wat do u think about sex b4 marriage (Page 3)

i meant "wrote"...

just to butress a point, u still can't justify that because you have slept with a woman and she was fabulous in bed, nothing else can go wrong in a marriage that might eventually end it. SEX is not all to a marriage, which is my main point exactly. when a marriage goes bad, it does not necessarily have to do with sex issues. it  could be incompatibility emotionally and spiritually. alot of work goes into marriages and it is not all about sex sex sex. other things happen and have sex if u wish, does not matter to me or anyone else but do it because u want to not because u want to have a good marriage or a good husband.
even pple that end up being fertile could end up loosing all those children in a day, it has happened before. what of those who are so ignorant and say their wives must have male kids, does that have to do with sex as well? i don't think so.

Posted: at 23-03-2008 05:41 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

i agree sex is not everything about marriage,if it was we wouldnt be having this conversation and prostitutes would be getting married everyday of the week both male and female,all im saying is that people are going into the whole having sex scenario not only because of sex but because of soo many stuffs that happen nowadays that wasnt heard of before..a marriage being compatible is like a checklist with diffrent requirements so what u r doing basically is giving that part a check on the list and then the behaviour then life goals and the rest,for these who want their wives to have male children can be determined as well cause like i said we r in the modern world and we know about the x and y chromosones e.t.c so you dont necessarily need to have sex to know how u can have male children..as u can see things are a lot less straightfoward than it used to be in the old days so ppl are using methods that wasnt common then...remember having sex before marriage is a modern thing because  even tho it wat a male driven society before the man didnt touch his wife till their wedding night,they went in together and lie on a white sheet,they had sex and the womans blood from the broken hymen stained the white sheet which he ll bring out the next day and give to the wives family as a sign that their daughter was a virginand then pay some extra dowry so contrary to your opinion that women are regarded as objects,african men have always regarded the african woman as something to be cherished.

Posted: at 23-03-2008 05:52 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

the truth is clear that sex before marraige is wrong...even though people see it as necessary, that can not make it right....
@Motunrayooluwa,
I agree with you,many girls end up giving their virginity to some guys who they think would stick around with them but end up being deserted immediately, while others use contraceptives only to be pregnant and thereby committing abortion by killing innocent babies...
I must also add that getting married because you want to have sex may be dangerous as well,dont rush in life...once you are married to the right man or woman, you will enjoy sex to the fullest and not jumping from one girl or boy to the other....nothing different from a ho..

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Posted: at 23-03-2008 03:29 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I'm repeating it again, the merits of engaging in segxwal intercourse before marriageso outweighs the demerits...so, different strokes for diff.peeps, i guess...

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Posted: at 23-03-2008 11:15 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ok......so to those who have had sex before marriage,say "Yeah"..........!!!

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Posted: at 24-03-2008 03:43 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hell yeah...

Posted: at 24-03-2008 11:58 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

Dang! Ppl love this thing!

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Posted: at 25-03-2008 01:51 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

It's most definitely not!

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Posted: at 25-03-2008 04:53 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

spicy tandoori chicken.....

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Posted: at 25-03-2008 12:21 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 


anyway...good luck!!!

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Posted: at 25-03-2008 02:40 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero