When can an African woman divorce? SHOCKING ANSWERS! (Page 5)

Date: 31-05-2013 5:49 pm (10 years ago) | Author: Vanilla Roberts
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- Sophyrocks at 4-06-2013 01:55 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: osamabinladin on 31-05-2013 09:11 PM
The summary of the whole thing is that husbands are now essential commodity,they are scarce ,so anyone you catch , just gum am like super glue.
Husbands r scarce commodities? Den hw come we r hearing of women mistreatin deir husbands wen dey cheat? Why r divorced women remarryin n who r d men marryin dese women? Are d men imbeciles?

Posted: at 4-06-2013 01:55 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sassyminaj at 4-06-2013 06:59 AM (10 years ago)
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I will not divorce a man for cheating on me, but I will no longer have sex with that man because I don't want him to transfer any HIV/ AIDS or STDs to me, so he will have to choose to either divorce me or live with this conditions. As for a man that beats me, I will DEFINITELY and INSTANTLY divorce him because at the end of the day, the beating will never stop, and may lead to death. I don't believe marriage is for better or for worse, if the marriage works out well, then I will stay, but if it turn bad to the point of punching me, I will leave. I believe it is a two way thing (50-50), I am not his punching bag, or slave or toy, so I know I should be treated fairly and respected as well.  Nigerian women needs to know that they are worthy of love and respect, and should not be handled like some piece of rag. They should never accept abuse(physical, mental, emotional) from any man (Husbands or Boyfriends), and they should stop showing vulnerability to men all because they want to be in marriage. Even God in Heaven is against infidelity and assault.
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- dlimelite at 5-06-2013 05:02 AM (10 years ago)
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Even if you divorce your spouse. Youre still together in the eyes of God.
Posted: at 5-06-2013 05:02 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- bygonez at 5-06-2013 05:06 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: aghogho_ejoma on  3-06-2013 06:24 PM


@ bygonez you are the biggest f00l on planet earth.... i pity the unlucky lady you gonna take as wife. In my culture women don't subject them
selves to an abusive,cheat, and women beaters,,,, idi0t!! go ahead and say what your stupid parents/ culture thought you... we don't  encourage
domestic violence on ladies get that in to your stup1d African man aggresive,rude, disrespectful, cheat, head. For your infor, do you know the rate
of women who die daily in Nigeria due to beating from their so called dead beat husband?Huh??? bush man is about time you enlighten your
backward way of thinking!!!! just because you are a dead beat men does not make you superior to women... and no woman or girl should subject
her self to a cheat and abusive man all in the name of making marriage works.


bush man for i YOUR  INFOR- I'm not married!/!! and i'm not in a rush to marry an abusive chronic cheat like some of you NIGERIAN MEN.

    First all your responses summed up what i wrote earlier about your ways of thinking and reactions to things. ACTING WITHOUT BALANCE or THINKING. Maybe i have hit your sore point and so it has to pain you so seriously as to keep talking shit. Why the anger in the first place? Or maybe am not such a sissy you can easily messed with. Truth they say is bitter but my advice is that you never reveal this shit to your prospective husband if you are truly serious about marriage or keeping one ever. Without even understanding my views you already known that i am an abusive, cheat, women beater, bla bla... a sure evidence that you are a lunkhead and cant quite read.
    Secondly, my parents taught me a good virtue that i can be proud of but am sure you might be one of those ass hole bastards out there or maybe you had one as your kid.
    Thirdly, I have already seeing how your so called culture works with over 40% of married women cheaters, most of whom their husbands are very loyal, and some turned to puppets. and despite such claim of wars against domestic violence, at least we have more number of deaths, suicides, divorce, assaults, bully, incest, bestiality, bastards, rapes, singles, family related porno acting and movies due to arrogance, single parenthood, faggots, fools mistaking arrogance for knowledge, etc. than we had in our so called wife beating or cheating society daily or yearly. and so whose policy is better now? Maybe yours, You decide if you can, knuckleheads.
    Forth...bush man is about time you enlighten your backward way of thinking!!!! bla bla...Bush girl! I am a 100% sure that i have being to much more places, have more knowledge and experience about different cultures and backgrounds, people and laws from different countries and its effects, and the world over than you ever care to know while remaining stuck in your sick ass and unfortunate villages and under manipulated laws which you saw as the only messiah or enlightenment in existence in the whole world and a must follow for all. Or maybe i have to turn into being your wife instead, or think as you want or copying your sick ass laws b4 i could be enlightened right? Because they have to be a god to everyone, stupid! learn to travel first before we can have words.
    And lastly, your final word re-confirmed my first sentence about you, a proof of my view about your ignorant and sick life. My advice for you is that any time you failed to get a result or things never worked as you wanted, examine yourself, and try to see what others saw which you never see so that you can learn, cos the world has a way of making things look lucky or hopeful to you which you foolishly got stuck in and keep expecting the lucks, getting older instead. You can help reduce the number of cheap honeypots to wayward men or the bastards in the street or single old sluts by learning to be responsible, Dumb ass Fcukheads
Posted: at 5-06-2013 05:06 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- dlimelite at 5-06-2013 05:10 AM (10 years ago)
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1 Corinthians 7:10-11 
To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.

