I Barely Knew My Husband Before I Married Him; He Is Too Over Controlling, I Wa (Page 2)

Well, here is some additional tips:
The deed has been done now, is to carefully profound solution
The Most Important Time to Hold our Temper is...
When the Other Person Has Lost It. After the intensity of the fire has greatly reduce then, we can reason with them.
There could be so many reasons for his odd behavior, track them down and work towards them.
His own reasons and yours are vastly different from each other. In this case, look out for some of your rules you need to bend because you are trying to win his happiness and I am sure that he will be happy if you acknowledge him as the head.
And most especially try to make sure that the communication flows.
The secret of health for both mind and body is...
Not to mourn for the past,
Not to worry about the future,
Nor to anticipate troubles....


My dear, a  woman with is not a lazy woman! Do you know that some men are naturally irritated by pregnant women, and after child-bearing! Some just want to be the boss, not a lover! Check i can assure you that some hypocrites are out there doing everything to move in, i trust our babes! I have some commited brothers in my ministry, but get close them and see who they really are, the ladies are not different! My dear, hidden battles are dangerous, the enemy so close!
Cry to GOD for your rescue and he will direct your step!
...But to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly!
Never compare your love story with those in the movies, because they are written by scriptwriters. Yours is written by God.
Don't wait for the perfect moment. Take the moment and make it perfect. If not, it will be all screwed up.

I think arriving at the conclusion that someone is "good" because he or she is "a good Christian and prayerful" is not a valid reason to want to marry that person!

We have all based our love for something on what our eyes see - and for some it has led to happiness however for others it has not.

Do not give up - he most probably is only showing you what he learnt from his own upbringing - his father being the "boss" of the house and his mother the "obedient" wife

He just needs someone to let him know that ruling his household like a company boss is not the answer to proving to you or himself that he is a man.

Showing love, happiness, joy and peace to your wife (or husband if you are a woman) does NOT make you weak - whatever other people say.

Good luck.

I think your husband is like me 4 years ago, I'm a nice person but lack some patience and experience to manage my wife, presently married to my wife six year ago, she is English ( white) but I complain about everything , if she goes out, dress wise, general house cleaning I won't stop whining until I got fed up of everything. But my inward self told me to leave her to it, basically I let her off to do her own routine in her own way, time. To my surprise it works and we still together and we had three kids together, I think if you call him and have a crisis talk, it's a good start but if there is no changes, try to ignore him for some time, I think he will change.
In light of everything , I think your husband will mature into full good loving, caring husband eventually, it's just matter of patience .

Ol boy see lecture. I slept halfway

many men are like that i think