I'm Not Comfortable With My Househelp (Page 5)

the simplest advice is for you to send her packing immediately  or else, you will be the one to be her house help' mark my word'

Posted: at 22-05-2013 12:06 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

househelp can be helpful but can be very dangerous as well i advice be carefull in handling this issue l advice you prayerfully send her away immediatel pls use wisdom danger seen can be avoided look for a good one in the household of God

Posted: at 22-05-2013 12:42 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Ur hand break whn u nor fit take care of your children? whn ur mama born u she carry huz help............Dis is rubbish

Posted: at 22-05-2013 01:25 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

You are a lazy idiot.. Why looking for house maid? Young girl like you.. You never see anything.. dey dia!

Posted: at 22-05-2013 02:02 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

c assss

Posted: at 22-05-2013 02:29 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

It is a pity that you got such a person for  house help.  Please let her go immediately because she will end up destroying your marriage,

Just put your baby in a very good day care.  Moreover, ask your husband a very good question like how did you know this lady and again pray very well not adding assumption to your prayers.  If possible fast along, be careful with your baby always go along with him/her.

My sincere prayer is that will show you mercy and cover your marriage with His divine mercy.

Once again, be prayerful.   

Posted: at 22-05-2013 05:14 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

mumu...u need a househelp and you brought a thirty years old woman, insist of a little girl you can control...oya you go learn the hard way

Posted: at 22-05-2013 09:01 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

Our so call ladies/wives of these days are so lazy that they can not take care of their home themselves without the help of maids. This is why majority of homes and marriages are destroyed by this agent of darkness, example of what is happening at this writer's home. The earlier the better you send her packing before is too late and for you to sit up to your responsibilities.


I agree %100. First of all, you should take care of your own family. It is your husband and child. How can you let her come into your home and become 2nd wife? Or maybe it is you who is the second wife now. How in the hell do your husband know her anyway? You don't need to seek advice for what is common knowledge. You have to ask her to help, and she call you to change diapers, she is right though. It is your baby and man, the lady is just getting a free ride on you and you husband's dime. She might even be phyuking your husband, or abusing your child. Where I am from we do it all: take care of our house-hold, work and school and take care of our own husband and children. I would never let another woman cook for my husband unless it is a family member. I am the woman of my house. This lady can't even take care of her own babies.  Knock it off, lady...GET RID OF THAT STRANGE WOMAN IN YOUR HOUSE!!

Posted: at 23-05-2013 11:05 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie