1. Building your relationship base on infatuation: Infatuation here refers to strong desires ,passions, emotions or feelings that does not last but it is only base on the satisfaction of segxwal desires and not real love. Examples include Absalom sister TAMAR and her step brother AMMON.
2. Bringing your self low or cheap before the person that you want to even get married to .Bringing yourself low or cheap before anyone will not help build a better relationship. For a woman or young lady to think that having pre-marital sex with a man will make him to love you more is a lie and you are just giving yourself cheap to the man and men will think that is the way that you have be giving to others even if they were they one that first initiated or putting pressure on you for it , there will be no trust in the relationship and they will not consider you for a long term relationship or marriage .
3. Having Pre-marital Sex in a relationship: having premarital sex in a relationship kills trust in the relationship and make mostly the men to lose interest in the relationship because they have gotten all that the woman has to offer in marriage, cheaply and free. Trust in no more there, they may be thinking that their partner is involve in such acts too at their back , it kills the desire for the relationship to move to marriage , exposure to STDS, even HIV, infertility and barrenness, lack of respect for each.
4. Being overuse before marriage: This one mostly affect the women/ladies the most, when you expose yourself to be seriously used by men by having multiple boyfriends and multiple relationships all at the same time, you will overtime become a subject of discussion by these same men on how they have each of them used you and how you are not good for a long term relationship or marriage but only useful to be used to satisfy their selfish segxwal desires.
5. When either of the party in the relationship is too demanding: When one of the partners in a relationship is too demanding, it will over time put the other party off. A good relationship is be one in which is a good and take approach is the best. When there is no mutual understanding co-operation from both parties in terms of helping each other or one person over demanding from the other. The other party will overtime re-assess what they are getting from the relationship and decide whether they should continue or not.
Do not get into a relationship and totally depend on your partner to do everything for you from paying your school fees, rent , buying clothes ,giving money but get into a relationship to help each other succeed in their ambitions in order to build a relationship that will last and lead to marriage.
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