Just casual!

Date: 04-05-2009 5:39 am (16 years ago) | Author: Chuks
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 I've been thinking really hard about this. I do ask myself this. What is the point of getting in a r/ship when you know you're not going to be serious with the person to marry them. Is it the sex or what. I mean instead of committing myself to a r/ship I know is not really serious, why not just date and sleep with whoever it is you're dating instead of committing to a r/ship. And by the end of the day you'll figure out you've been in 20 r/ships. Whats the point.


Posted: at 4-05-2009 05:39 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- myragonza at 4-05-2009 09:09 AM (16 years ago)
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well,different strokes for different folks.....

Posted: at 4-05-2009 09:09 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 4-05-2009 10:41 AM (16 years ago)
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some wanna play along......just for playing sake.

Posted: at 4-05-2009 10:41 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 4-05-2009 10:53 AM (16 years ago)
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@Poster, beats me! DOn't understand it myself.
Posted: at 4-05-2009 10:53 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 4-05-2009 11:08 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 05:39 AM
I've been thinking really hard about this. I do ask myself this. What is the point of getting in a r/ship when you know you're not going to be serious with the person to marry them. Is it the sex or what. I mean instead of committing myself to a r/ship I know is not really serious, why not just date and sleep with whoever it is you're dating instead of committing to a r/ship. And by the end of the day you'll figure out you've been in 20 r/ships. Whats the point.

Some does that, believe me! i guess the fear of getting serz with any girl.

Posted: at 4-05-2009 11:08 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beautydiva at 4-05-2009 11:22 AM (16 years ago)
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In western countries, both men & women date 4 various reasons. Some date with d agreement dat there won't be anything serious /no strings attached. While some live together 4 donkey yrs practising trial marriage, others date just 2 have sex partners.
But in Nig it's a different ball game. Most ladies want committment becos some believe dat it's a form of security 4 them. Women don't want 2 date a guy just 4 dating sake becos they would feel used at d end of d day.
Also, sometimes people get into relationship dat they think they would not marry d persoon and at d end of d day they end up marrying each other.Nobody knows wot fate has in store 4 him/her or d situation destiny puts us in.
At d end of d day, it is everyone to his/her own beliefs.
 
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- SAmyrocko at 4-05-2009 11:40 AM (16 years ago)
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Thank you!

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- smith2cute at 4-05-2009 11:45 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Beautydiva on  4-05-2009 11:22 AM
In western countries, both men & women date 4 various reasons. Some date with d agreement dat there won't be anything serious /no strings attached. While some live together 4 donkey yrs practising trial marriage, others date just 2 have sex partners.
But in Nig it's a different ball game. Most ladies want committment becos some believe dat it's a form of security 4 them. Women don't want 2 date a guy just 4 dating sake becos they would feel used at d end of d day.
Also, sometimes people get into relationship dat they think they would not marry d persoon and at d end of d day they end up marrying each other.Nobody knows wot fate has in store 4 him/her or d situation destiny puts us in.
At d end of d day, it is everyone to his/her own beliefs.
 

awesome reply... 
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- typicalman84 at 4-05-2009 03:46 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on  4-05-2009 09:09 AM
well,different strokes for different folks.....
so what is your own strokes?

Posted: at 4-05-2009 03:46 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- typicalman84 at 4-05-2009 03:47 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: SAmyrocko on  4-05-2009 10:41 AM
some wanna play along......just for playing sake.


and i guess some wanna mess theiselves up emotionally just for the sake of love.

Posted: at 4-05-2009 03:47 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pires07 at 4-05-2009 03:49 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 05:39 AM
I've been thinking really hard about this. I do ask myself this. What is the point of getting in a r/ship when you know you're not going to be serious with the person to marry them. Is it the sex or what. I mean instead of committing myself to a r/ship I know is not really serious, why not just date and sleep with whoever it is you're dating instead of committing to a r/ship. And by the end of the day you'll figure out you've been in 20 r/ships. Whats the point.
is called Testing d Waters Grin

Posted: at 4-05-2009 03:49 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 4-05-2009 03:50 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 03:47 PM
Quote from: SAmyrocko on  4-05-2009 10:41 AM
some wanna play along......just for playing sake.


and i guess some wanna mess theiselves up emotionally just for the sake of love.