 Luke 16:18  ESV
“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.
Posted: at 5-06-2013 05:10 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- bygonez at 5-06-2013 05:11 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Sophyrocks on  4-06-2013 01:25 AM
hahahaha. I luv ur comment so much. Dese women interviewed r just a very small portion of millions of women we have in nigeria. So its only som1 whose brain is d size of groundnut dat wud take wat dese women said n use it to generalize odas. Dnt be surprised dat some married ones amongst dem r cheating on deir husbands. Pple r supposed to knw dat nigerians r d greatest hypocrites in d world. No be dis same women dey cut deir husbands dick if dey cheat, or put laxative or rat poison or sleeping pills or menstrual blood for deir husband food if he make d mistake of cheating? Its nt evrytin we say dat we can do dat we rily do. As u see me so, if i dare tolerate cheating, im equaly doin d same. Dis guy u replyd is obviously living in d 18th century cos he doesnt to see d rate at which divorced women r marryin. D men wey dey marry dese women be ghosts? Lolz. Dnt mind him jare. He's a learner. No be married women dey cheat lyk water nowadays? Abeg leave mata for mathias jare.
haha.. i know you must surely love this comments because birds of a feather always flock together and you could easily spot a fault other girls or people should know about with their husbands, cutting their prick, poisoning them bla bla... because you were already in a flow with it (you cant see what you were not resonating with) and must end up doing it cos it is your frequency and your energy flow within, unlike in many other girls out there, and in which your small world must always have it blamed on outsider. cos you never take responsibility. in your own little mind now, you are already living in the 29th century and no longer a learner. and still reasoning as you did Huh?. Fools always claim to be wiser than everyone, we know that, even boko haram claimed to be the wisest b4 they could met their waterloo . Thats natural to every wrong being untill nature proves them otherwise. The point is that i only blame those men chasing after your fake asses now which increases your arrogance, turning your worlds upside down from proper thinking untill its time for serious business, and then you remain single, advanced chicks! Maybe you still think that you have to get a divorce in future and still remarry because your ass is strong enough to control all men, determine what they have to do and give you another desired man, never knowing how comes other people remarried. for your information, you have to understand the difference between men wanting and chasing after you because of sex, and them ever liking you or being serious because they wanted to marry you as a wife. no wonder we have a lot of singles in our society today still waiting for mr right. maybe wisdom we call it. Grow up fool!
Posted: at 5-06-2013 05:11 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- bygonez at 5-06-2013 05:13 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: koyes on  4-06-2013 12:23 AM
Looooool,don't mind the chauvinist dear....his words have betrayed him....I pity his future wife. some men are just not capable of handling that authority as a head.
Another mistake from another copy fool. You dont even reason at all nor do you ever care to know what and why she said what she said. This is the problem with you with all you A*#Ss, follow models without reason! So what makes me a chauvinist here? and which words of mine betrayed me to your best understanding? and what makes some men not capable of handling authorities as a man from your view? when you answer these questions then we can have some words, monkeys.
Posted: at 5-06-2013 05:13 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- bygonez at 5-06-2013 06:21 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Sophyrocks on  4-06-2013 01:50 AM
Exactly. Dats d difrence btw african n white men. D whites hav enforced marital laws n dats y domestic violence is a crime. African men do not value n respect women n d women dnt even help demselvs n yet dey complain of men doin dis n dat. As u see me so, i dnt knw hw to pretend to be somtin dat im nt. If im nt comfortable abt somtin i say it rada dan resolvin to use an Ak 47 rifle 2 blow up any man's brain. Ive neva tolerated cheatin i wud neva. I make sure i let any man im dating to knw exactly hw i feel abt cheating.  I say it as it is so dat d man knws exactly wat wil happen to him if he cheats n i stick to it.

