Yes or No: Should traditions be discarded for the sake Love?

In Nigeria and Yoruba tribe to be specific during the generations of the great-elders of the land, man gets a wife through the intervention of his friend and friend of his wife. This means has been practiced for years by great elders and fore fathers in Yoruba tribe. It is also known that the idea of a woman to express her feelings towards a man is very rare or not even practiced then.

My question is if a woman has a strong feelings for a man and this man seems not to have noticed her body language or her feelings towards him, should such woman ignored tradition and express her feelings towards the man?

All advise are strongly welcome...

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Posted: at 21-06-2012 03:41 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

no comment.. am modernized 

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Posted: at 21-06-2012 03:50 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

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Posted: at 21-06-2012 05:16 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

TRADITION!TRADITION!TRADITION!Some so called "traditions" are absurd!
Personally I need to find the logic in things,otherwise......dismissed!

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Posted: at 21-06-2012 08:01 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

wisely said 

Posted: at 21-06-2012 08:12 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ok

Posted: at 21-06-2012 09:31 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

This has killed many real Love in most family, all in the name of tradition, some say we can''t change tradition, if two of them agree to be come one family why not aloud them to be.. Not all the old life style or tradition is working in our generation today while because things has change... And the wast part of it is that, the right person from them will come and destroy the Home, there have studied them self fro a long time, which there will be hope for peace in that family, and traditional matter will come and destroy the peace in the family.... i urge the traditional controller to aloud this if there is no other reasons for it...
Thanks.     

Posted: at 21-06-2012 10:17 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

tradition no matter

Posted: at 22-06-2012 12:03 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Split Nigeria,Disintegrate Nigeria,Divide Nigeria...the Us and UK has used us a lot in the name of one Nigeria,this is modern slavery and manipulation in highest order...God will punish you folks,when you take one of ours,dozens of yours will be taken and more plague n doom will be your morning hug.             

Posted: at 22-06-2012 01:58 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Times change  and we follow Lots have changed since last 50 years or so .. . well . So if you have feelings for someone and its not the wrong person to have feelings for (not married or strongly committed) better let him or her know through your feelings you can only try . Chances are things might click if they are meant to and if they do , If you water the vegetable bed stuff will grow ..

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Posted: at 22-06-2012 05:15 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac