My boyfriend his best friend....

I think u should tell your boyfriend.Your man may have a moment of experiencing different emotions (dis belief, shock ,anger)about the matter....but
if he knows u love him, then he will also know u have no reason to lie. Let him be the man and handle it, u don't need the stress and your boyfriend needs to
know what kind of man he considers a best friend

Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:14 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

thx misty and glamourbabe,, but am so scared dat his friend will lie and make me look like d bad person...

u knw how dis kain situation can go now,, am scared to loose wot i luv bcos of dis

Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:20 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

thank u so much 

Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:34 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Well its bin like dis for almost 2 weeks now and i just thought he wasn serious.
I mean i thought he was joking and just bein sweet like som oda friends u knw.... But dis week
he asked me if i can com see him without Austin, and tins like dat.... am so shocked sef

Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:38 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

you are right but it depends on the way you handle it. Lead your guy into discovering it for himself because he may not take you serious or the guy may turnit the other way round. If he has some supporting evidence, he can use that to reproach his friend.
e.g, invite him accompany you in the net and when his friend shows up, let the cat out of the bag. (just a suggestion!)

Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:41 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

are u serious? like bs said you should have let your man know this in the early stage.u knw,allowing it to develop to this level gives the guy the means to stalk you all around. that guy most be stupid,can't he see you have a family.i wonder what kind of bestfriend he is.go ahead and let your man know about the whole situation now b4 the stupid guy try and turn it against you.

Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:46 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

bro! i don't think it's a wise decision to let his man know it by himself.she should tell his man the whole issue.

Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:48 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i knw i made a mistake by not tellin him right away, tho i even tried it but i got scared
not knowin i was doin d right tin.... i no undastand d guy sef bcos he get daughter and white woman
but he said dem get som kain wahala i no knw, dem dey togeda for 6 gud yrs.... i knw Austin he get temper
and i no wan let dis guy cause problem in our r/s

Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:53 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Just let Austin know as soon as possible, but in a delicate way,just be careful how u put it!

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Posted: at 30-04-2011 11:02 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

first of all, does this guy knw u r going out with his best frnd? ur man should knw u better, he must have trust and belief in you, just tell him now cos with that, u've done ur part and its left 4 him to believe u or not. If u dnt and he gets to find out somehow, then he'll lose his trust for u and there's nothing u'll do that will convince him again. He might even think u've been cheating on him b4

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Posted: at 30-04-2011 11:17 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac