How do u overcome shyness around girls?

Published 10 years ago by: kelv osiobe
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at 11:25 PM, 28/03/2009 (10 years ago)

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Hi.can somebody tell me how to be confident around girls.am kind of suffering from shyness syndrome

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Beauti4 at 02:45 AM, 30/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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man how many time u wan post?
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onchedu at 03:25 PM, 30/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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Find something Ur good at. bring the grl into Ur reality!
Everyone has a comfort zone where there's no shyness or timidity. Identify Urs and take the girl into it.
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vivian07 at 03:30 PM, 30/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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there must be some thing that makes u feel shy.
but come to think of it, how old are u ?
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Pires07 at 03:56 PM, 30/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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Low self esteme. Infiriority complex is one major factor u've got 2 overcome, yeah breaking d ice is not an easy step, but ur ability 2 take a bold step 'nd initiate a reasonable conversation gives u an upper hand. girls dnt like shy guys talk less bringing up boring stories dat dnt interest them. Stop feeling infirior whenever u re around them, initiate interesting conversation, not conversation dat got 2 do wif vide0 games or foothball.

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patienceudosen at 04:59 PM, 30/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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 Meditatng.
ask Mazi co's he just won an award in human psychology
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Dguy at 05:26 PM, 30/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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Strange condition - as a man you should be naturally attracted to talk and interact with ladies

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meczytimber at 06:04 PM, 30/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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Hey young man. You dont ve 2 b shy. Try n relate wel wit d people u re familiar wit. Maybe ur family.then ur cousin, from there ur girl friend if u ve n if u dont ur female family members shd help u get used to female.
Student, did u hear me?
lol. I was joking... Just follow it step by step u ll get there.
If u ve any question mail me.
Good luck

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Aarelomo at 08:40 PM, 30/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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My guy no mind them oooo. Abeg, they put on glasses maybe that will reduce you shyness...
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herdeysohjy at 08:56 PM, 30/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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shyness, u just have to be bold cos they are human beings like u
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Danitotropsy at 09:06 PM, 30/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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Guy ur problem is common amoung guyz around the age of 15 to 19 so if u re within that age don't panic if nt i wil advice u to mingle with dem and don't b afriad bcos most of them re just physicaly big but smal in mind(thinkin).u wil knw al this things if u get closer.

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nigerianlove at 02:18 AM, 31/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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hmjust b urself, have alot of female friends and start off with naija pals by talking to the grls u will get use to it, n lk go around introduce yrself to radom grls
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diplomatik at 03:11 AM, 31/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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just be urself.....let the real u come out..let it flow....u'll be ok

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eagleseyez at 03:17 AM, 31/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Pires07 on 03:56 PM, 30/03/2009
Low self esteme. Infiriority complex is one major factor u've got 2 overcome, yeah breaking d ice is not an easy step, but ur ability 2 take a bold step 'nd initiate a reasonable conversation gives u an upper hand. girls dnt like shy guys talk less bringing up boring stories dat dnt interest them. Stop feeling infirior whenever u re around them, initiate interesting conversation, not conversation dat got 2 do wif vide0 games or foothball.




well spoken Pires
splendid one
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Chixom at 03:51 AM, 31/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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With d little xperience i've had wit females, i think they like jovial, outspoken nd confident guyz. So the key 2 eliminate shyness is within u. Just have it in mind dat wit ur current state u won't be getting what u want. Remember the alpha male is alwayz confident of himself, and try 2 restructure ur inner man into being the alpha male. Its psychological so it takes time and practice. If have questions just hola.
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kenny77 at 07:34 AM, 31/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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Always be calm when ever you  are with them and alway :)s make sure that ur confindence is at the peak cus those ladies out there does not like somebody who is not confindent who his self.[/color]
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myragonza at 07:37 AM, 31/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: kelvizzle on 11:25 PM, 28/03/2009
Hi.can somebody tell me how to be confident around girls.am kind of suffering from shyness syndrome



be urself!!!

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shadzie at 09:25 AM, 31/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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lol..it happens.
jst talk more..talk bout things dat interest u..share wiv girls ur strenghts n weaknesses..girls like strong men but we r all human so a little emotion is allowed.
Man Up tho..Confidence takes time to build.
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rbest at 09:34 AM, 31/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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oyibo
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lancybrown at 10:18 AM, 31/03/2009 (10 years ago)
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guy you are the one that we determine by your selfKiss  Smiley
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