Yes or No: Should traditions be discarded for the sake Love? (Page 3)

Date: 21-06-2012 3:41 pm (11 years ago) | Author: aadex kebella
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- FlyMamacita at 22-06-2012 11:53 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 22-06-2012 11:21 AM
My tomato , my yori yori  Cool Kiss

Switpie how r u ?  Smiley
Posted: at 22-06-2012 11:53 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dejiroony at 22-06-2012 12:01 PM (11 years ago)
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no!
Posted: at 22-06-2012 12:01 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Bettygirls at 22-06-2012 12:06 PM (11 years ago)
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to hell with some stupid tradition,
Posted: at 22-06-2012 12:06 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dizhadah at 22-06-2012 12:20 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: basati on 22-06-2012 08:35 AM
Be bless by your parents both sides.
you have said it all  Kiss for you.that will make you enjoy that love.
Posted: at 22-06-2012 12:20 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 22-06-2012 12:26 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-06-2012 11:53 AM
Switpie how r u ?  Smiley

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Posted: at 22-06-2012 12:26 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Bettychy at 22-06-2012 12:27 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 21-06-2012 03:50 PM
no comment.. am modernized  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

I feel you
Posted: at 22-06-2012 12:27 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- camara4u at 22-06-2012 12:32 PM (11 years ago)
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I dun hear na.
Posted: at 22-06-2012 12:32 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Bettychy at 22-06-2012 12:38 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Solidstonez on 22-06-2012 06:42 AM
ABEG FORGET TRADITION AND ENJOY LOVE

Tradition matters

-sell all you have and even steal from others to marry
-beat your wife and send her packing at wish
-marry thousands of women
-marry any women/man presented to your people without knowing her/him
-marry to get children -love is oyibo man thing-
-get 11 children from each of the wives
-don`t send the female among them to school cos girls are useless to the family
-force everyone to do what your tradition says or condemn them co your tradition is superior to all others
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African tradition!
Posted: at 22-06-2012 12:38 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- toberix at 22-06-2012 12:50 PM (11 years ago)
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i don't think this should be a problem, because love could come in any form, if u appreciating someone from afar u could walk up t the person and tells him your feelings it could be the right person that God has chosen for you. if time is being wasted it could leads to total breakdown and loss.  being modernized doesn't means you would not respect culture, in short the combination of culture and modernity makes  relationship awesome. I will advised anyone who has interest in any one to always made it known on time b4 it is too late
Posted: at 22-06-2012 12:50 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- un9ja-9ja at 22-06-2012 12:56 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 21-06-2012 03:41 PM
In Nigeria and Yoruba tribe to be specific during the generations of the great-elders of the land, man gets a wife through the intervention of his friend and friend of his wife. This means has been practiced for years by great elders and fore fathers in Yoruba tribe. It is also known that the idea of a woman to express her feelings towards a man is very rare or not even practiced then.

My question is if a woman has a strong feelings for a man and this man seems not to have noticed her body language or her feelings towards him, should such woman ignored tradition and express her feelings towards the man?

All advise are strongly welcome...

abeg use another word sir!...this one is too "strong"!!!
Posted: at 22-06-2012 12:56 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- globala at 22-06-2012 01:05 PM (11 years ago)
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JUNIOR GO CUT GRASS FOR GOAT , CUZ I WAN CARYY THE LAPTOP GO FARM!!!

Posted: at 22-06-2012 01:05 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dickman2 at 22-06-2012 01:12 PM (11 years ago)
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Posted: at 22-06-2012 01:12 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 22-06-2012 01:43 PM (11 years ago)
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Passing
Posted: at 22-06-2012 01:43 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- paulego at 22-06-2012 02:39 PM (11 years ago)
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Why not ? If a woman has a feeling for a man and she has the nerve to approach the man and tell him ,then should do that. Where was it written that a woman should tell a man what she feels for him ? by telling the man her feelings, she's helped the man from going through the hassles of wooing her. It doesn't break any traditional rule.
Posted: at 22-06-2012 02:39 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Angelita2 at 22-06-2012 04:13 PM (11 years ago)
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Posted: at 22-06-2012 04:13 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 22-06-2012 04:19 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: mizcollins1 on 21-06-2012 08:12 PM
wisely said  Grin Grin

 Wink

Posted: at 22-06-2012 04:19 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- habiziz at 22-06-2012 05:54 PM (11 years ago)
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choice they say
Posted: at 22-06-2012 05:54 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- estilizo at 22-06-2012 07:49 PM (11 years ago)
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Posted: at 22-06-2012 07:49 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chukssss at 22-06-2012 08:03 PM (11 years ago)
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traditions should not be ignored but should be amended, nigerians dos'nt want to change, thats why we are in poverty. CHANGE
Posted: at 22-06-2012 08:03 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 22-06-2012 08:47 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 22-06-2012 01:43 PM
Passing

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Posted: at 22-06-2012 08:47 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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