My Skin Crawls When My Husband Touches Me (Page 5)

Quote from: osarobo62 on 13-03-2013 03:17 PM

true but at this point, it is the man who is supposed to work harder in changing his attitude
and behaviour to meet the standard of a normal married life. No matter what the woman does
to help the situation, if the man remains nonchalant, hatred would fester  and the marriage over.

Yeah dats true if d man no do any effort d woman
Go tire eventually

Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:50 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Just leave him. He cheats and he's abusive. A devoted & loving husband should not do the things he's doing. What more are you asking for? He doesnt show any love for you and he's out late with other women. Unless youre asking for one of his STD's.  If youre not attracted to him and youreuncomfortable arround him, then leave. Its better to go for the option that'll eventually make you happy.

Posted: at 13-03-2013 07:43 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

Sit down n have a talk wit him.......

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Posted: at 15-03-2013 04:46 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ok

Posted: at 19-03-2013 11:12 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

Hi,  always try ur best to b a gud wife to him, dunt take the wrong path bcos of his attitude; call him mid nit meeting N talk sense into him politely, dunt make use of abusive words to him. Let him kno dat u wia sexy and attractive to him b4 he get u in(pregnant) dat has reduce those qualities which wil last for a while. And let him kno dat if u dunt take in as wife to him while for some years, dat u bliv he wil not be happy seeing u sexy and attractive without droping child for him. Be a good wife and enjoy ur mariage. Thanks

Posted: at 21-03-2013 07:20 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie

Have you tried talking to your husband about this? This is why an extended courtship is good so that you know who you're settling down with. Your skin crawls because you chose to ignore his faults during the courtship stage and now they've come back to haunt you. Sit him down and talk about how you feel. Hiding your feelings will not solve the problem.

Posted: at 22-03-2013 11:30 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

first, u have to pray to God for grace to forgive ur husband. then you need to see a therapist who will help you first pull yourself together, then face your husband. remember you were the one who neglected him in the first place though unintentionally. express your fears and worries to him and possibly get him to see a therapist with u. i wish u good luck.

Posted: at 25-03-2013 12:31 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming