After breaking up for a long while cos one of the persons involved in a relationship cheated.Will d relationship work if they come back together again??
Posted: at 29-04-2008 08:55 AM (17 years ago) | Newbie
myragonza at 29-04-2008 08:58 AM (17 years ago) (f)
if it broke up due to cheating,it can never work out.....leopards doesn't change its spots....
After breaking up for a long while cos one of the persons involved in a relationship cheated.Will d relationship work if they come back together again??
nope!..the trust have been broken, and if u do come back together..it will cause alot of problems in your relationship, because one will always be suspicious of the other...
@count....yes a snake...not human beings in a relationship...this is totally different, but i get what u mean..but it doesn't work cause the damage is done already.
Posted: at 29-04-2008 04:06 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
So in ur Dico,there are no words like forgive and forget???There are cases that ppl were under the influence of alcohol(or claim to be)and do somethig they live to regret.Or when u weren`t still sure tat ur partner is the one really for u.But on loosing him/her,u realise that u cant live without him/her
Posted: at 29-04-2008 04:31 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
We l ive and we learn.We learn to forgive as we learn to love.Someone that has hurt you before and knew how deeply u were hurt will be more careful not to hurt u than a new person that can also giv it a trial.Hard times makes a strong relationship even stronger.So it menas u guys dont blieve in soulmate??What if she7he is ur true soulmate??
Posted: at 29-04-2008 06:09 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
We do believe in soulmates, but it depends on how the relationship ended. If its cheating involved..then how do you know he won't do it again?..and plus if he loved you so much..do you think he would even dare to do something like that to you?..i don't think so..I do believe in giving second chances, but not in this case..it will never work cause you'll still be suspicious of him everytime he leaves your corner..wondering what he's doing and who he is with..and then probably starting an arguement with him everytime he comes home..I don't think anyone in their right minds will like to go through such drama in a relationship. But then again, you do have those that love drama filled relationship.
Posted: at 30-04-2008 02:20 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
myragonza at 30-04-2008 07:57 AM (17 years ago) (f)
Quote from: count on 29-04-2008 06:09 PM
We l ive and we learn.We learn to forgive as we learn to love.Someone that has hurt you before and knew how deeply u were hurt will be more careful not to hurt u than a new person that can also giv it a trial.Hard times makes a strong relationship even stronger.So it menas u guys dont blieve in soulmate??What if she7he is ur true soulmate??
its easier to forgive than forget....when u keep thinking of the stuffs that u cannot forget,it can never work....its keeps popping...
i beg to differ..some people really do change..when they realise their error..but u will neva know they hav really changed unless you give them a chance....if d person who cheated is serious(by this tym u shld have known/undastood d behavioural patterns of ur partner), then I believe the relationship will be stronger cos dat individual will do everything to make the relationship work so that he shldnt loose u again..dats just what I think...
Posted: at 9-09-2008 08:43 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
vincenice at 9-09-2008 08:46 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: count on 29-04-2008 08:55 AM
After breaking up for a long while cos one of the persons involved in a relationship cheated.Will d relationship work if they come back together again??
y not na dat time dem go understand dem self well.
Posted: at 9-09-2008 08:46 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
After breaking up for a long while cos one of the persons involved in a relationship cheated.Will d relationship work if they come back together again??
y not na dat time dem go understand dem self well.
thank you!!
Posted: at 9-09-2008 11:00 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
darkocean002 at 10-09-2008 03:11 AM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: count on 29-04-2008 08:55 AM
After breaking up for a long while cos one of the persons involved in a relationship cheated.Will d relationship work if they come back together again??
it wont ever work again... the trust is lost
Posted: at 10-09-2008 03:11 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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