![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 8-06-2010 12:46 PM (14 years ago)  (f) Remember the poster said home not office.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 12:46 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 8-06-2010 12:47 PM (14 years ago) (m) 
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 8-06-2010 12:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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hmmn, i dont buy that Hopea23's idea, of buying bucket and bottle . wats that meant for ?? is pregnancy a disease, that u need all those thins for ?? abegi, its not the way we take it to be. u can be pregnant and still control ur habits. how can u just be spitting all around and everywhere, all in the name of pregnancy ?.even if u wanna spit, it shld bbe done decently so as nt to irritate the pple around u..
for God';s sake prgnmancy is nt a disesae , so dont let us treat it as such, that will now make ur loved ones to be avoiding been close around u.
A woman after my heart! U too gbasky!!! God bless Ur home with love and peace. Instead of them to make an unbiased case they are busy hammering on reasons why the pregnancy is the man's responsibility and how he needs to love and care for a wife without addressing the fact that the she can conduct herself in pregnancy in ways her husband would still find her appealing.  amen and u too, thx  | Posted: at 8-06-2010 12:48 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 8-06-2010 12:50 PM (14 years ago) (m) and this spitting of a thin sef , its not only pregnant women that do it, some pple are so addicted to it, even some men. my dad , for instance does it so much , and it really irritates and pisses me off.
if pple wanna spit, they shld do it in a decent way, so as not to irritate other pple, tahts my own argument.
@ onchedu...... i expect that during courtship, ur wife to be must av known that u dont like the idea of spitting around, so i expect that, during preganancy , she wont do it in a way that will piss u off or send u out of the house.its a matter of knowing the person u are involved with, thats it.
It's those people making arguments for the habit without making a counter argument for the plight of the man that are conplicating this discussion. it's not like the girl that will end up spitting knows for sure that she will. Sometimes it even is influenced by the sex of the child she is carrying but does that mean her husband should tolerate anything that comes without her at least trying to be decent? I asked the girls how they would wade thru this expecting them to offer suggestions as to what they would do to make life easier for their husbands in the eventuality of acute nausea and they are slamming love Ur wife, do this do that talks as responses. This has little to do with love as it does with being considerate on the woman's part and being tolerant and affectionate on the mans. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 12:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Remember the poster said home not office.
Yea run to the toilet,how about if u didn't make it to the toilet?
ha ha ha , if u didnt make it to the toilet, then u av to clean up the vomit na, if ur husband is at home and decides to help u clean it, fine, and if he refuses, den clean it by urself, no wahala abt that.  ba kome whether at home or at office, my own stand is just that, decency has to be maintained. if u are alone at home, and u prefer to use bucket , fine, no wahala, but if ur husband or other pple are at home, and they dont seem to like the idea of bucket, then u will av to do away wit it. abi no be so ? | Posted: at 8-06-2010 12:54 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 8-06-2010 12:56 PM (14 years ago) (f) @once when u said girls remember I am one of them but not one of them that are slamming love...anyway,men also have to suggests on how they want their wifeor wive to control,so once how would you want your wife to control it?since throwup and spitting are disgusting.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 12:56 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 8-06-2010 12:58 PM (14 years ago) (m) .......
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 8-06-2010 12:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 8-06-2010 01:01 PM (14 years ago) (f) No matter how one tried to do in decency remember na throwup....one can never control it..Spitting you can control.how?when you home you can go to the toilet and spit it out or use the empty bottle water.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:01 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 8-06-2010 01:02 PM (14 years ago) (m) All this whle we've been talking no one has suggested using low sugar sweets with lots of menthol to even suggest the urge. I've heard women talk about how they took very strange things to quell the urge to throw up or spit. Some said Agidi, some said fermented soup with day old tuwo, some said sand (yes sand), some said gum, others said as long as they don't wear perfume... e.t.c Why don't we focus on finding ways to supress the urge rather than apportion responsibilities. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 8-06-2010 01:04 PM (14 years ago) (f) Abeg I never pregnant before..how u want make I suggests weting I nor know?
