5 Reasons 2Get Married: 5 Reasons Not 2Get Married

Getting married is once in a lifetime decision for many people. When people wish to get married, invariably all of them expect a full life together. Very few would think of marriage as a short-term exercise. Hence, it is very much necessary that all aspects of a life together be fully analyzed before tying the knot. Usually men and women tend to have different perspectives about married life. It would be better to have open and honest discussion to sort out the possible future irritants or at least understand them so that some sort of compromise could be arrived at. The reasons that a man looks at while desiring to marry her are in-numerous. However, a few of them top the list in order of priority. For most men, the need of a woman in life is necessitated by the motherly love that he had received in his early life. He needs a woman who can show him the same love and who could fulfill his physical and emotional needs. That is why many men look for the same qualities in a woman that their mothers possess. The second reason is to have a lifetime companion, who can share his desires and needs. The third reason is love. When a man feels that he loves a particular woman, he wants to own her fully. This might appear to be a wrong reason but that is the way humans are made. Everybody likes to possess what he or she desires and human relationships are no different. In some cases, the man might marry a woman because she has become pregnant and is carrying his child. Certain men wish to marry a woman who is having the same career as his, so that they would be able to adapt to each other better. It is quite usual for a doctor to marry a doctor and a lawyer to marry a lawyer. They would be able to understand the work pattern and the workload of each other. However, few others are very particular that the woman is having a different profession, so that their interests do not clash. This choice depends on the outlook of the individual.



Men Marry women for the following main reasons:
* The wish to continue the motherly love received in childhood.

* Desire to have a lifetime companion.
* The love the man has for the woman.
* The woman having become pregnant by him.
* To have a woman who has a similar career for easier adaptability.

However Women also marry men for nearly the same reasons. However, one important reason that women have in marriage is to escape from parents that they do not like or from a parent who is abusive. Sometimes, men also marry for this reason but the number is much lesser than women.

Women marry Men for the following Main reasons:
* Wish to escape from parents.
* Desire to have a lifetime companion.
* Love for the man.
* Having become pregnant by the man.
* To have a man having a similar career for easier adaptability.

The reasons for getting married are quite obvious. On the other hand, the reasons for not getting married are much more complicated. In fact, it would be difficult to mention reasons for not getting married. There are several jokes about marriage but nearly all of them are at the expense of the woman. There should be some strong reasons for that. Probably, the main reasons are the innumerable needs that women have that drain the purse of a man and the continuous nagging that women indulge in after marriage. One joke says that a successful man is one who can make more money than his wife spends but a successful woman is one who finds such a man. Many women tend to nag the men too much after marriage. They try to compare their husbands with other men who are more successful in life, which is resented by the husbands. Wives also tend to give free advice to men as to what they should and should not do, which is also not liked by many men.

Infidelity is one more reason that could harm the institution of marriage. Both men and women, who are quite possessive, would be repelled when they come to know about extra-marital relationships, leading to separation. Physical incompatibility is the cause for break-up in several cases. Even loss of interest in segxwal relationship after some time could lead to a break-up of the marriage. Finally, the conflict in tastes and interests that appeared insignificant before the marriage starts to take a larger picture in married life. Disagreements increase, resulting in final separation.

Even though it would look absurd if i list reasons for not getting married, i could list the reasons that break-up marriage.

* Over-spending by the wife and living beyond the man his income
* Continuous nagging, comparing the man to others more successful, and giving unwarranted advice
* Infidelity
* Physical incompatibility or sharp decrease in segxwal interest
* Conflict in tastes and interests leading to disagreements and fight


Whats Your Take On this?

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Posted: at 11-05-2012 01:19 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

If it were a test would be able to do that?

Posted: at 11-05-2012 02:00 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

ok.. thanks a bunches 

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Posted: at 11-05-2012 04:30 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

lolssssssssssss i no get any topic for now..just have reasons


Most Men Dont Want 2 marry for the following main Reasons:

*They can get sex without marriage more easily than in times past.
*They can enjoy the benefits of having a wife by cohabitating rather than marrying.
*They fear that marriage will require too many changes and compromises.
*They face few social pressures to marry.
*They are waiting for the perfect soul mate and she hasn’t appeared yet.
*They want to wait until they are older to have children.
*They want to avoid divorce and its financial risks.
*They are reluctant to marry a woman who already has children.
*They want to own a house before they get a wife.
*They want to enjoy single life for as long as possible.

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Posted: at 11-05-2012 04:41 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I greet u ma

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Posted: at 11-05-2012 04:55 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

HUH. Ok I greet you sir. Take care!

Posted: at 11-05-2012 05:02 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

Gud one girl, but the question in red needs an answer

Posted: at 11-05-2012 05:18 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

mmmmm  i c........ r u sure???bcos marriage has already been ordained by GOD. so dis one wey dey talk na worldly assumptions..

Posted: at 11-05-2012 06:25 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

^{i never plan of getting married now, so i don't need to know about this motherphyuker!!!}

Posted: at 11-05-2012 06:32 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

nice1 soph

Posted: at 11-05-2012 07:22 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac