One of the things that I’ll always hang my hat on is that women are always much more equipped to deal with heartache than men. Most men are in a position where they’ll never have to experience being turned down or dumped, that’s typically a woman’s cross to bear. With the many tragic stories that have heard recently or in the past, we asked ourselves if men are really dealing with anger or do they suppress their feelings only to have them surface at an inopportune time.
Here’s what’s really going on in our community: most men will never have to experience the heartache that will make them better for society and teach them to react better to disappointment. Thus what happens is that men react horribly to the event. They will scream, they will act irrationally, some men even made themselves an horror to deal with women.
I do not know if men really handle heartache worse than women or in the other way?
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Posted: at 18-12-2012 06:37 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 19-12-2012 09:13 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: 50scent on 18-12-2012 06:37 PM
One of the things that I’ll always hang my hat on is that women are always much more equipped to deal with heartache than men. Most men are in a position where they’ll never have to experience being turned down or dumped, that’s typically a woman’s cross to bear. With the many tragic stories that have heard recently or in the past, we asked ourselves if men are really dealing with anger or do they suppress their feelings only to have them surface at an inopportune time.
Here’s what’s really going on in our community: most men will never have to experience the heartache that will make them better for society and teach them to react better to disappointment. Thus what happens is that men react horribly to the event. They will scream, they will act irrationally, some men even made themselves an horror to deal with women.
I do not know if men really handle heartache worse than women or in the other way?
men are prone to hit the hardest when they fail in their love life.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 19-12-2012 09:13 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
iBabyface at 19-12-2012 11:05 AM (12 years ago) (m)
It depend on how sensitive you are, we have sensitive men and women and if you are so sentive, its very possible to take heartache so serious. It doesnt matter what your sex is. I have had male friends that cries because their girl lie to them not even cheat, and i have a lot of girls that cries because their men was standing and talking to a girl. not even cheating. so imagine what will happen to them if their partner cheats and i believe there will be male and female that really dont care whatever happens!!!
Posted: at 19-12-2012 11:05 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
sophiebaby at 19-12-2012 11:36 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: iBabyface on 19-12-2012 11:05 AM
It depend on how sensitive you are, we have sensitive men and women and if you are so sentive, its very possible to take heartache so serious. It doesnt matter what your sex is. I have had male friends that cries because their girl lie to them not even cheat, and i have a lot of girls that cries because their men was standing and talking to a girl. not even cheating. so imagine what will happen to them if their partner cheats and i believe there will be male and female that really dont care whatever happens!!!
its normal for us to be jelouse, yes: and ofcourse there are ppl who really do not care whatever happens.. well said tho
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 19-12-2012 11:36 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 19-12-2012 12:45 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: vantheo on 19-12-2012 12:20 PM
Sophie i dont agree with you oh. Any babe (infact anybody) dat moves on like nothin happen probably has a spare tire somewhere if you know wat i mean
you see! Men who put their hearts and souls into building a relationship find it difficult to move on when ties are severed. Whether the relationship ends because of infidelity, a lack of sustained love and communication, or through pure incompatibility, yes.. the pain experienced can be devastating. The usual issues that hurt women also hurt men. Thoughts of insecurity, betrayal, trustworthiness, and loyalty are common, and will eventually test every fiber of a man's heart. and as a result of the inherent structure of our egos, men often struggle with other unique relationship heartaches women may not be aware of.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 19-12-2012 12:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
men handle it beta to me,necus a woman dose´,t want to tell anybodi she often suffer more.but men go with the motto-----WAIT OH I DEY CUM;MAKE I FINISH MY COFFEE
Posted: at 19-12-2012 12:46 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 19-12-2012 01:08 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ela214 on 19-12-2012 12:46 PM
men handle it beta to me,necus a woman dose´,t want to tell anybodi she often suffer more.but men go with the motto-----WAIT OH I DEY CUM;MAKE I FINISH MY COFFEE
it is extremely common. For men who experience heartache
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 19-12-2012 01:08 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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