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:04 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 8-06-2010 01:05 PM (14 years ago) (m) @Hopea23, U can't control the urge to throw up sometimes but U can feel it build up and at three months of pregnancy U should still be agile enough to get to a convenient place to let it out. Cleaning up properly is a good thing to. If U throw up more than once a day U myt need to see a doctor cos that my be a complication. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 8-06-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago) (m) Abeg I never pregnant before..how u want make I suggests weting I nor know?
U've never been pregnant before but U know what roles a husband needs to play to his wife in such a scenario. U must have imagined it. Do U have a one track imagination that paints pictures of what the other person should do without painting pictures of what U could do? | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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All this whle we've been talking no one has suggested using low sugar sweets with lots of menthol to even suggest the urge.
I've heard women talk about how they took very strange things to quell the urge to throw up or spit. Some said Agidi, some said fermented soup with day old tuwo, some said sand (yes sand), some said gum, others said as long as they don't wear perfume... e.t.c
Why don't we focus on finding ways to supress the urge rather than apportion responsibilities.
Well I wont bother my pretty head for now..........I believe that the antenatal clinic would be there to help would-be mothers cope with this new experience..........i cant speak authoritatively on this becos I havent had this experience b4, I only hope to learn and surely I will cross that bridge when I see it..........Naturally, I ask for little........so I would expect this project not to bother her hubby simple becos she is pregnant.........if you know what/how we women can be of less wahala to you guys during pregnancy pls let us know....I sure want to learn, becos soon I would go through that experience!.......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 8-06-2010 01:15 PM (14 years ago) (f) @dp ewoooooo so u mean sa u don carry belle abi?come make I see @once that why I suggested bucketand empty bottle water.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:15 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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@dp ewoooooo so u mean sa u don carry belle abi?come make I see
@once that why I suggested bucketand empty bottle water.
LOL...........I said SOON.......I didnt say I was there already...............hehehehe, wetin you wan see?........i go take hand cover my own when time reach..........lol
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 8-06-2010 01:29 PM (14 years ago) (f) U wan use hand cover am everytime?
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:29 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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@ onche.... so u know some tips already, oh thats nice. @ hopea23....... for me oo, even using a bucket or empty bottle, will even irritate ME myself, so i wont even consider using it. will rather prefer the menthol sweets, eating bitter leaf soup etc @ div proj..... how u go take hand cover am, ? u fit hide preganancy ?  | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:31 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 8-06-2010 01:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) All this whle we've been talking no one has suggested using low sugar sweets with lots of menthol to even suggest the urge.
I've heard women talk about how they took very strange things to quell the urge to throw up or spit. Some said Agidi, some said fermented soup with day old tuwo, some said sand (yes sand), some said gum, others said as long as they don't wear perfume... e.t.c
Why don't we focus on finding ways to supress the urge rather than apportion responsibilities.
Well I wont bother my pretty head for now..........I believe that the antenatal clinic would be there to help would-be mothers cope with this new experience..........i cant speak authoritatively on this becos I havent had this experience b4, I only hope to learn and surely I will cross that bridge when I see it..........Naturally, I ask for little........so I would expect this project not to bother her hubby simple becos she is pregnant.........if you know what/how we women can be of less wahala to you guys during pregnancy pls let us know....I sure want to learn, becos soon I would go through that experience!....... Now that's better.  I'm sure we'l educate ourselves as the thread matures. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 8-06-2010 01:35 PM (14 years ago) (f) Ok..I don hear una..now am about to vomit.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:35 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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@ onche.... so u know some tips already, oh thats nice. @ hopea23....... for me oo, even using a bucket or empty bottle, will even irritate ME myself, so i wont even consider using it. will rather prefer the menthol sweets, eating bitter leaf soup etc @ div proj..... how u go take hand cover am, ? u fit hide preganancy ? hahahahahaha..........my people say you cant cover pregnancy with the hands....so no mind me......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 8-06-2010 01:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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