I Barely Knew My Husband Before I Married Him; He Is Too Over Controlling, I Wa (Page 3)

till death do u part so u have to take is easy find a way out u want to leave him to were (1) u have no job (2) the man u are leaving  him for may be worst my advice to u is stay put look for help for ur husband , the devil u know is better than the angel u don't know

Posted: at 22-01-2014 06:23 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

Kofi say so via nokia 3310

Posted: at 22-01-2014 08:07 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

Good and honest advice

Posted: at 23-01-2014 01:42 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Nothing GOOD is within Religion and NO RELIGIOUS persons is hearing from God. God send His ONLY BEGOTTEN SON for us to do HIS COMMANDMENTS "If ye love me keep MY COMMANDMENTS" and for us to BELIEVE on Him "For God so loved the world that he gave His only begotten son that whomsoever BELIEVETH in Him shall not perish but have EVERLASTING LIFE". One who is always praying is doing so because their PRAYERS is not being ANSWER. So they spend their time TALKING instead of spending their time doing the LAW where the Lord is. You are married do you know that if you go and DIVORCE that means you shall commit ADULTERY if you go MARRY AGAIN? You better stop giving your husband CHRISTIAN DOCTRINE and turn your life over unto Christ the Lord. Read Hosea 6 do the Fasting and then start reading the Book of John. this is the book that outline the things the Lord want from those who Believe on Him. I wish you all the best in your MARRIAGE just remember you have TWO CHILDREN within this UNION. Think about them and not about YOURSELF. Show your LOVE in the Lord and Let Him turn your marriage from the dust it is within. Hugs

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Posted: at 23-01-2014 03:03 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Why must u leave dirty plates in d sink?i hate anytn dirty around me,,,so watch ur self nd change some certain tins

Posted: at 23-01-2014 06:30 AM (10 years ago) | Hero

Spoilt lady, looking for an easy way out, u think marriage is boyfriend and girlfriend, when u just wake up one day and decide to call it quits, noo you should sit up, and all those faults your husband is complaining about, try to work on them, you know women re loaded with lots of faulty faults, discovered daily, and this pisses men off, if i meet ur husband now and hear his story then we see the truth..  a lot of sacrifice is made in marriage, and not honey licking pot, women re too confused and lost in this life...

Posted: at 23-01-2014 08:06 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

my dear man will always be a man.let me give you little talk abt my self. I got married to my wife but before we got married i was living abroad.always come home for exmas. so it happened that we both decide to get married after 3yrs of courtship. to cut the long story short after the marriage my wife started showing me some attitude  that i wasn`t comfortable with .I called her we talk but after the talk she still didn`t change...the truth of the matter is she wants to have an equal right.i told her it will not be possible. because my father was the man and my mother never took that from him so i see no reason you as my wife would want to takke the headship from me. she naggs she talk to me anyhow she doesn`t even regard my ppl as anything she fights me when ever we have argument.well i got tired and we just have to call it quit. after 1yr of marriage.so my dear if you really want your man to be that wonderful husband you crave for then you have to be submissive and do whatever he wants you to do not what you feel its good for you.

Posted: at 23-01-2014 10:01 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

 

Posted: at 23-01-2014 11:05 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Your spouse or wife is not an housemaid & no servant,u guys are in unionship,a marriage relationship not a marriage enslavement.If this woman is not happy in that marriage please & please make good plan to get a job & leave that control freak alone b4 he kills u,u are d one living with him not us if u perceive he's becoming consistently angry & frustrated please & please just leave b4 he does anything stupid.Because u guys met in d church don't mean shit,he doesn't seem like a gentleman from ur statement & he might have anger management problem.Most of d comments b4 me are disgusting & irritating.Let me tell u a short story & experience;i & my girl received a Nigerian man & one day we had a flat tire & this guy was just sitting in d car while I & my girl were trying to change d tire,until I asked him to come down he wanted a woman change a tire,that will never happen,not here.I wash dishes,sweep d floor,cook & take d trash out without any complain & I have done these things over a year now but believe me I was very stubborn & hard headed but I observed & learn and stop been a controlling jerk.The Nigerian culture & tradition needs a review in d aspect of marriage & social settings,if traditional killings can be removed from our culture & tradition then it time to update the aspect that makes Nigerian men think the women should be their subjects.Thats cheating & disrespect to womanhood.Any nation that doesn't accomodate women human rights are always backward & rated under-developed or developing countries e.g India,Nigeria,pakistan e.t.c.

Posted: at 23-01-2014 11:07 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

And u have not said what role u played to arrive at dis situation, 'wife'?

Posted: at 23-01-2014 02:02 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming