Please i need help urgently, especially from ladies. I was so nice to this kid from Iraq, and i even spent time trying to teach him some English words, now i'm in trouble. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and i can't do it! The problem at hand is that, i don't know what reason to give when i tell him "no", so i have been hiding for the past 6 days now, and i just feel so trapped. Any smart ideas on how to go about it?
Posted: at 28-06-2009 07:40 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Please i need help urgently, especially from ladies. I was so nice to this kid from Iraq, and i even spent time trying to teach him some English words, now i'm in trouble. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and i can't do it! The problem at hand is that, i don't know what reason to give when i tell him "no", so i have been hiding for the past 6 days now, and i just feel so trapped. Any smart ideas on how to go about it?
Not sure but you might love him, i think everyone deserves a chance, just 1 chance is enough
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 28-06-2009 07:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
KOSI_THE_CHAMP at 28-06-2009 08:08 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Tell him that it's forbidden where you came from ,for a woman to befriend a stranger ,that if you do the two of you will die,be serious when telling him this ,and make him feel that u would have love to befriend him if not this forbidden thing,
why i said this is cos i have seen where a thing like this happened if u tell him no just like that there will be problem but that is if you are in his country but if his in Ur country u ve got nothing to worry about,see yaaa!
Posted: at 28-06-2009 08:08 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Tell him that it's forbidden where you came from ,for a woman to befriend a stranger ,that if you do the two of you will die,be serious when telling him this ,and make him feel that u would have love to befriend him if not this forbidden thing,
why i said this is cos i have seen where a thing like this happened if u tell him no just like that there will be problem but that is if you are in his country but if his in Ur country u ve got nothing to worry about,see yaaa!
Please where are you from?
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 28-06-2009 08:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
vivian07 at 28-06-2009 08:12 PM (14 years ago) (f)
@ poster, why do u feel trapped ? ...may be u kind of have a thing for him....cos if u dont, i dont know why its difficult for u to say NO to him, and stand on ur ground. ...or is there more to it ?
Posted: at 28-06-2009 08:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
KOSI_THE_CHAMP at 28-06-2009 08:15 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dguy on 28-06-2009 08:09 PM
Quote from: KOSI_THE_CHAMP on 28-06-2009 08:08 PM
Tell him that it's forbidden where you came from ,for a woman to befriend a stranger ,that if you do the two of you will die,be serious when telling him this ,and make him feel that u would have love to befriend him if not this forbidden thing,
why i said this is cos i have seen where a thing like this happened if u tell him no just like that there will be problem but that is if you are in his country but if his in Ur country u ve got nothing to worry about,see yaaa!
Please where are you from?
may i know your reason for asking please
Posted: at 28-06-2009 08:15 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Please i need help urgently, especially from ladies. I was so nice to this kid from Iraq, and i even spent time trying to teach him some English words, now i'm in trouble. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and i can't do it! The problem at hand is that, i don't know what reason to give when i tell him "no", so i have been hiding for the past 6 days now, and i just feel so trapped. Any smart ideas on how to go about it?
Hmmm .... Y can't you do it?....The answer to the question is wat you should be givin him...Go straight to him and tell him "why"...and stop being a coward!!
Never hold a grudge against me cos while u re wasting ur time doin that, I wil be out dancin ma ass off!!!...so save ur grudges for pple that care...
Posted: at 28-06-2009 08:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
KOSI_THE_CHAMP at 28-06-2009 08:33 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: rihane on 28-06-2009 07:40 PM
Please i need help urgently, especially from ladies. I was so nice to this kid from Iraq, and i even spent time trying to teach him some English words, now i'm in trouble. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and i can't do it! The problem at hand is that, i don't know what reason to give when i tell him "no", so i have been hiding for the past 6 days now, and i just feel so trapped. Any smart ideas on how to go about it?
Quote from: dguy on 28-06-2009 08:20 PM
Cos the culture that dont welcomer strangers is wierd and i will like to know where the culture emanated from?
Listing my dear she does not need to tell him the truth ,and there is no culture that does not welcome strangers,is just that she needed a smart way to kick him off,u can reread what she wrote so u can understand better,mean while am from Nigeria where u come from.
Posted: at 28-06-2009 08:33 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
vivian07 at 28-06-2009 08:37 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: osaomo on 28-06-2009 08:28 PM
Quote from: rihane on 28-06-2009 07:40 PM
Please i need help urgently, especially from ladies. I was so nice to this kid from Iraq, and i even spent time trying to teach him some English words, now i'm in trouble. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and i can't do it! The problem at hand is that, i don't know what reason to give when i tell him "no", so i have been hiding for the past 6 days now, and i just feel so trapped. Any smart ideas on how to go about it?
Hmmm .... Y can't you do it?....The answer to the question is wat you should be givin him...Go straight to him and tell him "why"...and stop being a coward!!
word !!
Posted: at 28-06-2009 08:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Please i need help urgently, especially from ladies. I was so nice to this kid from Iraq, and i even spent time trying to teach him some English words, now i'm in trouble. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and i can't do it! The problem at hand is that, i don't know what reason to give when i tell him "no", so i have been hiding for the past 6 days now, and i just feel so trapped. Any smart ideas on how to go about it?
Hmmm .... Y can't you do it?....The answer to the question is wat you should be givin him...Go straight to him and tell him "why"...and stop being a coward!!
word !!
Word!!
Be yourself
Posted: at 28-06-2009 08:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
PreetyInstinct at 28-06-2009 10:37 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Recoverd on 28-06-2009 09:55 PM
What is so difficult in opening up 2him the way you have just opend up 2us?
Maybe her problem is because he is from Iraq
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 28-06-2009 10:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Please i need help urgently, especially from ladies. I was so nice to this kid from Iraq, and i even spent time trying to teach him some English words, now i'm in trouble. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and i can't do it! The problem at hand is that, i don't know what reason to give when i tell him "no", so i have been hiding for the past 6 days now, and i just feel so trapped. Any smart ideas on how to go about it?
u said kid right? i wonder how a kid would ask u to b his gf..
Posted: at 29-06-2009 12:46 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Echezona at 14-07-2009 10:04 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Kosi the champ,is that ur own suggestions? Let me ask u this question.if u happens 2 be the iraq guy & u truely luv the girl & the told u exactly what u suggested, what will u do?
Posted: at 14-07-2009 10:04 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Please i need help urgently, especially from ladies. I was so nice to this kid from Iraq, and i even spent time trying to teach him some English words, now i'm in trouble. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and i can't do it! The problem at hand is that, i don't know what reason to give when i tell him "no", so i have been hiding for the past 6 days now, and i just feel so trapped. Any smart ideas on how to go about it?
u said kid right? i wonder how a kid would ask u to b his gf..
my neighbour's 8 year old wants to marry me, lol. The way their brain works is different.lol.
Posted: at 14-07-2009 11:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
myragonza at 15-07-2009 04:48 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: rihane on 28-06-2009 07:40 PM
Please i need help urgently, especially from ladies. I was so nice to this kid from Iraq, and i even spent time trying to teach him some English words, now i'm in trouble. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and i can't do it! The problem at hand is that, i don't know what reason to give when i tell him "no", so i have been hiding for the past 6 days now, and i just feel so trapped. Any smart ideas on how to go about it?
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