Another mans food is another mans poison Smiley Smiley

Posted: at 4-05-2009 03:50 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- vivian07 at 4-05-2009 05:28 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Pires07 on  4-05-2009 03:49 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 05:39 AM
I've been thinking really hard about this. I do ask myself this. What is the point of getting in a r/ship when you know you're not going to be serious with the person to marry them. Is it the sex or what. I mean instead of committing myself to a r/ship I know is not really serious, why not just date and sleep with whoever it is you're dating instead of committing to a r/ship. And by the end of the day you'll figure out you've been in 20 r/ships. Whats the point.
is called Testing d Waters Grin
how does it taste ?
Posted: at 4-05-2009 05:28 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 4-05-2009 05:37 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 05:39 AM
I've been thinking really hard about this. I do ask myself this. What is the point of getting in a r/ship when you know you're not going to be serious with the person to marry them. Is it the sex or what. I mean instead of committing myself to a r/ship I know is not really serious, why not just date and sleep with whoever it is you're dating instead of committing to a r/ship. And by the end of the day you'll figure out you've been in 20 r/ships. Whats the point.

Just Keep thinking Aloud

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- HOPEA23 at 4-05-2009 05:52 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 05:39 AM
I've been thinking really hard about this. I do ask myself this. What is the point of getting in a r/ship when you know you're not going to be serious with the person to marry them. Is it the sex or what. I mean instead of committing myself to a r/ship I know is not really serious, why not just date and sleep with whoever it is you're dating instead of committing to a r/ship. And by the end of the day you'll figure out you've been in 20 r/ships. Whats the point.
idk

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- Beauti4 at 4-05-2009 06:16 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Beautydiva on  4-05-2009 11:22 AM
In western countries, both men & women date 4 various reasons. Some date with d agreement dat there won't be anything serious /no strings attached. While some live together 4 donkey yrs practising trial marriage, others date just 2 have sex partners.
But in Nig it's a different ball game. Most ladies want committment becos some believe dat it's a form of security 4 them. Women don't want 2 date a guy just 4 dating sake becos they would feel used at d end of d day.
Also, sometimes people get into relationship dat they think they would not marry d persoon and at d end of d day they end up marrying each other.Nobody knows wot fate has in store 4 him/her or d situation destiny puts us in.
At d end of d day, it is everyone to his/her own beliefs.
 


Deliciouso!
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- kzeewho at 4-05-2009 10:18 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 05:39 AM
I've been thinking really hard about this. I do ask myself this. What is the point of getting in a r/ship when you know you're not going to be serious with the person to marry them. Is it the sex or what. I mean instead of committing myself to a r/ship I know is not really serious, why not just date and sleep with whoever it is you're dating instead of committing to a r/ship. And by the end of the day you'll figure out you've been in 20 r/ships. Whats the point.



did some one Break ur heart? Wink
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- typicalman84 at 4-05-2009 10:44 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: kzeewho on  4-05-2009 10:18 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 05:39 AM
I've been thinking really hard about this. I do ask myself this. What is the point of getting in a r/ship when you know you're not going to be serious with the person to marry them. Is it the sex or what. I mean instead of committing myself to a r/ship I know is not really serious, why not just date and sleep with whoever it is you're dating instead of committing to a r/ship. And by the end of the day you'll figure out you've been in 20 r/ships. Whats the point.



did some one Break ur heart? Wink
So do i have to be heartbroken to post some thoughts.

Posted: at 4-05-2009 10:44 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kzeewho at 4-05-2009 11:24 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 10:44 PM
Quote from: kzeewho on  4-05-2009 10:18 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 05:39 AM
I've been thinking really hard about this. I do ask myself this. What is the point of getting in a r/ship when you know you're not going to be serious with the person to marry them. Is it the sex or what. I mean instead of committing myself to a r/ship I know is not really serious, why not just date and sleep with whoever it is you're dating instead of committing to a r/ship. And by the end of the day you'll figure out you've been in 20 r/ships. Whats the point.



did some one Break ur heart? Wink
So do i have to be heartbroken to post some thoughts.



yeah u hv 2 b heartbroken.
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- typicalman84 at 4-05-2009 11:43 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: kzeewho on  4-05-2009 11:24 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 10:44 PM
Quote from: kzeewho on  4-05-2009 10:18 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  4-05-2009 05:39 AM
I've been thinking really hard about this. I do ask myself this. What is the point of getting in a r/ship when you know you're not going to be serious with the person to marry them. Is it the sex or what. I mean instead of committing myself to a r/ship I know is not really serious, why not just date and sleep with whoever it is you're dating instead of committing to a r/ship. And by the end of the day you'll figure out you've been in 20 r/ships. Whats the point.



did some one Break ur heart? Wink
So do i have to be heartbroken to post some thoughts.



yeah u hv 2 b heartbroken.
ok well how about I am not heartbroken and i can post wateva i wanna post. You got a problem wit that?

Posted: at 4-05-2009 11:43 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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