wat do u think about sex b4 marriage

Date: 16-03-2008 1:57 am (15 years ago) | Author: Dunno Dunno
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- at 16-03-2008 01:57 AM (15 years ago)
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i think dat it is not totally tight, but i dont judge people dat do it. wat do u think?

Posted: at 16-03-2008 01:57 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- Vixenx at 16-03-2008 02:42 AM (15 years ago)
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Aint nothin wrong with. Some ppl think you should be saving yourself until after you marry cuz supposedly the husband should be the one to get it first. But what they're not thinking or understanding is, that same husband you might end up divorcing and hook-up with someone else, whom you'll end up having sex with anyway. So if you're with someone and having sex, i don't see anything wrong with that at all. people are just way into this old time traditional crap that doesn't make sense.. I can understand if there's no such things as separations, then i might agree to wait til marriage cuz your spouse is and will be the only person getting that, but with the way things are today, i doubt it will remain forever..And besides your bf/gf might end up being your husband anyway...This world is so screwed up because of people that are still stuck back in the days..So what if a virgin saved themselves for their spouse, and then the marriage didn't work out, the husband will most likely end up with someone else anyway, so what the hell?..plz this is the new ages...f all that old time crap.
Posted: at 16-03-2008 02:42 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Simisola at 16-03-2008 11:01 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 16-03-2008 02:42 AM
Aint nothin wrong with. Some ppl think you should be saving yourself until after you marry cuz supposedly the husband should be the one to get it first. But what they're not thinking or understanding is, that same husband you might end up divorcing and hook-up with someone else, whom you'll end up having sex with anyway. So if you're with someone and having sex, i don't see anything wrong with that at all. people are just way into this old time traditional crap that doesn't make sense.. I can understand if there's no such things as separations, then i might agree to wait til marriage cuz your spouse is and will be the only person getting that, but with the way things are today, i doubt it will remain forever..And besides your bf/gf might end up being your husband anyway...This world is so screwed up because of people that are still stuck back in the days..So what if a virgin saved themselves for their spouse, and then the marriage didn't work out, the husband will most likely end up with someone else anyway, so what the hell?..plz this is the new ages...f all that old time crap.
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Posted: at 16-03-2008 11:01 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Vixenx at 16-03-2008 07:38 PM (15 years ago)
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thank ya  Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Wink
Posted: at 16-03-2008 07:38 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dolamideafrican at 17-03-2008 05:32 AM (15 years ago)
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i don't think there's anything wrong in sex b4 marriage
at least that's there dissision
and if they r comfortable with it......
its OK
Posted: at 17-03-2008 05:32 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Vixenx at 17-03-2008 05:57 AM (15 years ago)
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Good one gal...good to know we still got some peeps living in this new ages.. Wink
Posted: at 17-03-2008 05:57 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dolamideafrican at 17-03-2008 05:59 AM (15 years ago)
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yea........
i think its just being nosy to tell people wat to or not to do
i have my life..........
they have their lives......
so wat the heck
Posted: at 17-03-2008 05:59 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- ukoma at 17-03-2008 12:09 PM (15 years ago)
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you may truly see nothing wrong with fornication but it is a sin....if you believe in God then you wont think of committing fornication.....

for your information on what the holy Bible says...if you believe in it:
1 Corinthians 6:18-20 & 1 Corinthians 7:1-2
"Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband."

Posted: at 17-03-2008 12:09 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 17-03-2008 12:12 PM (15 years ago)
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@ukoma....are u a virgin....? Grin

Posted: at 17-03-2008 12:12 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ukoma at 17-03-2008 12:19 PM (15 years ago)
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to add more to this, I refer you to the book of Corinthians....
Paul writes in I Corinthians 6:9-11, "Know you not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the Kingdom of God? Be not deceived, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners shall inherit the Kingdom of God". ,

1st Corinthians 3 vs 16 says: Don't you know that you yourselves are God's temple and that God's Spirit lives in you? 17If anyone destroys God's temple, God will destroy him; for God's temple is sacred, and you are that temple.

if you have been involved in fornication you better stop it...that is if you believe in the word of God.
you may also ask;"What am I to do then? For I am guilty....I tell you the truth, you have the chance to be redeemed...just stop that because you can live without fornication.

Posted: at 17-03-2008 12:19 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dolamideafrican at 17-03-2008 12:19 PM (15 years ago)
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lol
dats a good question
Posted: at 17-03-2008 12:19 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- myragonza at 17-03-2008 12:28 PM (15 years ago)
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so u are not a virgin....? Grin

Posted: at 17-03-2008 12:28 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ukoma at 17-03-2008 12:30 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 17-03-2008 12:12 PM
@ukoma....are u a virgin....? Grin
hmmmmmm.......Myra...you here....
biko apum aka Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
I may or may not be one but the truth here is that fornication os a sin and should not be practiced....nice we know the consequencies.....lets not overlook it....

Posted: at 17-03-2008 12:30 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 17-03-2008 12:36 PM (15 years ago)
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ok....now i know that u are NOT a virgin........ Wink

Posted: at 17-03-2008 12:36 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ukoma at 17-03-2008 12:39 PM (15 years ago)
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sex before marriage.....an abomination in the sight of God.

Posted: at 17-03-2008 12:39 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 17-03-2008 03:16 PM (15 years ago)
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hey...its boring to not know if ur pal is online or offline....why the hell did they take out that feature...fancy telling us that Naijapals is upgrading for the better...i wanna know if my pals are online mehn....

Posted: at 17-03-2008 03:16 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dolamideafrican at 17-03-2008 03:20 PM (15 years ago)
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lol
Posted: at 17-03-2008 03:20 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Vixenx at 17-03-2008 09:51 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 17-03-2008 03:16 PM
hey...its boring to not know if ur pal is online or offline....why the hell did they take out that feature...fancy telling us that Naijapals is upgrading for the better...i wanna know if my pals are online mehn....

i noticed that too myra... Grin

@ukoma..sex b4 marriage is not wrong..and besides i wouldn't wanna get married to someone without some kinda experience cause that'll make a boring honeymoon night..instead of tearing the place apart, he's gonna sit there rubbing his fingers through my hair and admiring the colors of my contact lenses..no sah..no way.
Posted: at 17-03-2008 09:51 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ugodaniels at 17-03-2008 10:32 PM (15 years ago)
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i totally agree that both parties shud engage in such amorous act before marriage. The risks involved in not doing it is geater than the benefits of not doing it. I once had a friend tell that he must make sure his gf is pregnant before he can marry her. well, different strokes...

Posted: at 17-03-2008 10:32 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Vixenx at 17-03-2008 10:58 PM (15 years ago)
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 Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss..i agree too..
Posted: at 17-03-2008 10:58 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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