Like you all (most) know my story of how my boss got me a personal car in my name just like that as at then..all because he saw me as a humble woman and someone that was good in the job. Just yesterday while I was marking my 25th Birthday in the office, like the good and nice boss he’s been to me all the years I’ve worked with him and the company, I kept some piece of cake for him and served him with a drink in his office like I did to other managers of the company. I wasn’t on sit, he called my intercom several times and decided to call my mobile, he called and told me to come to his office, I went, and he asked me to sit down...i did. He wished me a happy birthday, thanked me for the piece of cake I gave to him and gave me an envelope, I was actually thinking it was an official document that needed my attention, but to my surprise when I opened it I saw a Hundred and fifty thousand naira cash, I was dazed, I asked him if he needed me to help him go to the bank? His answer was NO...that I surprised him with my birthday cake which nobody has ever given to him all the years he’s stayed in Nigeria , and complimented me on my appearance saying I was looking attractive…that he decided to also give to me something that I deserve as a nice, Intelligent , humble, discreet and a special woman. I was like Wow.. what a gift..all I did told him was thank u sir, am grateful. He went further saying he’s been observing me for years now and that he loves me and wants to marry me..He offered me a cheque of N6.5M instantly to sort out things with myself and if at all I am in any debt, , whatever will be my problem/need..he’s in a better position to takia. av practically done nothing but pondered on this issue.. I really don’t now wat to do..just this afternoon he called me via intercom..i went ..and he gave me thirty thousand naira ... I am totally confused..i no wan chop again...make una help advice me on wat to do...My Professorship no near this case at all...i seriously need help..two heads are better than one.
IS HE FOR REAL? OR ITS PAY BACK TIME?
Ill mannered comments are not welcomed
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-05-2012 04:43 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Maggiecube at 8-05-2012 04:50 PM (11 years ago) (f)
Posted: at 8-05-2012 04:50 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My advice? Use d money n creat a safety net for urself so dat if tins change,u wnt b left stranded. Also whn he oFfers u more gifts ,refuse d offers jst to see his reactn. That'll tell u his motives,but u hv to b very wise n discreet in wotevr ur dealings r wit him
Posted: at 8-05-2012 05:18 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
nicencool at 8-05-2012 05:27 PM (11 years ago) (m)
Lol..u ladies easly get confused abt too much $$$$$$$ lol..now seriously, I can help..search my name on fb..and I will tell u what to do..FB NAME: FUNSHO JUMUAH...Pls dnt spend a penny from all d money u av collected so far otherwise, I won't b able to help...
Posted: at 8-05-2012 05:27 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
mizcollins1 at 8-05-2012 05:50 PM (11 years ago) (f)
wow!!!! sophie you can inbox me some more info as im unaware of the car incident,and aslo unsure what you mean by pay back....this is a very delicate matter for me to just give advice any how hun
Posted: at 8-05-2012 05:50 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
you just received your gravity to leave the company sooner than you cld imagine, just be wise becos your refusal is your sack letter. watch it, nd be wise, if you re a good woman
Opara Emma
Posted: at 8-05-2012 05:53 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
prince_ibe at 8-05-2012 06:39 PM (11 years ago) (m)
as a Christian, if he is not married i will ask u to pray over & over about it. if u like him tell him that u know nothing about him. if he ask u out go but give in to sex if he demand 4 it. if he is not married & u like him tell him to follow u to ur parents ok take care & good luck
Posted: at 8-05-2012 06:39 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
maryclaret at 8-05-2012 06:51 PM (11 years ago) (f)
I don't think you should have accepted the check. The hundred and something grand was enough. Even at that, I don't think you should have accepted any amount of money from him. I know that there are nice people on earth but this is just too much and my guess which I'm sure is probably the guess of most people here is that he likes you (A LOT). And if he should go further and want to get personal, how will you say no? I would quietly return the money to him and tell him it's too much of a gift and that u cant accept it.
Ada Mbaise
Posted: at 8-05-2012 06:51 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
This woman I thought you are married with kid. I really don't understand this na... And the part u said pay back. If its true, you need to start praying, saving money in case he is dangerous you can just move elsewhere. THis is all I can say for now. Thanks
Posted: at 8-05-2012 08:28 PM (11 years ago) | Hero