Re: wat do u think about sex b4 marriage

i agree sex is not everything about marriage,if it was we wouldnt be having this conversation and prostitutes would be getting married everyday of the week both male and female,all im saying is that people are going into the whole having sex scenario not only because of sex but because of soo many stuffs that happen nowadays that wasnt heard of before..a marriage being compatible is like a checklist with diffrent requirements so what u r doing basically is giving that part a check on the list and then the behaviour then life goals and the rest,for these who want their wives to have male children can be determined as well cause like i said we r in the modern world and we know about the x and y chromosones e.t.c so you dont necessarily need to have sex to know how u can have male children..as u can see things are a lot less straightfoward than it used to be in the old days so ppl are using methods that wasnt common then...remember having sex before marriage is a modern thing because  even tho it wat a male driven society before the man didnt touch his wife till their wedding night,they went in together and lie on a white sheet,they had sex and the womans blood from the broken hymen stained the white sheet which he ll bring out the next day and give to the wives family as a sign that their daughter was a virgin and then pay some extra dowry so contrary to your opinion that women are regarded as objects,african men have always regarded the african woman as something to be cherished.