why are so many successful black women single (Page 3)

Date: 26-12-2009 5:35 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- shantybaby97 at 27-12-2009 11:20 AM (15 years ago)
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i dunno
Posted: at 27-12-2009 11:20 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Toks-E at 27-12-2009 12:20 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 27-12-2009 06:29 AM
they are just independant women that men fear

lie oooo  Cheesy

Posted: at 27-12-2009 12:20 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- fireman at 27-12-2009 12:52 PM (15 years ago)
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They have only themselves to think of.Family and any other thing is just a secondary feature.Love probably sucks.

Posted: at 27-12-2009 12:52 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- clith at 27-12-2009 01:32 PM (15 years ago)
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we know ourselfs every black women or men is full of pride  tthen you now think of the one with litle cash
Posted: at 27-12-2009 01:32 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- myragonza at 27-12-2009 01:35 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on 27-12-2009 12:20 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 27-12-2009 06:29 AM
they are just independant women that men fear

lie oooo  Cheesy



 Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Tongue

Posted: at 27-12-2009 01:35 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 25_vivi at 27-12-2009 03:12 PM (15 years ago)
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@DIRTYKID

black men are abusive in the sence that they beat their wives
most of the time for no good reason
and they dont take care of their families

me i hav a black bf right nw
but i have already told him that if he makes
1 mistake am leavin him
sometimes its good 2 jus be single

Posted: at 27-12-2009 03:12 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 27-12-2009 03:16 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 27-12-2009 06:29 AM
they are just independant women that men fear


is not true.. no one fears them. they just got attitude that scare men away. thats all

Posted: at 27-12-2009 03:16 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- nellygold at 27-12-2009 03:16 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: 1ola on 27-12-2009 01:47 AM
As a Nigerian abroad, you only get good women at home that you can be proud of and who are really wife material, who are ready to stay with you come sun come rain. nearly every lady abroad, to my knowledge most Nigerian women abroad are so arrogant, greedy because they are abroad, they always think they have arrived, that is why everywhere abroad there is almost 70%  single women among Nigerians.
The ladies at home, are 100% better, but some of them also when they arrive abroad they change for the worse instead of the better, and most men regret taken their wives abroad.  What we need to ask howself is why is the marriage working in Nigeria among Nigerians and not overseas?

Very funny lol; meaning u haven't seen couples in that same Nigeria who split after marriage? they are 100% wife material u said; if i may ask, what do u call a wife and husband material?
Posted: at 27-12-2009 03:16 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 27-12-2009 03:21 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: 25_vivi on 27-12-2009 03:12 PM
@DIRTYKID

black men are abusive in the sence that they beat their wives
most of the time for no good reason
and they dont take care of their families

me i hav a black bf right nw
but i have already told him that if he makes
1 mistake am leavin him
sometimes its good 2 jus be single


 Grin Grin My dear, not all men raise hands on their loved wives or girlfriend. so dont refer it to most black men, is only some one with mental problem can raise hands on the wife without no good reason, even with good reason. a normal man can walk away for a while to calm things down. not beaten up someone he love.

Maybe u re watching too many Nollywood drama with that kind of episode  Grin . is not reality.

If u say is good to be single, why do u have a boyfriend, why not start on time to practise singleness, huh ? we all need each other to love and care, no matter what.

Posted: at 27-12-2009 03:21 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- 25_vivi at 27-12-2009 03:37 PM (15 years ago)
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i was single for 7 months b4 i started datin again

Posted: at 27-12-2009 03:37 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 27-12-2009 04:03 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: 25_vivi on 27-12-2009 03:37 PM
i was single for 7 months b4 i started datin again


hmm, intresting, how did u felt that 7months, was it all that easy to be single ?? when u already know what it feels like when love/ care for. Maybe the wrong aggressive ones are coming ur way, doesnt mean all are like that.

rememeber shoes get sizes and qualities  Wink

Posted: at 27-12-2009 04:03 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- 25_vivi at 27-12-2009 04:20 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 27-12-2009 04:03 PM
Quote from: 25_vivi on 27-12-2009 03:37 PM
i was single for 7 months b4 i started datin again


hmm, intresting, how did u felt that 7months, was it all that easy to be single ?? when u already know what it feels like when love/ care for. Maybe the wrong aggressive ones are coming ur way, doesnt mean all are like that.

rememeber shoes get sizes and qualities  Wink

i felt really good those seven monthes
i was independent
i was happy
am only datin again cause he begged me

Posted: at 27-12-2009 04:20 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 27-12-2009 04:24 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: 25_vivi on 27-12-2009 04:20 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 27-12-2009 04:03 PM
Quote from: 25_vivi on 27-12-2009 03:37 PM
i was single for 7 months b4 i started datin again


hmm, intresting, how did u felt that 7months, was it all that easy to be single ?? when u already know what it feels like when love/ care for. Maybe the wrong aggressive ones are coming ur way, doesnt mean all are like that.

rememeber shoes get sizes and qualities  Wink

i felt really good those seven monthes
i was independent
i was happy
am only datin again cause he begged me


Lucky u then  Cool Cool but i know in the other way round is not all true. becos u will not want to open up the other side. but all cool  Cool

Posted: at 27-12-2009 04:24 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ogbidikhe at 27-12-2009 04:30 PM (15 years ago)
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the problems are so many and it depends on the angle you look at them.ladies in good positions want to hear only what they like such as i love u ,u are a dearly ,u are sweet, u are the best , am so lucky having you around me,u are the best among all,no one but u, and when giving them those kind of geest they will take u as the best guy on earth but come to the real fact of marriage stuff,such as i will like u to be early at home today so u can do this and that,they will say (guy that command ) and when u want to let them know that u don't like some of there ways like dressing,talking,outing habit,her friends and generally things u will not like of them(they will tag u to be an understanding guy)
Posted: at 27-12-2009 04:30 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Sholyz at 27-12-2009 05:44 PM (15 years ago)
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Why they dont mary ir that when they have mony they think that they have every thing which is not like that so when they think about marrige the time is alredy gone and no body want to marry hold cago.From sholy
Posted: at 27-12-2009 05:44 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- adedupcy at 27-12-2009 06:07 PM (15 years ago)
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Some don't want 2 be single while some do,but some men feels dating or been
married 2 a woman dat is richer dan dem will control d man instead of d man
2 be in control.Though some women do control but some don't!!
Posted: at 27-12-2009 06:07 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gimac at 27-12-2009 07:19 PM (15 years ago)
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what is right here
Posted: at 27-12-2009 07:19 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- DWildRose at 27-12-2009 07:29 PM (15 years ago)
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The man would be in their way to become really successful if the man does not have a supportive attitude. and they do not have it a lot of times because men can think sometimes only about themselves. especially in a marriage women are more vulnerable and expected to give up her own dreams for the men's success.
Posted: at 27-12-2009 07:29 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- nellygold at 27-12-2009 08:09 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: DWildRose on 27-12-2009 07:29 PM
The man would be in their way to become really successful if the man does not have a supportive attitude. and they do not have it a lot of times because men can think sometimes only about themselves. especially in a marriage women are more vulnerable and expected to give up her own dreams for the men's success.

NICE ONE
Posted: at 27-12-2009 08:09 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chogzie at 27-12-2009 09:22 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: 25_vivi on 26-12-2009 06:28 PM
the first video is true .. more successful black women dont marry or merry on time because of the standerds they hav for themselves .. as for me ... it would b trust .. i dont trust black men ... they are very good liers and r very aggressive

as for the second video .. she is rite .. but i feel tat  it all depends on where she lives .. me i hav gone out wit a portirican an i had hav portarican 4nds tat likes datin black men .. theres nothin wroung wit tat ... she probably lives in like the ghetto or somethin 2 b called those kind of names ... me i incourage blaack men 2 ddate outside there race ... then they will gain exsperiance
na you sabi, have any eaten your hard earned money before? habbah
Posted: at 27-12-2009 09:22 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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