There are a number of things that you should never tell a man if you would like to have a good dating relationship with him. Let us take a look at them so that you can avoid them.
1. Being the first to say "I love you." You may say this as a way of making him say that he loves you too, but you should not try to push him to say something he is not yet prepared for. You will remain in an awkward position when he does not do it.
2. If he promised to call but didn't, don't confront him and ask why he did not call. You will be basically accusing him of not caring for you, and it is more likely that you will make him turn defensive.
3. When you go out on a date, do not press him to tell you when you should expect to see him once more. If he is really interested, he will get in touch. On the other hand, if he has no interest, then you should not keep your life on hold for him.
4. In case he does not keep his promise to see you, you should not ask him where he had been. The hidden question is really whether he was out with another girl, which will just show your fear and insecurity.
5. In case he had gone out with another woman, you will simply put both of you in an uncomfortable position when you ask him whether he went to bed with her. Even if he did, he is not doing it now.
6. Whether you have just started going out with a guy or you have dated for some time, do not press him with the question as to where your relationship is going. If the relationship is promising, you will simply know this from his actions.
7. If you have something you would like to discuss with him, bring it up casually at an appropriate time. When you tell him that you would like to have a talk, he will automatically become defensive as he does not expect the conversation to be enjoyable. You just need to choose your time well.
8. However much he has hurt you, going around stating how you have him won't solve the issue. In fact, when you maintain your cool even during a breakup, you will win his admiration. But throwing temper tantrums will only push him further away from you.
9. In case you suspect that he has been up to no good, telling him that you don't trust him won't make him change. Instead, he will just get more careful, and you won't be able to get the much needed evidence.
Posted: at 27-04-2013 10:42 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
CHUZY120 at 27-04-2013 01:17 PM (12 years ago) (m)
First to feel should speak out and no need for craftiness about your hearth feelings. Na raw naija girl idea be all this, naija girls are hypocrites, there front is there back and money becomes there antenna signal, they lie to there hearth till even death, because of materialism. Go out side naija and see how be men be hot cake and women dey speak out there sincere hearth feelings about love and use there open hearth to keep there men while you money hungry naija girls are hear feeling Angelique and Godess, with no value,clustering and clashing on one man because of money for make up aby un never see any thing yet, till kwente go match all of una one by one, as una don make naija guyz become global criminals were dem they look for money to buy make up for una,make una still dey there dey wait make man talk first say he love you while your hearth love him first. Hypocrites, cony, crude and crafty girls who never ever say truth about them selves, there life and there true hearth feelings till when they want to die just because of money for make up and money for panties. Una miss road sha.Even you poster i know say u follow.
Posted: at 27-04-2013 01:17 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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