Sex and romance As a footballer and as a popular figure, one must learn to cope with every situation that comes his way. Concerning my social life, I’m currently into a relationship and I don’t want to be distracted. I want to be focused and keep on praying that everything works out fine so that I can settle down with the same person I’m into a relation with. I’m not carried away with my brother’s wealth. No doubt girls come around me but I remain focused on my career. Mikel too is into a relationship at the moment right there in the United Kingdom. When you stick to one person at a time, I think it saves you a lot of trouble. But when you jump from one today to another tomorrow, you create room for every other girl to come in. We are not on that track at all.
Mikel won’t marry a white lady No, no, no! We cannot advise Mikel to marry a foreigner knowing full well what it involves. We’ll make him realize that if he gets married to a foreigner, whatever comes out of the marriage, he should be prepared to take it. I wouldn’t want my brother to be a victim of a failed marriage. Even when I visited him in London, I warned him about white ladies. I told him that even if he’s having a relationship with a white lady, it should stop at that; he should not allow such relationship to end up in marriage. I told him whenever he wants to settle down in marriage, he should come down to Nigeria and pick a wife. If he’s thinking towards the direction of getting married to a white lady, we are not in support of that. My parents are not in support of him getting married to a white. If he’s in a relationship, that’s just a relationship.
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Posted: at 8-07-2013 02:37 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I would have loved to know the families reason for their stance against Mikel marrying a white lady? Is it due to cultural reasons - or pure racism?
Many black people have married outside their race- both men and women and have had many, many years of hsppiness! Has Mikel had a bad experience with white women we know nothing about.
If a white footballers brother had said his brother would not marry a black lady- he would be accused of being a racist!
Mikel just concentrate on your football and hope for the best when you find Mrs Right - whatever her background.
Posted: at 8-07-2013 02:58 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
IN OTHER WORDS, YOU ARE GOD WHO DECIDES WHO MARRIES WHO? YOU NEED TO WAKE UP IN A MODERN WORLD AND STOP SLEPPING. IS IT A CRIME TO MARRY A WHITE GIRL? THERE ARE GOOD WHITE GIRLS AND THERE ARE BAD ONES AS IN BLACK GIRLS GOOD AND BAD TOO.
IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE INDIVIDUAL. YOU CAN ONLY PRAY HE DOESN'T FALL IN LOVE SO DEEP WITH A GOOD WHITE GIRL OTHERWISE YOUR WISH IS REVERESED TO BE THE CASE.
TRUE LOVE IS SO BLIND IT MAKES YOU MADLY IN LOVE. THERE ARE BLACK MEN WHO MARRIED WHITES GIRLS AND THEY ARE ALL HAPPY. THERE ARE BLACK GIRLS WHO MARRIED WHITE MEN AND THEY ARE HAPPY. BLACK ON BLACK, WHITE ON WHITE, THAT’S NOT THE POINT, THE POINT IS HAPPINESS.
WE ARE LIVING IN AN EVER CHANGING TIME. YOU HAVE NO OTHER OPTION THAN TO GO WITH THE FLOW. MY BROTHER, IT IS CALLED ''TREND'' ALL THAT REALLY MATTERS IS HAPPINESS, RESPECT, UNDERSTANDING, SUPPORT AND MOST OF ALL ''GODLINESS''
Posted: at 8-07-2013 03:30 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
interpo777 at 8-07-2013 04:20 PM (11 years ago) (m)
if he can be able to get a worthy igbo gul to marry,ie a wifey material then the idea is guud but if not let him marry the White lady he is relationship with chikina
Posted: at 8-07-2013 04:20 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I think the decision is Mikel's decision, he can marry whosoever he loves to(Black,Yellow,white, Green. Scheiße egal). Coming home to Nigeria won't guarantee him of getting a good wife,the probability that he would get a gold digger as a wife is bigger than the probability of him getting a good one (he's a star.we all know he is rich, so it will be almost impossible for a girl to turn down his proposal even if the love is not there). marriage is not about skin colour,is a about two individuals who accepts each other,agrees with each other and ready to learn new things even if the culture is different..A lot of people are married to people from their village and still the marriage didn't last.. Mikel's brother should think properly next time before granting any interview..
Posted: at 8-07-2013 04:23 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming