My girl friend and my salary (Page 2)

Hi every one.I need to tell you this so as to read from you guys out there and see if there are people who will appreciate this reasonably and not with sentiment.
I am a salary earner of approximately 100k monthly.I have a girl friend(whom i am hoping i could marry),an aged mother,a car,a two bed room apartment at Surulere,younger ones and cousins.I had to list all so as for you guys to understand the whole idea.This girl friend of mine blifs am a stingy person,(that she had said time without number) because anytime she ask me of money,she doesn't get what she asked but not that she doesn't get at all.Now she has come up with a means of getting money from me by telling one story or the other about her health running to between 13-17k monthly.
If she is getting that per month,what do i do care for my car(very essential),my feeding,current further academic pursuit,my clothings,my monthly house rent(mindful of the area),utility bill(gas,electricity,water rate e.t.c),my aged mother,savings,younger ones and cousins who comes around me.
Is it a crime/wrong to have a girlfriend,own a car,live in flat,e.t.c bcos am earning 100k?

Hi every one.I need to tell you this so as to read from you guys out there and see if there are people who will appreciate this reasonably and not with sentiment.
I am a salary earner of approximately 100k monthly.I have a girl friend(whom i am hoping i could marry),an aged mother,a car,a two bed room apartment at Surulere,younger ones and cousins.I had to list all so as for you guys to understand the whole idea.This girl friend of mine blifs am a stingy person,(that she had said time without number) because anytime she ask me of money,she doesn't get what she asked but not that she doesn't get at all.Now she has come up with a means of getting money from me by telling one story or the other about her health running to between 13-17k monthly.
If she is getting that per month,what do i do care for my car(very essential),my feeding,current further academic pursuit,my clothings,my monthly house rent(mindful of the area),utility bill(gas,electricity,water rate e.t.c),my aged mother,savings,younger ones and cousins who comes around me.
Is it a crime/wrong to have a girlfriend,own a car,live in flat,e.t.c bcos am earning 100k?