IS IT PROPER TO TELL A BOYFRIEND ABOUT YOUR EARNINGS/SALARY? (Page 4)

Thank God u said "INVEST WISELY". Dat alone tells u dat in issues lyk dese, U need to be cautious. When u put in all ur efforts in a rlatnshp, d question u nid to ask urself is, "IS MY PARTNER DOING THE SAME"?  IS HE OR SHE DOING HEAVEN AND EARTH FOR ME DAT I TRULY DESERVE?? If ure putting all ur efforts and ur partner isnt appreciative of it or doesnt seem to put any effort as well, wat will u do??? Have it mind dat wen someone seems to do almost everytin in a rlatnshp to make it work, d oda partner tends to relax. somtyms, wen we arent sure of d future, we shud give a chance for d oda partner to show wat he or she has in store for u. if u decide to do all d work in a rlatnshp, ur partner will relax. D equation here isnt balanced. its only a balanced rlatnshp dat can go far. Not every man is d same.Not every man has d mentality of balancing a rlatnshp. some men wud just watch u do evrytin for dem and yet fantasize about anoda lady dat does absolutely nofin for dem. and dats y u nid to be cautious n watch ur man more dan playing the role of a mother too soon. A saying says "if u want to be treated lyk a Queen, den act lyk One". A Queen allows pple to do tins for her n if a man treats her so, she wud treat him lyk a King. Caution is d word here. well, U cud throw away the caution n come back and tell us how it worked for u.

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Posted: at 4-06-2013 04:11 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Yes you should. Boyfriend may soon be husband... so you guys needa know about each other.

Posted: at 5-06-2013 12:41 AM (10 years ago) | Hero

Foolish??? I thought we are all entitled to our opinions here.  even ur opinion will sound foolish to odas so hw foolish mine sounds isnt supposed to affect u dat much. im nt supposed to care abt dat. lolzzz. sori if u feel dat way. If throwing away caution is ur style, gud for u then. and who's talkin abt reward here?? which reward are u talking about madam?? lolzzzzzzz.

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Posted: at 5-06-2013 08:55 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Your choice.

Posted: at 5-06-2013 09:36 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 5-06-2013 10:29 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

My dear, at the end of the day, d choice remains urs. If ur intuition strongly is against telling him please dnt bother urself. Ure worrying urself ova nofin.

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Posted: at 5-06-2013 10:38 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yes

Posted: at 5-06-2013 01:22 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Did he ask?

Posted: at 11-06-2013 01:12 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 11-08-2013 12:56 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

If u luv eachother very well then why not?

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Posted: at 11-08-2013 09:21 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac