Hey, it's her husband and marriage vows say "for better for worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us path". she should forgive him cos in the first place she wasn't supposed to deprive him of his conjugal rights. For crying out loud, i believe she said those words in the marriage vow.
if marriage means this its sure im not gonna get married. by the way if they have kids and the men started to have AIDS and the woman didnt have it how did he get it? maybe he was not even keeping the rules of marriage