A friend of mine was very in love with this guy, after some years, she got pregnant and d guy started saying all sort of stupid things like he does not want to marry from other tribe but, the mother of d guy insisted that d girl does not have an abortion. After 5months d guy impregnated other girl and proposed to her. my friend was living with d boy's mother in their family house bcos her family wasn't happy with her. After d guy got married, he left the house to live with the bride.Guess what....He does not want any guy to come close to d girl,he still goes to his family's house to sleep with her, what surprise me most is my friend still sleeping with him. And when i called her to speak with her about the issue, she tells me she is in love with him and no matter what happened, she can't leave him.What do you guys think? Isn't it abnormal?
Posted: at 2-07-2009 04:22 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
A friend of mine was very in love with this guy, after some years, she got pregnant and d guy started saying all sort of stupid things like he does not want to marry from other tribe but, the mother of d guy insisted that d girl does not have an abortion. After 5months d guy impregnated other girl and proposed to her. my friend was living with d boy's mother in their family house bcos her family wasn't happy with her. After d guy got married, he left the house to live with the bride.Guess what....He does not want any guy to come close to d girl,he still goes to his family's house to sleep with her, what surprise me most is my friend still sleeping with him. And when i called her to speak with her about the issue, she tells me she is in love with him and no matter what happened, she can't leave him.What do you guys think? Isn't it abnormal?
pathic to hear.......... so u ani't supposed to generalise the stuff ....... we pray 4 the dudu 4 a change of heart coz this is serious ...........
Posted: at 2-07-2009 04:32 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
When i started reading i thought it was something serious , i don't see how you can blame the guy for being selfish when its your friend that clearly does'nt have a head. How the hell did she get pregnant in the first place, there are condoms, then spermicide, birthcontrol pills, let's say the sex was even an accident, there's the morning after pill as u take the walk of shame. She deliberately got pregnant because she was in love only to realise the guy no see her as wifey only test drive material and she's still sleeping with him, seriously who wan blame the guy coz i no fit.
Posted: at 2-07-2009 04:46 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
When i started reading i thought it was something serious , i don't see how you can blame the guy for being selfish when its your friend that clearly does'nt have a head. How the hell did she get pregnant in the first place, there are condoms, then spermicide, birthcontrol pills, let's say the sex was even an accident, there's the morning after pill as u take the walk of shame. She deliberately got pregnant because she was in love only to realise the guy no see her as wifey only test drive material and she's still sleeping with him, seriously who wan blame the guy coz i no fit.
I know you 're right and i 've concluded that the girl gat some serious problem which needs to be solved. I have tried occasionally to put some sense into her but to no avail. So i decided to put this here if i can get better advice.
Posted: at 2-07-2009 05:10 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
When i started reading i thought it was something serious , i don't see how you can blame the guy for being selfish when its your friend that clearly does'nt have a head. How the hell did she get pregnant in the first place, there are condoms, then spermicide, birthcontrol pills, let's say the sex was even an accident, there's the morning after pill as u take the walk of shame. She deliberately got pregnant because she was in love only to realise the guy no see her as wifey only test drive material and she's still sleeping with him, seriously who wan blame the guy coz i no fit.
I know you 're right and i 've concluded that the girl gat some serious problem which needs to be solved. I have tried occasionally to put some sense into her but to no avail. So i decided to put this here if i can get better advice.
we got not to blame d she, she was jus tryin to save her man.that's all. but da dudu sucks............... God 4gve him i pray.......
Posted: at 2-07-2009 05:17 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
A friend of mine was very in love with this guy, after some years, she got pregnant and d guy started saying all sort of stupid things like he does not want to marry from other tribe but, the mother of d guy insisted that d girl does not have an abortion. After 5months d guy impregnated other girl and proposed to her. my friend was living with d boy's mother in their family house bcos her family wasn't happy with her. After d guy got married, he left the house to live with the bride.Guess what....He does not want any guy to come close to d girl,he still goes to his family's house to sleep with her, what surprise me most is my friend still sleeping with him. And when i called her to speak with her about the issue, she tells me she is in love with him and no matter what happened, she can't leave him.What do you guys think? Isn't it abnormal?
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Posted: at 2-07-2009 07:06 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
A friend of mine was very in love with this guy, after some years, she got pregnant and d guy started saying all sort of stupid things like he does not want to marry from other tribe but, the mother of d guy insisted that d girl does not have an abortion. After 5months d guy impregnated other girl and proposed to her. my friend was living with d boy's mother in their family house bcos her family wasn't happy with her. After d guy got married, he left the house to live with the bride.Guess what....He does not want any guy to come close to d girl,he still goes to his family's house to sleep with her, what surprise me most is my friend still sleeping with him. And when i called her to speak with her about the issue, she tells me she is in love with him and no matter what happened, she can't leave him.What do you guys think? Isn't it abnormal?
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Posted: at 2-07-2009 09:47 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Your friend should place some value on herself, not even a village girl would act that way...Wefin sef? Where on planet earth are Girls still this naive?
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Posted: at 2-07-2009 09:52 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@ poster, why are u bothered ? the girl in question is catching her fun .. let dem be...thats her definition of love.
Coincidence!! I'm watching a Nigerian movie now named ''Definition of love'' and what the guy is trynna do is as dumb as what the poster's friend is doing. See why I don't believe this story....Nigerian films.....You just have to know one when you come across it.
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 2-07-2009 10:02 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Your friend should place some value on herself, not even a village girl would act that way...Wefin sef? Where on planet earth are Girls still this naive?
Posted: at 2-07-2009 10:10 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Your friend should place some value on herself, not even a village girl would act that way...Wefin sef? Where on planet earth are Girls still this naive?
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Posted: at 2-07-2009 10:17 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Some people just can't be saved and no amount of advice is going to change their mind. Just wait till she hits rock bottom and be there to comfort her, that's all u can do as a friend.
Posted: at 3-07-2009 11:27 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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, i don't see how you can blame the guy for being selfish when its your friend that clearly does'nt have a head. How the hell did she get pregnant in the first place, there are condoms, then spermicide, birthcontrol pills, let's say the sex was even an accident, there's the morning after pill as u take the walk of shame. She deliberately got pregnant because she was in love only to realise the guy no see her as wifey only test drive material and she's still sleeping with him, seriously who wan blame the guy coz i no fit. 
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