You only seems to be such an active judge without thinking seeing things only in your own eyes, as if you were the only existence and trying to sqeeze out all things to fit within it and yet claiming to be plain or whatever without even thinking or knowing how or why things works or happens. What of if i happened to be the one to blow up off that fake azz brain of yours first maybe you will only have to retaliates in your grave, you see? weak ass vessels! because you are the only one in existence and with the knowledge of the Ak47 rifle. In the same little minds of yours which is never a learner as you claimed, you owns a monopoly of violence right? cow heads! Why did things happens if i may ask? Maybe luck or God, never having any cause or root from you and completely excluding you and so you have to focus on and judge everyone outside or condemning them because you have an orange or ass. WTF. What did you call a person that knows all things and never learn, maybe wise as you might think. ignorance is such an ass hole disease eating up on the foolish and the careless. learn to be real and stop playing fake ass games with your life, Egg-brained Dunderheads.
Posted: at 5-06-2013 06:21 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- bygonez at 5-06-2013 07:18 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Sophyrocks on  4-06-2013 01:55 AM
Husbands r scarce commodities? Den hw come we r hearing of women mistreatin deir husbands wen dey cheat? Why r divorced women remarryin n who r d men marryin dese women? Are d men imbeciles?

Maybe all these are what your hopes clinged on to have your arrogance upped to such a stupor. I dont have to blame you because you seemed to have compared yourselves with all these people. Why not using your lives as a guide and to judge yourself and know better than having to put hopes on or comparing other things with others? Maybe your goal have been one of maltreating a husband or remarrying a man in future after divorce. You see? You already flown yourself in the future, forgetting the moment we are in as a possible determiner of what your so called future could turn out to be. Donkey heads! When you asked what your present can give you, thats a sign of what awaits your future. I dont blame you because i see you thinking like one of those old fags that have missed their steps only to blame it on the past. Grow up punk ass kid!
Posted: at 5-06-2013 07:18 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- aghogho_ejoma at 6-06-2013 10:34 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: bygonez on  5-06-2013 05:06 AM
   First all your responses summed up what i wrote earlier about your ways of thinking and reactions to things. ACTING WITHOUT BALANCE or THINKING. Maybe i have hit your sore point and so it has to pain you so seriously as to keep talking sh*t. Why the anger in the first place? Or maybe am not such a sissy you can easily messed with. Truth they say is bitter but my advice is that you never reveal this sh*t to your prospective husband if you are truly serious about marriage or keeping one ever. Without even understanding my views you already known that i am an abusive, cheat, women beater, bla bla... a sure evidence that you are a lunkhead and cant quite read.
    Secondly, my parents taught me a good virtue that i can be proud of but am sure you might be one of those ass hole bastards out there or maybe you had one as your kid.
    Thirdly, I have already seeing how your so called culture works with over 40% of married women cheaters, most of whom their husbands are very loyal, and some turned to puppets. and despite such claim of wars against domestic violence, at least we have more number of deaths, suicides, divorce, assaults, bully, incest, bestiality, bastards, rapes, singles, family related bado acting and movies due to arrogance, single parenthood, faggots, fools mistaking arrogance for knowledge, etc. than we had in our so called wife beating or cheating society daily or yearly. and so whose policy is better now? Maybe yours, You decide if you can, knuckleheads.
    Forth...bush man is about time you enlighten your backward way of thinking!!!! bla bla...Bush girl! I am a 100% sure that i have being to much more places, have more knowledge and experience about different cultures and backgrounds, people and laws from different countries and its effects, and the world over than you ever care to know while remaining stuck in your sick ass and unfortunate villages and under manipulated laws which you saw as the only messiah or enlightenment in existence in the whole world and a must follow for all. Or maybe i have to turn into being your wife instead, or think as you want or copying your sick ass laws b4 i could be enlightened right? Because they have to be a god to everyone, stupid! learn to travel first before we can have words.
    And lastly, your final word re-confirmed my first sentence about you, a proof of my view about your ignorant and sick life. My advice for you is that any time you failed to get a result or things never worked as you wanted, examine yourself, and try to see what others saw which you never see so that you can learn, cos the world has a way of making things look lucky or hopeful to you which you foolishly got stuck in and keep expecting the lucks, getting older instead. You can help reduce the number of cheap honeypots to wayward men or the bastards in the street or single old sluts by learning to be responsible, Dumb ass Fcukheads







huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu the little bush poppy is crying somebody pls give him a napkin... old pig keep writing.
Posted: at 6-06-2013 10:34 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- bygonez at 7-06-2013 10:07 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: aghogho_ejoma on  6-06-2013 10:34 PM





huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu the little bush poppy is crying somebody pls give him a napkin... old pig keep writing.
    Grin Grin  You see? mad dog! still justifying herself the more. ...Little bush puppy... and ...Old pig. How can they all be the same, especially for the same person, when they already contradicts each other? Sure you are normal at all Huh? When does the use of napkin finally left the human race to that of the bush dogs? Maybe they are one of your bestiality produce. Mad dog on the loose! I think you loved the bush so much, and probably from there that s why it s always in use... the little bush puppy ...old pig keep writing, and so how does it all work out? Maybe they all wrote in your alien world Huh? Divided honeypot brains! I thought your head need some serious work, maybe with a chisel and hammer, that is why i started with a note first to do some work there but i have seeing that it was just blocked and nothing serious in it. Learn to make yourself the woman you are and be a wife to your man, not jumping to men s corner anyhow even with a zero knowledge about it, adding more confusion to an already existing neo mad society.
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- BlueIxora at 12-06-2013 08:34 PM (10 years ago)
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I hope they will also like it when their husbands contract HIV and pass it on to them.
Posted: at 12-06-2013 08:34 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- aghogho_ejoma at 14-06-2013 12:35 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: BlueIxora on 12-06-2013 08:34 PM
I hope they will also like it when their husbands contract HIV and pass it on to them.




lol don't mind those bush ladies majorities of them are so brainwashed thinking that men
have the right to do whatever they want and as a lady you should just keep quiet and
take all the bull sh1t. They will still learn by the time their so called husbands effect them
with deadly disease.
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- koyes at 14-06-2013 12:40 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: bygonez on  5-06-2013 05:13 AM
Another mistake from another copy fool. You dont even reason at all nor do you ever care to know what and why she said what she said. This is the problem with you with all you A*#Ss, follow models without reason! So what makes me a chauvinist here? and which words of mine betrayed me to your best understanding? and what makes some men not capable of handling authorities as a man from your view? when you answer these questions then we can have some words, monkeys.

Looooooool,I can go on and on exchanging words with people,but definitely not with condemned creatures like you. You are indeed an egoistic lunatic and the fact that you claim smartness by even dismissing your creators command makes me feel nothing but pity for you because you are indeed possessed but the painful part is that you've not realised it. SMH
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- koyes at 14-06-2013 01:06 AM (10 years ago)
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God,I thank you for creating me and making sure that I'm surrounded by God-fearing,intelligent human beings. Please continue to bless me to encounter such honest,humble people. Dear God,any one born of a woman that fails to heed to your word,that has given his soul to the devil to consume,that doesn't respect women,that believes that women should be treated as slaves or should be battered,any one that sees adultery as a right course,LORD OF LORDS,let it be that they never cross my path in reality. until they repent from their sinful ways,let them be far far away from your children so as not to lead them into the destructive path to which they are blindly going. in JESUS name I pray,AMEN!
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- koyes at 14-06-2013 02:06 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Sophyrocks on  4-06-2013 01:25 AM
hahahaha. I luv ur comment so much. Dese women interviewed r just a very small portion of millions of women we have in nigeria. So its only som1 whose brain is d size of groundnut dat wud take wat dese women said n use it to generalize odas. Dnt be surprised dat some married ones amongst dem r cheating on deir husbands. Pple r supposed to knw dat nigerians r d greatest hypocrites in d world. No be dis same women dey cut deir husbands dick if dey cheat, or put laxative or rat poison or sleeping pills or menstrual blood for deir husband food if he make d mistake of cheating? Its nt evrytin we say dat we can do dat we rily do. As u see me so, if i dare tolerate cheating, im equaly doin d same. Dis guy u replyd is obviously living in d 18th century cos he doesnt to see d rate at which divorced women r marryin. D men wey dey marry dese women be ghosts? Lolz. Dnt mind him jare. He's a learner. No be married women dey cheat lyk water nowadays? Abeg leave mata for mathias jare.

Looool,I'm just happy that even with the high percentage of selfish,dull and negative minded creatures we have in this africa,there are still responsible,decent men who have and still uphold the integrity of women,who honor their mothers,respect their sisters and other women folk. You'll never hear them speak abusively about or to women, or talk like they are so full of hate,jealousy,deceit,selfishness and backwardness. I salute those real men,that is why God always rewards them with success and decent,respectful wives and they are never bitter regarding women because they are God fearing men and they don't allow traditions of men influence their sense of reasoning. May God continue to bless those men!
Posted: at 14-06-2013 02:06 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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