There follow some pointers to what is happening in their lives instead of love:
1. Men who are looking for their mother.
I don’t know whether the mothers or the men are to blame for this. The men are looking to be fed, have their cleaning done and be generally molly-coddled.
2. Men who are too absorbed in themselves.
It’s their life, their hobbies, their friends, their ambition, their children, their… Somehow their women doesn’t seem to come into the equation. Men are used to running the world and filling their lives with activities and occupations. Nowadays men have even taken the role of father so seriously that they can forget that their woman is more than a mother.
3. Men who are too on mission.
This is slightly different from the previous men who can’t love because woman love their men to be on mission. The focus and dedication of a man on mission is an amazing sight. Sometimes it just goes too far. Sometimes the climber climbs one too many mountains and kills the relationship in the process, Sometimes the businessman goes on one too many trips abroad and loses sight of home. Men need to find a balance on this.
4. Men who see themselves as alpha.
These are the ones that cause me so much pain. They are men who have a misplaced idea about men needing to be the alpha-males. Yes, dogs do it, but don’t have the intelligence we have. They chase and conquer women to show how great they are. In the process they just show how lacking they are in any emotion, understanding or even humanity.
5. Men who just want a pal.
These are the sad ones who spend their lives going to the pub or the football game. They remember the great times with their pals when they were young and just want it to continue. Occasionally it works when the woman becomes one of the lads, but this never lasts, then the man is left wondering what happened. Sometimes men just need to realise they need to grow up.
6. Men who are afraid of intimacy.
Men often have difficulty dealing with intimacy, particularly when a relationship appears to be out of their control. The interesting part of this is that men also have difficulty acknowledging that they have difficulty dealing with intimacy. They usually sublimate the emotions into actions that they can understand. This can show itself as aggression or even abuse, but generally just results in sullenness and withdrawal.
Men who have this difficulty need help to overcome their fear and learn to become a normal part of the world.
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