Ladies, Ur man works in CBN and has a promising carrer there. U and him just had the wedding of Ur dreams and U've moved into Ur new home with Ur husband in Lagos. 3months later shortly after Ur very romantic honeymoon Schlumberger calls on U to take up a position that pays N750,000 as basic salary every month in Ghana. Would U take the job? What would u do? Just wondering.

Since i have a good job, she wont move an inch.

Posted: at 9-04-2010 03:23 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[So u r now a spokes person 4 women all over d world?]

Yes women will

So u r now a spokes person 4 women all over d world?

Leave him, hin don turn woman.

Hehe...

Posted: at 9-04-2010 03:33 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

[Selfishness so she can't have a lyfe of her own?or should i say choice of her own.]

Ladies, Ur man works in CBN and has a promising carrer there. U and him just had the wedding of Ur dreams and U've moved into Ur new home with Ur husband in Lagos. 3months later shortly after Ur very romantic honeymoon Schlumberger calls on U to take up a position that pays N750,000 as basic salary every month in Ghana. Would U take the job? What would u do? Just wondering.

Since i have a good job, she wont move an inch.

Selfishness so she can't have a lyfe of her own?or should i say choice of her own.

Posted: at 9-04-2010 03:38 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Ladies, Ur man works in CBN and has a promising carrer there. U and him just had the wedding of Ur dreams and U've moved into Ur new home with Ur husband in Lagos. 3months later shortly after Ur very romantic honeymoon Schlumberger calls on U to take up a position that pays N750,000 as basic salary every month in Ghana. Would U take the job? What would u do? Just wondering.

i wouldnt jus take the job without talkin to my husband about it... its not possible that i jus leave my marriage cuz i found a job in ghana. if my husband and i BOTH come to an understanding that i shouldnt take the job, the i would jus have to be patient until i find something in Lagos. Wats meant for me is for me and if the job in Ghana is for me, then that means my husband will have a job there too cuz i wont leave him behind like that. And even if we relocateed to Ghana becuz of the job, i would make sure he has found one too in ghana so it wouldnt put stress on the marriage.

Posted: at 9-04-2010 09:50 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

which kind luck be that?

Posted: at 9-04-2010 09:52 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Ladies, Ur man works in CBN and has a promising carrer there. U and him just had the wedding of Ur dreams and U've moved into Ur new home with Ur husband in Lagos. 3months later shortly after Ur very romantic honeymoon Schlumberger calls on U to take up a position that pays N750,000 as basic salary every month in Ghana. Would U take the job? What would u do? Just wondering.

i wouldnt jus take the job without talkin to my husband about it... its not possible that i jus leave my marriage cuz i found a job in ghana. if my husband and i BOTH come to an understanding that i shouldnt take the job, the i would jus have to be patient until i find something in Lagos. Wats meant for me is for me and if the job in Ghana is for me, then that means my husband will have a job there too cuz i wont leave him behind like that. And even if we relocateed to Ghana becuz of the job, i would make sure he has found one too in ghana so it wouldnt put stress on the marriage.

And wats CBN???

Posted: at 9-04-2010 10:00 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hmmmmmm...N750.00 per month is a lot of money by Naija standard. Well, since the husband is
the head of the house...lol, i'll allow him to decide for me

i dont believe you.

Posted: at 9-04-2010 10:39 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

yea..

so u'll take up the job and leave me eh?........ ok oh

No na...our love go still dey...

ok....

Posted: at 9-04-2010 11:35 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Am taking the job and if my husband was a reasonable man he would realize i was doing it for our future.

Really? What future exactly are U talking about here? Financial future abi marital future? Hmm!

Posted: at 9-04-2010 12:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

[Selfishness so she can't have a lyfe of her own?or should i say choice of her own.]

Ladies, Ur man works in CBN and has a promising carrer there. U and him just had the wedding of Ur dreams and U've moved into Ur new home with Ur husband in Lagos. 3months later shortly after Ur very romantic honeymoon Schlumberger calls on U to take up a position that pays N750,000 as basic salary every month in Ghana. Would U take the job? What would u do? Just wondering.

Since i have a good job, she wont move an inch.

Selfishness so she can't have a lyfe of her own?or should i say choice of her own.

Lyf of her own? Isnt that what they both threw away when they exchanged vows and were joined as one? What do U mean lyf of her own.

Infact why am i talking. We can be married and have lives of our own shey? These days na what is good for the gander is good for the goose.

Posted: at 9-04-2010 12:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

i wouldnt jus take the job without talkin to my husband about it... its not possible that i jus leave my marriage cuz i found a job in ghana. if my husband and i BOTH come to an understanding that i shouldnt take the job, the i would jus have to be patient until i find something in Lagos. Wats meant for me is for me and if the job in Ghana is for me, then that means my husband will have a job there too cuz i wont leave him behind like that. And even if we relocateed to Ghana becuz of the job, i would make sure he has found one too in ghana so it wouldnt put stress on the marriage.

And wats CBN???

Sorry bout that. CBN is the Central Bank of Nigeria.

Smart that U wouldnt leave him behind; But what if he doesnt have a job in Ghana. A jobless husband is trouble shey U know; so even if he is wlling to move with U how would U handle that?

Posted: at 9-04-2010 12:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Hmmmmmm...N750.00 per month is a lot of money by Naija standard. Well, since the husband is
the head of the house...lol, i'll allow him to decide for me

i dont believe you.

Eminem wannabe, what is the meaning of this? 

Posted: at 9-04-2010 08:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Am taking the job and if my husband was a reasonable man he would realize i was doing it for our future.

Really? What future exactly are U talking about here? Financial future abi marital future? Hmm!

Both, and really there are a lot of factors to be considered here,is the marriage young, is there trust, are kids involved, if there are, it kinda makes the decision harder but seriously isn't my boo's success my success? If he wants his woman to be successful he would not hold her back because i know if its the husband going to Ghana this topic would not be up for discussion.

Posted: at 10-04-2010 12:17 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Did U read thru? 3 months after the honeymoon and this is happening.

What's all this talk about Ur boo's success being Ur success. Success in what na? Maybe the world has changed and I'm stuck in the past but in my opinion the last reason (if at all on the list) a guy would marry a girl is cos she has potentials to be a career success story.

This is a simple case of choose between Ur marriage and Ur happiness and money and Temi I must say U don't seem to be interested in the marriage like U are in what's on the other side.

How do U expect a man to feel about a wife that lives in another country cos she's getting paid huge sums. Is there a man that alive who has a wife and doesnt want to come home to her every day. Mind U it's not like Schlumberger have offered to pay her that amount as a charitable deed. They wil put her to work and she won't have time for herself let alone.... Bla bla bla.... Anyway, it's not like it's me and U in this so whatever babe.

Posted: at 10-04-2010 10:24 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Its a dicey situation 2b in...To each, 'her' own..

Posted: at 10-04-2010 10:41 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Word! I agree. To each his own too.

Posted: at 10-04-2010 11:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Ladies, Ur man works in CBN and has a promising carrer there. U and him just had the wedding of Ur dreams and U've moved into Ur new home with Ur husband in Lagos. 3months later shortly after Ur very romantic honeymoon Schlumberger calls on U to take up a position that pays N750,000 as basic salary every month in Ghana. Would U take the job? What would u do? Just wondering.

i'll discuss with my husband......

Posted: at 10-04-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Makes sense. Makes a lot of sense.

Posted: at 10-04-2010 06:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

uhmm, a dicey one here

Posted: at 10-04-2010 07:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

well i will if i and my spouse agree 2 dat cos i cnt sell my hapiness 4 any deal. bt i will go 4 it cos it worth

Posted: at 10-04-2010 07:39 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

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