GOBE! Sensitive Situation: My Daughter Is Pregnant For Her Elder Sister’s Hubby

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(m) at 16-08-2013 12:56PM (6 years ago)

(9960 | Hero)

«§» 16 August 2013

A True Life Story

There is fire burning in my house. As a matter of fact, my husband has sent me out because of it. I currently stay with a friend. I have two daughters; the first one got married about five years ago and is yet to have a child.

When my second daughter finished her National Youth Service, I urged her to go and keep her sister company until she gets a job. When after a year, she still hadn’t been able to secure a job, her elder sister decided she should begin to trade. She gave her the initial capital with which she traveled to Dubai to buy things.

My first daughter’s job as an external auditor is a demanding one, which sometimes took her out of the home for more than a week. To help her manage her home, she had a house-help. Subsequently, my younger daughter always complain about the house-help which forced her elder sister to relinquish the girl (house-help).

The house-help told my husband that my younger daughter and her sister’s husband were having an affair. Thus, my husband demanded that I should immediately order my younger daughter to leave her sister’s house but instead, I gave a deaf ear and I didn’t bother to investigate rather accused the house-help of trying to destroy my daughter’s house.

I really don’t know what happened but my younger daughter became pregnant and didn’t bother to inform anybody until her elder sister chanced on the results of her pregnancy test.

According to my elder daughter, in the process of her trying to find out who her mystery boyfriend is, since the one she knows is outside the country, she became very rude to the elder sister. Somehow, it led to them exchanging words, which eventually ended in the elder one slapping the younger one.

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It was during this heated exchange that the younger one told the elder sister, not to ever try it, as they were now mates. It was at that point she told the sister that she was pregnant for her husband.

Hearing to my suggestion that they should keep the baby made my husband conclude that I was privy to my younger daughter’s decision to sleep with the husband of her elder sister. My pleas to my husband to understand that as a mother, I simply wanted the best for my daughters fell on deaf ears.

For this reason, I have been sent packing while my younger daughter too had also been sent out of her sister’s house.

I am really confused on how to proceed from here - what will be the fate of my daughters and myself? Besides, I want to go back to my husband’s house. I miss not being with him.


~Bisoye.



jossy4reall (m) at 16-08-2013 01:26PM
(19839 | Hero)

no comment for now......I wil kip meditating until part2 is out

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bombgist (m) at 16-08-2013 02:24PM
(175 | Upcoming)

THE ELDER SHOULD BE CASTRATED Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

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brooklyn312 (m) at 16-08-2013 02:33PM
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ok
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angesco (f) at 16-08-2013 02:38PM
(6688 | Gistmaniac)

First all the marriage between your elder daugther and her husbsnd should be annulled as he has committed adultery.

Secondly, the now ex-husband should be charged to court for rape.

Thirdly, a DNA should be carried out on the baby when delivered.

Next, the ex husband should be made to pay child support for the upkeep of the baby and mother.

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Shegzan (m) at 16-08-2013 02:46PM
(6771 | Gistmaniac)

Kk, dey all shud be charged 2 court!

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marshaldkid (m) at 16-08-2013 03:01PM
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paulohking (m) at 16-08-2013 03:03PM
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will comment later
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osamabinladin (m) at 16-08-2013 03:05PM
(13447 | Hero)

This is a serious case ooo, but i Will be right back
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osarobo62 (m) at 16-08-2013 03:10PM
(11725 | Hero)

why should your husband punish you for the sins of your daughter Huh?
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angesco (f) at 16-08-2013 03:18PM
(6688 | Gistmaniac)

Quote from: angesco on 16-08-2013 02:38PM
First all the marriage between your elder daugther and her husband should be annulled as he has committed adultery. The younger sister should be named as the person he had the illicit affair with and both should be charged.

Secondly, the now ex-husband should next be charged again to court. This time for rape.

Thirdly, a DNA should be carried out on the baby when  delivered.

Next, the ex husband should be made to pay child support for the upkeep of the baby and mother.

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lovecommander (m) at 16-08-2013 03:23PM
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I blame you for what transpired, b/c if you have acted when your husband said you should, you would not have gotten this level. The second daughter should put to bed, and after that DNA test should comfirm the paternity. If the paternity test is positive, you the mother of both women should take responsibilty of raising that child. The elder sister must be blamed for given fish to a rat for safe keeping. Your sister or not no reach there.
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gmarley (m) at 16-08-2013 03:30PM
(2826 | Gistmaniac)

she is not the first neither will she be the last
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lonelygod (m) at 16-08-2013 03:40PM
(18 | Newbie)

Crazy
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Ifemylove (f) at 16-08-2013 03:42PM
(4622 | Gistmaniac)

WTH?Huh???
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Wysetots (m) at 16-08-2013 03:51PM
(8130 | Hero)

The house-help told my husband that my younger daughter and her sister’s husband were having an affair. Thus, my husband demanded that I should immediately order my younger daughter to leave her sister’s house but instead, I gave a deaf ear and I didn’t bother to investigate rather accused the house-help of trying to destroy my daughter’s house.


You made a mistake.........
1. Why did you not hear the house-help out?
2. Why did you not listen to your husbands order?

I'm sure you kept mute 'cos you were probably receiving benefits from both parties.
Well.....now, Yawa Don Gas.

Honestly? You did not act as a good mother.....Just pray God remedies this situation...cos you brought it upon yourself and your Daughters.
I think you should start by talking to your 1st Daughter,Try and comfort her....as she's dealing with more than what you're dealing with.
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winace (f) at 16-08-2013 03:59PM
(30152 | Addicted Hero)

Hmmmmmmm complicated
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micc (m) at 16-08-2013 04:13PM
(9483 | Hero)

Ok
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Noble12 (m) at 16-08-2013 04:14PM
(4817 | Gistmaniac)

wetin make some men no dey Respect dia selves even for once?
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ebiteck (m) at 16-08-2013 04:18PM
(2747 | Gistmaniac)

story my mother told me
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