Kai! Na tis kain talk I no dey like. Wetin U mean now ehn? How na him cause am? If na him cause am him come talk say in that case go commot am how U go feel?

LOL...........no be him out wetin dey cause all dat yaaaakkkkkkkkk.......hehehehe..........before I come him house, I dey do all that yama yama things??..........so na cane him wan use comot am?...............lol......

Posted: at 8-06-2010 03:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

If U no gree him for put am? If U no want him for no do and U for no dey do the nyama nyama things. Man and woman who send pikin pass?

Posted: at 8-06-2010 03:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Verily, I can not conclude now what i can do in future if my wife happen to be in that scene. All i do wish myself is God Help and guide on how to make my hope the happiest.  

Posted: at 8-06-2010 03:37 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[Assuming that the couple prepared well for the Pregnancy then it shouldn't be irritatingly difficult as it was described by the poster about the Vomiting he termed new development. The first thing needed is MATURITY. My reason for pointing this out is that IF individuals are MATURE then minor details like vomiting, nausea, etc won't frustrate you. Instead it will make you become a better partner capable of providing and caring for your expectant wife. Bringing new life into existence starts with the MIND. If you aren't prepared Mentally for this 9 month process then chances are you won't be ready for the a.m. feedings and changing, crying etc. once the baby arrives. This is NOT a one person JOB. Parenting requires BOTH Parents ACTIVELY. I think that the husband should familiarize himself with all the levels and stages of pregnancy so that he knows how to care for his wife and be more understanding than usual as he will see a flurry of mood swings, body changes, and emotional surges in his wife. During this time it is MOST Critical that the wife knows she has a partner she can DEPEND on and not someone who is throwing a TANTRUM because she vomited. I am going to assume that the Pre-natal facilities have advanced Lamaze classes to help parents as they prepare for the birth of their child back home. This is very important because it teaches the parents how to deal with things such as Post Partum Depression which is acutely brought on after the birth of the baby and experienced by the average mom. Lamaze and Birthing Classes also teach ways to manage appetite and provide tips on things the expectant mother can eat and take from food to medications. This is important because certain foods can aggravate her and the baby's digestive system causing vomiting or nausea, etc. We wouldn't want her to eat something too spicy and hence she vomits all day as a result. There are all kinds of things to remedy vomiting if that is the MAIN Concern as the original poster expressed such as eating Saltine Crackers, Drinking Ginger Ale, etc.]

Assuming that the couple prepared well for the Pregnancy then it shouldn't be irritatingly difficult as it was described by the poster about the Vomiting he termed new development.  The first thing needed is MATURITY.  My reason for pointing this out is that IF individuals are MATURE then minor details like vomiting, nausea, etc won't frustrate you.  Instead it will make you become a better partner capable of providing and caring for your expectant wife.  Bringing new life into existence starts with the MIND.  If you aren't prepared Mentally for this 9 month process then chances are you won't be ready for the a.m. feedings and changing, crying etc. once the baby arrives.  This is NOT a one person JOB.  Parenting requires BOTH Parents ACTIVELY.  I think that the husband should familiarize himself with all the levels and stages of pregnancy so that he knows how to care for his wife and be more understanding than usual as he will see a flurry of mood swings, body changes, and emotional surges in his wife.  During this time it is MOST Critical that the wife knows she has a partner she can DEPEND on and not someone who is throwing a TANTRUM because she vomited.

I am going to assume that the Pre-natal facilities have advanced Lamaze classes to help parents as they prepare for the birth of their child back home.  This is very important because it teaches the parents how to deal with things such as Post Partum Depression which is acutely brought on after the birth of the baby and experienced by the average mom.  Lamaze and Birthing Classes also teach ways to manage appetite and provide tips on things the expectant mother can eat and take from food to medications.  This is important because certain foods can aggravate her and the baby's digestive system causing vomiting or nausea, etc.  We wouldn't want her to eat something too spicy and hence she vomits all day as a result.  There are all kinds of things to remedy vomiting if that is the MAIN Concern as the original poster expressed such as eating Saltine Crackers, Drinking Ginger Ale, etc.

Posted: at 8-06-2010 03:38 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Verily, I can not conclude now what i can do in future if my wife happen to be in that scene. All i do wish myself is God Help and guide on how to make my home the happiest.  

Posted: at 8-06-2010 03:39 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@Igboprincess, thanks for sharing ur insight on the matter and making suggestions.

Posted: at 8-06-2010 03:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

[No Problem, I'm sure you will do well!]

@Igboprincess, thanks for sharing ur insight on the matter and making suggestions.

