I think a lot of men like to believe that the more macho or the less they show emotions the more of a man they become. you will be at a bar/club while your wife is giving birth to your child?... I hope you were joking, she might as well be married to a log of wood.

They must be giving them some kind of water in Nollywood that making them believe that if they can act it means they can sing. She should not disgrace herself like this again. STOP IT

I'm beginning to fear Nigerian men ooo    ... he wasn't too tired to drive home abi? he couldn't close his eyes on the chair? he drove home to sleep knowing his wife was in pain giving birth to his child... and people are cosigning this... wow.

If you have a good relationship, he should propose. If he doesn't, talk to him. If you come to a good conclusion, good... If he doesn't want to get married and you want to... move on, its not by force. If he says he doesn't feel compelled to or he is not ready for whatever reason, don't make him do it.  If two people want to get married, two people should consent and two people should be ready for it. I wouldn't make someone else commit to spending the rest of his life with me if if he doesn't want to, he is unsure, he is not ready... (I realise you are male. My 'you' does mean you... started with it already, can't be bothed to change it  )

Is it a competition? husband vs child    ...both of them, whoever need it most at any moment...

They would naturally have rich men around them and of course they would choose the best of them... I think it is the rich men go after then since men are the ones that do the pursuing generally and they choose the best, not many people would choose a poor/average person over a rich person. As to being shallow, I think its because most people, especially men, will give them a pass for many things so they may not have to work as hard as the average person because their beauty makes up for it.  I am not saying that all beautiful women are shallow, actually maybe not because they know people expect them to be dumb so they may try to prove them otherwise but generally they will get a pass for things an average person wouldn't. Plus people don't expect women to be smart anyway so if they know a little its enough.

Nigerian police should not have guns.

Same tree, different branches. The follower have just gotten confused over the years and are killing themselves for nothing... and the people talking about muslims being violet and killing and all of that, you all have some nerves, christians have probably killed twice as more if not 10 times as more in the name of god than muslims have.

  wrong topic

These people don't know how to keep their issues private    ... they are always exposing themselves   

you think? when you have men running about saying that it is their god given right to rule women, and women have to do exactly as they say because all they are just helpers and you have women cosigning and stroking their already bloated ego... I'm beginning to think some women deserve what they get.

Same tree, different branches. The follower have just gotten confused over the years and are killing themselves for nothing... and the people talking about muslims being violet and killing and all of that, you all have some nerves, christians have probably killed twice as more if not 10 times as more in the name of god than muslims have.

@ truenaija2 thank you... While I don't believe that, lets say its true... what does that have to do with the laws and system in Germany.

@ ILOVEIT "don't get it twisted.SUBMISSIVE and SLAVERY are two parallel issues,i just detest when a woman is trying to show too much  of feminism.i reside in germany & i quite understand their laws and how their system do function.those who choices to be stubborn & un submissive to their husband pays the price big time!!!"  ... I don't want to get into the conversation of submission and all that I think I have made myself clear as to what I think about that in another topic recently. I just want to know  what you mean by woman pay the price of not being submissive to their husbands in Germany... how? is it unlawful in Germany? do they get arrested? what is the relationship?

lol the irony of this is that its now two Christians cursing themselves and they are trying to be holy about it and drag god into it    ... so yeah all Christians are not the same, all Muslims are definitely not the same either... but each religion would make excuses for their differences and judge everyone outside their religion as a group and blame it on the religion.

wow... interesting

Budget, equipments, people that would rather get richer than invest... and Jacobs Cross is really good quality I admit, but it is not excellent. We haven't even gotten there, we are still playing although Nollywood has a bigger name.

Genevieve's cover is just ridiculous. Its people that don't know how to photoshop that do that, its way over done.

@  comments... wow, well I am not surprised. When will Nigerians begin to think and ask questions? Leader honours awards for what?... do you guys see the state of this country? Christians and Muslims killing each other ( looks like war is ahead), Delta state oil palava, bombs, Igbos want their country, poverty, corruption, our leaders are know for their BS and so on...  and he is nominated for leadership award  He does not deserve it.  Please do not reply to me if you can not explain why he deserves a leadership award.

wow, some people really don't know how to talk, everything is a joke.   @ truenaija2  its your life you have to take control of it, you can not kill yourself because people don't know how to mind their business. The courage you would use to do it, use it to tell them to mind their business. You can not find peace outside yourself, find out whats frustrating you and deal with it. Theres really not much anyone can say because they don't know your situation.