![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 30-04-2011 09:56 PM (13 years ago)  (m) Dear pals,,
pls i rily need ur advice, dis time for myself  
My bf his best friend is in luv wit me (or claimed to b in luv but just after my  )
he calls, disturbs me online (fb,yahoo, msn) almost every day... i dont knw wot to do bcos i don tell am
i no need all of dis,, but my Q is, shud i tell my man or just keep silent till everytin cool down itsef?
 how he come get to you on all fb, yahoo, msn,and almost every where as you said? small time he will traced you to your bed too , you too much ooo
What do u ave to say about that Flymamacita?
like she is too loose too, she needs to hold back herself abit, her bf,sfriend got a wrong signal from her | Posted: at 30-04-2011 09:56 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 30-04-2011 10:15 PM (13 years ago) (m) Dear pals,,
pls i rily need ur advice, dis time for myself
My bf his best friend is in luv wit me (or claimed to b in luv but just after my )
he calls, disturbs me online (fb,yahoo, msn) almost every day... i dont knw wot to do bcos i don tell am
i no need all of dis,, but my Q is, shud i tell my man or just keep silent till everytin cool down itsef?
how he come get to you on all fb, yahoo, msn,and almost every where as you said? small time he will traced you to your bed too , you too much ooo
What do u ave to say about that Flymamacita? like she is too loose too, she needs to hold back herself abit, her bf,sfriend got a wrong signal from her .
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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abeg no tell am joorrrrr!!
make u deh nak 2 of them. if na EDO or CALABAR girl, dat one na small thing! | Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:21 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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abeg no tell am joorrrrr!!
make u deh nak 2 of them. if na EDO or CALABAR girl, dat one na small thing! | Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:22 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 30-04-2011 10:24 PM (13 years ago) (m) abeg no tell am joorrrrr!!
make u deh nak 2 of them. if na EDO or CALABAR girl, dat one na small thing!
What do u mean Oyundu?
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:24 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "joegbons") joegbons at 30-04-2011 10:25 PM (13 years ago) (m) allow the sleeping dog to lie, tell him to stop or you inform your man. | Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 30-04-2011 10:27 PM (13 years ago) (m) allow the sleeping dog to lie, tell him to stop or you inform your man.
abi?
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 30-04-2011 10:36 PM (13 years ago) (m) abeg no tell am joorrrrr!!
make u deh nak 2 of them. if na EDO or CALABAR girl, dat one na small thing!
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaah | Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:36 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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flymama, u know ur man and how he's likely to react to d whole issue.......bcos, i know that some men will even accuse u of already sleeping with the guy b4 letting him know......that's where the problem lies....from the word go, u would have told ur man..........all the same, u hv to act while there's still time but tread cautiously. if possible, when u r with ur man n d guy calls......say his name clearly to the hearing of ur man n tell him to leave u alone dat doesnt he have respect for his friend? ??......maybe this will solve d problem. | Posted: at 1-05-2011 03:23 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "climax") climax at 1-05-2011 04:03 AM (13 years ago) (m) I think u should tell your boyfriend.Your man may have a moment of experiencing different emotions (dis belief, shock ,anger)about the matter....but
if he knows u love him, then he will also know u have no reason to lie. Let him be the man and handle it, u don't need the stress and your boyfriend needs to
know what kind of man he considers a best friend
tell ur man wats going on,he might find it difficult to beleifbut sooner or latter he will fond out that u are telling him the actual truth coz that guy is not a real friend,if ur man needs proove,record ur phone conversation with that idiot and play it for ur man or u plant ur man in a restaurant and arrange a date with d idiot and let ur man sit where d so called bestfriend will not see him and he will witness everything and know d kind of person he calls are best friend thnks and gudluck | Posted: at 1-05-2011 04:03 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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I feel yu flymama and I can see why you practised restraint. You dont wanna be the cause of problems within two best frns and yu also dont wanna be in a situation where yur man gotta choose btw you *who he met a few yrs ago) and him (who he probably known for long). It is a delicate situation you find yourself in. My advise is this: - First you block this guy off from yur msn, facebook etc.
- Suggest to your man that you dont like the kind of attention you get from his frn, it makes you feel uncomfortable. By doing this you are not exactly accusing him of anything and having you man tell his frn off might scare him off and make him sit up. If nothing changes, you can follow up with yur man again and his time he shud ask you questions and when you answer him factually, it will hold more weight than reporting him. Lets face it, having a frn like that reflect badly on yur bf and he wont want to just accept that he is a bad judge of character who he had frnded and trusted as his confidant all this while. Afterall, women have done worse to seal their position as numba one in their hubby's life.
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![-]( "mayorf") mayorf at 1-05-2011 05:31 AM (13 years ago) (m) see baby go to ur boy frd and tall him and never to let the frd no after dat, tall ur boy frd in other to set ur boyf frd up for boyf to see with his blind eye u hear   | Posted: at 1-05-2011 05:31 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "mayorf") mayorf at 1-05-2011 05:33 AM (13 years ago) (m) see baby go to ur boy frd and tall him and never to let the frd no after dat, tall ur boy frd in other to set ur boyf frd up for boyf to see with his blind eye u hear | Posted: at 1-05-2011 05:33 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "soljurn16") soljurn16 at 1-05-2011 06:43 AM (13 years ago) (m) Flymamacita abi wetin b dat ur np name sef? I hope u dnt wnt to turn to walkmamacita.., the sun is still shinning abt this issue so beta make it an open issue cos if u cover it up,u myt cover up d luv of ur luva 4 eva..., try dis: if he sends u a sms,b4 deleting it take it 2 broda Austin  .., or if he calls u up 4 anoda meeting tell him to call d next day so that u'll tell him where u r both going to meet,my dear that next day sit down close to broda Austin as soon as he calls put ur phone in speaker mode  .., abi ur phone no get speaker make i borow u my phone speaker? | Posted: at 1-05-2011 06:43 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Dear pals,,
pls i rily need ur advice, dis time for myself
My bf his best friend is in luv wit me (or claimed to b in luv but just after my )
he calls, disturbs me online (fb,yahoo, msn) almost every day... i dont knw wot to do bcos i don tell am
i no need all of dis,, but my Q is, shud i tell my man or just keep silent till everytin cool down itsef?
how he come get to you on all fb, yahoo, msn,and almost every where as you said? small time he will traced you to your bed too , you too much ooo
in touch wit friends or ppl frm Naija,, dats why he knws my account for both sites....
No talk anytin for ma bed abeg Ajanni dis na serious mata | Posted: at 1-05-2011 07:32 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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what?please sit your man down and tell him everything,he should believe you but i advice you should get some evidence like sms,record his calls too.Be smart about this,he wants to scatter your home,please be wise and fast too,tell your man about this and as soon as possible too,good luck dear.
thx a lot | Posted: at 1-05-2011 07:33 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I think u should tell your boyfriend.Your man may have a moment of experiencing different emotions (dis belief, shock ,anger)about the matter....but
if he knows u love him, then he will also know u have no reason to lie. Let him be the man and handle it, u don't need the stress and your boyfriend needs to
know what kind of man he considers a best friend
tell ur man wats going on,he might find it difficult to beleifbut sooner or latter he will fond out that u are telling him the actual truth coz that guy is not a real friend,if ur man needs proove,record ur phone conversation with that idiot and play it for ur man or u plant ur man in a restaurant and arrange a date with d idiot and let ur man sit where d so called bestfriend will not see him and he will witness everything and know d kind of person he calls are best friend thnks and gudluck | Posted: at 1-05-2011 07:36 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I feel yu flymama and I can see why you practised restraint. You dont wanna be the cause of problems within two best frns and yu also dont wanna be in a situation where yur man gotta choose btw you *who he met a few yrs ago) and him (who he probably known for long). It is a delicate situation you find yourself in. My advise is this: - First you block this guy off from yur msn, facebook etc.
- Suggest to your man that you dont like the kind of attention you get from his frn, it makes you feel uncomfortable. By doing this you are not exactly accusing him of anything and having you man tell his frn off might scare him off and make him sit up. If nothing changes, you can follow up with yur man again and his time he shud ask you questions and when you answer him factually, it will hold more weight than reporting him. Lets face it, having a frn like that reflect badly on yur bf and he wont want to just accept that he is a bad judge of character who he had frnded and trusted as his confidant all this while. Afterall, women have done worse to seal their position as numba one in their hubby's life.
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Flymamacita abi wetin b dat ur np name sef? I hope u dnt wnt to turn to walkmamacita.., the sun is still shinning abt this issue so beta make it an open issue cos if u cover it up,u myt cover up d luv of ur luva 4 eva..., try dis: if he sends u a sms,b4 deleting it take it 2 broda Austin .., or if he calls u up 4 anoda meeting tell him to call d next day so that u'll tell him where u r both going to meet,my dear that next day sit down close to broda Austin as soon as he calls put ur phone in speaker mode .., abi ur phone no get speaker make i borow u my phone speaker? | Posted: at 1-05-2011 07:41 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Please friend, let him know but he may not believe you, he may think you hate his friend, so my dear, what you need to do is, call your bf and tell him everything his friend said and if possible be with you system that's your computer log into your box if you haven't delete your boyfriend best friend message, so let your bf see the message with his eyes by himself, he should know with that just to know his friend and also know you are very truefull, because, dont be surprise that your boyfriend plan with his friend to start talking to you, just for him to know the woman he really has, so this is the way most of our men do, don't be so surprise that after everything most have done and gone he will confess to you that he do the planning. Wishing you good luck dearest. | Posted: at 1-05-2011 07:49 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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