hw do u deal loosing someone u luv

Date: 19-06-2013 4:43 pm (11 years ago) | Author: ivy debbie Nebeolisa
- at 19-06-2013 04:43 PM (11 years ago)
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Dnt rilli knw wat to say to dis my gud frd who asked me dis question.so. Guys cn u jus contribute? Tx.

Posted: at 19-06-2013 04:43 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
- katung44 at 20-06-2013 07:27 AM (11 years ago)
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You didn't specify whether it is losing a person love as in he or she leaves because they don't love you anymore or losing them to death. In both situations, you need to start the healing process with a sensible assessment of the situation by seeing if the broken relationship was your fault. But, even with that, there is really nothing you can do if the other party wants to leave you. You also need to find a way of telling yourself that you have to go on with your life and please, allow yourself sometime to recover. During this period, take off those love colored glasses and look at the situation in its true light. Just keep telling yourself 'you are stronger than any heart ache' until it sinks in. During your recovery period, go on a holiday, do something you love or enjoy doing and talk to someone you trust anout it. That will help you have closure about the relationship. During the recovery, avoid relationships with people who remind you of the person who left you or any other person for that matter. After this get to work, nature they say 'abhors a Vacum' so get to work, get a hobby. Don't compare the new life you are starting to the old one or you may get depressed. Just take things one day at a time with a promise that you will love your new life and you will love again.
Posted: at 20-06-2013 07:27 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- franel at 21-06-2013 04:49 PM (11 years ago)
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At times we give up so easily when it isn't over. Patiently try to figure out if the relationship is in crisis and needs to be fixed or if it's badly damaged and beyound repair (depends on individual)

Entire water of the sea can't sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship.
Similarly, negativity (pain, anguish, sorrow, e.t.c) of the world can't put you down unless you allow it to get inside you.
In order to negate the boredom of loosing someone you love from getting intense cheer up yourself with things you cherish most.
Imagine smiling after a slap in the face. Then think of doing it twenty-four hours a day.

It's never the end of the world because, there isn't any difficulty (including the pain of losing someone) that has overtaken someone which is not common to man but God is faithful who also make a way of escape

Have you ever noticed that Royal Royce and Mercedes have any commercials. Ans: NO..Why?
Reason:
They know the value of their product & that brings the customers to them.
Lesson:
When you know your value, you don't have to beg people to be in your life, to be friends with you, to spend time with you or to love you. Be confident in who you are, just remember NOT everyone can handle LUXURY!

No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope, that's our real disaster.

Some People Come In Your Life As BLESSINGS,
And Others Come In Your Life As LESSONS...!!
Posted: at 21-06-2013 04:49 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- franel at 21-06-2013 04:52 PM (11 years ago)
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Furthermore, never make your most important decisions when you are in your worst moods. Wait patiently for the storm to pass and the spring will come.
Posted: at 21-06-2013 04:52 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 25-06-2013 08:54 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: ivygal on 19-06-2013 04:43 PM
Dnt rilli knw wat to say to dis my gud frd who asked me dis question.so. Guys cn u jus contribute? Tx.
my dear, its not easy at all but with time it be all over. People have different ways of getting over people, just do things that make you happy and move on. Try convincing yourself Its not worth it to hold on, there are lots of beautiful people in the world, you can't kill yourself because of one person who didn't care about you
Posted: at 25-06-2013 08:54 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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