No Problem, I'm sure you will do well!

Posted: at 8-06-2010 03:57 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

fun but make senses since i will not be able to contact any virus from it i will try keeping close to her  

Posted: at 8-06-2010 04:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

What happened to the extended family structure? What happened to your sisters and her sisters? What happened to your cousins and her cousins? What happened to your nephews? What happened to family? How does one stay with just a wife and an empty house? We shouldn't discard the extended family structure for the white mans new age family structure. More so that it leaves daughters unprotected and sons untethered.

Well, I guess to those of us who have been drunk before, puke aint nothing. It is just something u clean up and you move on. Ha aha ha aha ha ahahah. Ever been drunk? Ever puked on yourself? Ever had a drunk friend puke his intestines out? As for the spitting, do pregnant women go about spitting every chance they get? Do they?

I don't think pregnant women walk around the house spitting every chance they get. I know they feel nauseated some times, but, it is not like they walk around spitting like goats walk around dropping. And I am quite sure, there will be some thing safe out there that reduces the urge to spit.

I think a guy should be more scared of the tantrums and extreme unreasonableness that pregnant women display.

As for me am plane scared of pregnant women. Imagine there is something inside you growing. I dont even want to be near you. In fact make we no sleep for the same bed. What if my hand mistakenly hit you for stomach. In fact I dont want to have anything to do with you till the baby has started walking. No man should be forced to be so careful.

Me think me will have to see a psychologist cause I shudder when near pregnant women and am scared of holding babies. It requires such gentility that is alien to my genes.

NA GOD.

Posted: at 8-06-2010 05:26 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

like u asked i guess a bundle of salted crackers would do her a great deal, in this stage, she might need a lot of distraction on her gullet, like salt, biter substance, or alot of tonic water, to help reduce the spit, but women's body differ from each other, so i can't really help u further, but is best u contact ur doc and by the way too much salt increase the blood pressure, so find more info from your doc, to know what suit her body metabolism

these are the things i would be researching on if it was me

Posted: at 8-06-2010 06:13 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

What happened to the extended family structure? What happened to your sisters and her sisters? What happened to your cousins and her cousins? What happened to your nephews? What happened to family? How does one stay with just a wife and an empty house? We shouldn't discard the extended family structure for the white mans new age family structure. More so that it leaves daughters unprotected and sons untethered.

Well, I guess to those of us who have been drunk before, puke aint nothing. It is just something u clean up and you move on. Ha aha ha aha ha ahahah. Ever been drunk? Ever puked on yourself? Ever had a drunk friend puke his intestines out? As for the spitting, do pregnant women go about spitting every chance they get? Do they?

I don't think pregnant women walk around the house spitting every chance they get. I know they feel nauseated some times, but, it is not like they walk around spitting like goats walk around dropping. And I am quite sure, there will be some thing safe out there that reduces the urge to spit.

I think a guy should be more scared of the tantrums and extreme unreasonableness that pregnant women display.

As for me am plane scared of pregnant women. Imagine there is something inside you growing. I dont even want to be near you. In fact make we no sleep for the same bed. What if my hand mistakenly hit you for stomach. In fact I dont want to have anything to do with you till the baby has started walking. No man should be forced to be so careful.

Me think me will have to see a psychologist cause I shudder when near pregnant women and am scared of holding babies. It requires such gentility that is alien to my genes.

NA GOD.

You are not scared of s** are you?

Posted: at 8-06-2010 07:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I'd expect him to be understanding and caring because he impregnated me.  Seriously, it's a known fact that all marriages goes through patchy bits, and the ability to tolerate one another is very important.  There is no hidden secret to a successful marriage; it depends on (A) what the man is willing to give to make it work (B) what the woman is expecting from the man. I suppose it  all comes down to him trying his best to live up to the promises he made when they tied the knot; To love, To honour, To keep, To respect in sickness and in health etc.  These are the spoken promises that the man ought to remember especially when his wife is pregnant with his baby, vomit or no vomit.

Posted: at 8-06-2010 08:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Haba Wunzie, U too? Most of U chics are just thinking of how he needs to do this and do that. Una no go talk wetin una go do to help guy man dey with una.

I hope U girls of these days realize that it's in pregnancy that men have the most tendency to stray. It's when ur husband is most vulnerable to find "luv" outside with another woman (Slut, tramp, adulteress, goo-for-nothing-husband snatcher... Call her whatever U want).

I'm painting a typical realistic picture here and most of U are just falling my hand woefully.

U know everything he needs to do because he forced u and put his seed in U and forced Ur egg to receive it shey?

Wunzie I expected more from U if no one else cos I thot of what U'd have to say on the topic while I was putting it up. Now U came only to talk Husband should's and husband aught to... I'm not impressed at all.

Posted: at 9-06-2010 08:10 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

like u asked i guess a bundle of salted crackers would do her a great deal, in this stage, she might need a lot of distraction on her gullet, like salt, biter substance, or alot of tonic water, to help reduce the spit, but women's body differ from each other, so i can't really help u further, but is best u contact ur doc and by the way too much salt increase the blood pressure, so find more info from your doc, to know what suit her body metabolism

these are the things i would be researching on if it was me

Over gbasky dey worry U babe. The guy wey U like tell am say make him splurge on U weel well cos U deserve am.

Posted: at 9-06-2010 08:15 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Gentlemen in the house this is for U. It's not about sex or Bosom s or shaving or not shaving the pubic hair and it's not about wet or dry pleasure holes, blowjobs or licking (abi sucking) kitties.

It's about caring for the woman U love.

Here goes:

U just got married to the woman of Ur dreams and on Ur honeymoon that lasted a month, U scored a goal (heck U could have scored 10 goals if nature let U). The sex was fun as was the love making. U both had tons of pure FUN and bonded on a more intimate level. U came back home more in love with her as she more than she is with U.

A month after she breaks the news to U that she's got Ur bun in her oven and U do the celebration dances and spurge on her.

Three months in and U get  to discover a part of Ur wife neither U nor her anticipated. Her body isnt taking the pregnancy very well. She's spitting constantly and throws up all over the place and most times ur around when she does this.

The question is, loving her as much as U do, how easily would U clean up after her if U would at all?

Personally I think most guys would just adjust their schedules to make sure they aren't at home as often as they would be normally.

Ladies, how would U wade thru this rather unexpected development?

Just wondering.

i will be sleeping in a hotel if she do such thing in my presence

Posted: at 9-06-2010 08:17 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

What happened to the extended family structure? What happened to your sisters and her sisters? What happened to your cousins and her cousins? What happened to your nephews? What happened to family? How does one stay with just a wife and an empty house? We shouldn't discard the extended family structure for the white mans new age family structure. More so that it leaves daughters unprotected and sons untethered.

Well, I guess to those of us who have been drunk before, puke aint nothing. It is just something u clean up and you move on. Ha aha ha aha ha ahahah. Ever been drunk? Ever puked on yourself? Ever had a drunk friend puke his intestines out? As for the spitting, do pregnant women go about spitting every chance they get? Do they?

I don't think pregnant women walk around the house spitting every chance they get. I know they feel nauseated some times, but, it is not like they walk around spitting like goats walk around dropping. And I am quite sure, there will be some thing safe out there that reduces the urge to spit.

I think a guy should be more scared of the tantrums and extreme unreasonableness that pregnant women display.

As for me am plane scared of pregnant women. Imagine there is something inside you growing. I dont even want to be near you. In fact make we no sleep for the same bed. What if my hand mistakenly hit you for stomach. In fact I dont want to have anything to do with you till the baby has started walking. No man should be forced to be so careful.

Me think me will have to see a psychologist cause I shudder when near pregnant women and am scared of holding babies. It requires such gentility that is alien to my genes.

NA GOD.

Obviously U and I don't have the same ideals of the unit called family. U want to import trouble in the name of family because U and Ur wife are handicapped shey. Personally I'd like to keep my family nuclear. It's my wife and our kids that will live in our home, anyone else will be passing thru. Maybe Ur folks had a better experience with the extended baggage?

Cleaning Ur puke is one thing. Cleaning someone elses puke is something else. Heck If I have to puke and I'm not bed ridden I make sure I do it in a no-need-to-clean zone like in the toilet or outside where I can just flush or cover it up. One man's meat sha.

As for Ur talk on preggy women walking round spitting trust me there are some that do spit intermittently and more frequently than others and some that don't spit at all. Dem no dey write am for face.

U made some points about the emotional demands and psychological ups and downs and that being a bigger issue. Some of us would rather that than the throwing up and spitting. I HATE spitting that much.

Anyway, I wish U tha best.

Posted: at 9-06-2010 08:24 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

hmmm

Posted: at 9-06-2010 08:27 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Mr. World, Sometimes I suspect U post comments just for the pleasure of seeing Ur name on every thread as the latest post. What is "hmmm?"

Posted: at 9-06-2010 08:38 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Ask him

Posted: at 9-06-2010 08:57 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@onchedu and sweetie bomsiluv hmmm is hmmm

Posted: at 9-06-2010 09:03 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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