEN, thats if you haven't already. Its seem like most of the nonsense I have read here are just people trying to justify their dislike for women. It ok, no now will know if you don't tell, you don't have to confess here, you don't have to take your anger out on women, if you like men just cross over.
Only stupid people keep doing the same thing, making the same bad choices and yet keep pointing fingers at the other person (or even worse all women) never taking into account their own actions and the parts they play in relationship. If you are a man, chances are you choose/chase/ pursue/ go after the women you date and if you keep going from one bad relationship to another, its not because all women are evil... its because you make bad choices. People never want to take responsibility for their actions, always trying to blame the next person, some even get soooo stupid they decide to blame all women. Some men will say 'all women are evil except my mother' right, no you are just deluded. Another thing, why 'Nigerian babe' when you clearly have a problem with women, not just Nigerian women.
Anyway I have seen a lot of this type of nonsense on this site and I try to put in my 2 cents, usually it long but I don't have that time to waste anymore. The people that post these nonsense don't seem to be very bright to begin with, they can not differentiate the character of one woman from characters of women, they cant not be faulted, they don't take responsibility (if you keep attracting flies, check yourself... maybe you are shit), can not think critically, completely ignore the problems that men have and so on, they seem to be already have their minds made up, there is really no point wasting my time.
Someone even commented on how he uses women and ofcourse no had issue with it, he got they typical 'yes get those bitches' response, and you expect to find a good woman. If you want to be treated like a man act like a man .
Hmmm!!! vomiting your anger and frustration at men!!! men are not tired of women per se but they are tired of their attitudes,their bad habits and xters. You are 10% right when you said people do not take responsibilty for their actions.How about women with heavy logs in their eyes,women who cannot see beyond their nose. yes people make bad choices but it becomes questionable when it is a particular specie called women!!! Most of this women are disillusioned to think that the world is all about them!!! You know what it isn't!!! Why Nigerian babes? its cuz its prevalent mong Nigerian girls,that why. No other race has this kind of drama like Nigerian girls!!!! do your research.I have been with women from all over the world and had that opportunity of experiencing different cultures.Its not the same as compared to the so called 9ja babes Unlike you I did not generalise. I was address the person that wrote this, the people that write things like this and their supporters. I know they are decent Nigerian men. lol have you been all over the world? if you are such a good man, why are you going all over the world to look for a women? wouldn't that mean all you are the one with the problem or are the women all over the world the same? If you have been all over the world and you still have woman problems, maybe you should stop and fix you issues or try men, if men don't work... try space. | | | | |
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on: 21-03-2011 03:18 PM
| @ABBY all nigerian men dont have bad sides they r all good dey dont use any girl dey dont break anybodys heart dey r dream men and so on let dem keep decieving demselves cos even d world knows nigerian men for good  angelic wonderful men lol, dont we all know Nigerian men are Gods. They can do no wrong. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why are Nigerian babes so complicated? |
on: 21-03-2011 03:01 PM
| | If you guys are so tired of women, its simple GO TO MEN, thats if you haven't already. Its seem like most of the nonsense I have read here are just people trying to justify their dislike for women. It ok, no now will know if you don't tell, you don't have to confess here, you don't have to take your anger out on women, if you like men just cross over.
Only stupid people keep doing the same thing, making the same bad choices and yet keep pointing fingers at the other person (or even worse all women) never taking into account their own actions and the parts they play in relationship. If you are a man, chances are you choose/chase/ pursue/ go after the women you date and if you keep going from one bad relationship to another, its not because all women are evil... its because you make bad choices. People never want to take responsibility for their actions, always trying to blame the next person, some even get soooo stupid they decide to blame all women. Some men will say 'all women are evil except my mother' right, no you are just deluded. Another thing, why 'Nigerian babe' when you clearly have a problem with women, not just Nigerian women.
Anyway I have seen a lot of this type of nonsense on this site and I try to put in my 2 cents, usually it long but I don't have that time to waste anymore. The people that post these nonsense don't seem to be very bright to begin with, they can not differentiate the character of one woman from characters of women, they cant not be faulted, they don't take responsibility (if you keep attracting flies, check yourself... maybe you are shit), can not think critically, completely ignore the problems that men have and so on, they seem to be already have their minds made up, there is really no point wasting my time.
Someone even commented on how he uses women and ofcourse no had issue with it, he got they typical 'yes get those bitches' response, and you expect to find a good woman. If you want to be treated like a man act like a man . | | | | |
